Abundance in the Land of Women

Episode 17 – How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep?

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Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells when it comes to interacting with women you're attracted to?

Do you know exactly what you want to say, but hold back because you're not sure "how it'll land?"

Or when you see a girl you like, are you completely bombarded with intense thoughts and feelings that you freeze up, staying where you are, never bridging that distance between the two of you, all the while stealing a glance, or two, or three...or more?

Being perceived as a 'creep' is one of the biggest fears that holds men back from interacting with women, and so from the potentiality for much more that lies between them.

How do you communicate sexual desire, without being creepy? At its core, it requires some self-examination into what lies beneath the surface-level desire for her body parts, without forgetting that she is also a fine piece of ass! Listen to today’s conversation for a couple of practical ways that you can start to walk this razor-thin line successfully.

Today's discussion unpacks a reality of the modern dating world that almost no one is talking about, yet is key to a fulfilling interaction between a man and a woman.

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below. Has today's conversation given you new insights into expressing your desire authentically?

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Abundance in the Land of Women

Episode 16 – Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely

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If you’re reading this, then like Zan and Jordan, you’re probably a seeker of the finest treasures in life–of freedom, truth, love, connection and grace.

And if you’re reading this, then I imagine that sometimes, you feel secretly lonely.

This is reality for beautiful people. The qualities that you seek–that make you stand apart from all other men–these are the same qualities that make women truly beautiful…and therefore…secretly lonely, subtly outcast by other women en masse.

Zan and Jordan share an exploration of this condition in today’s episode. In it, Jordan asks the question, “How does a man get to know a truly beautiful woman?” The answer is to free yourself of judgement and to express the plain truth of who you are, where you came from and where you’re going.

The true beauties will self-select in along the way.

Let us know what you think of today’s discussion in the comments section. Do you see how beautiful, inquisitive, generous and loving women, just like men, are secretly lonely (and yearning for men of the same quality to share their world with)? We hope this conversation inspires you to connect with some truly beautiful women.

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Episode 15 – How Quickly To Make Things Intimate With A Woman?

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One astute viewer of the podcast recently commented on a difference he noticed in Zan and Jordan’s overall styles when it comes to engaging with women.

The crux of Zan’s approach lies in honouring the immediate connection he feels with a woman and allowing it to flourish unrestrained. As he famously wrote in The Alabaster Girl, "In every single one of the long-term, loving relationships I have experienced, we were intimate on the very first night." For Zan, there’s not even a hint of hanging around in the ‘maybe zone'.

Jordan finds equal richness in the gradual unfolding of connection. He sees each phase of getting to know a woman as containing its own particular magic and opportunity for growth.

Listen to today’s discussion and see which of these spirits resonates most with you. Is there wisdom in both?

Ultimately, what we’re talking about here is having life-giving brushes with beauty in their purest form–opportunities for your core existence as a man to be permanently transformed.

It’s all described in much more detail inside.

Share your thoughts and experiences of the like with women, in the comments. Has today's discussion sparked new questions about your own journey with women? We're listening and may address your insights in a future episode!

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Giddy-up!

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Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides off into the sunset. Contact Zan Perrion personally to inquire about his incredibly effective one-on-one Laser Coaching. Find him here: https://arsamorata.com/lifementoring/

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The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

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