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THE (IN)FIDELITY FACTOR Points to Ponder Before You Cheat
- Narrated by: Elda M. Lopez
- Length: 3 hrs and 41 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Conflicted about the role of (in)fidelity in relationships?
Hurt? Angry? Confused?
Need simple, sound advice?
The author can relate. She's been on both sides of the fence and has learned a thing or two - or three. Relationships can be tricky. Infidelity prevention is key. Authentic, nonjudgmental, conversational, informative, concise, and witty, this book is easily heard and understood. It promotes reinvigorated education, self-awareness, personal accountability, and growth.
Find help negotiating mindsets and minefields via commentary, personal stories (including the author's own), examples, statistics, and surveys for examination. Guidelines are highlighted to underscore the benefits of preserving integrity and respect before falling victim to the harmful backlash - and whiplash - of infidelity.
Relationship joy can be achieved through forethought and conscious steps taken toward realizing this goal. No more cheat, defeat, repeat. This is your call to action, no matter which side of the fence you find yourself. Get reading, get healthy, get happy. This is where the change-up begins!
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Packed with insight
I actually have the hard copy of this book and after discovering that it is now available through Audible, I wanted to listen to the author tell her story. I appreciate the humor when she used children fables to describe a very complex subject. I actually experienced infidelity in two of my relationships. The first time it was I who was cheated on; the second time I was the cheater. It is impossible for me to forgive myself even after my ex said he had forgiven me. He had recognized his part in the failure of our marriage. But this is a deep scar in which I definitely learned a life-long lesson. I encourage everyone to listen to Ms. Lopez's words whether or not you have cheated or have been the victim. There is a calmness in the narrator's voice that encourages us to look at ourselves and at our relationships. I am now in a committed relationship wherein we both have learned to communicate with each other by consistently addressing any issue and listening to one another. This is one of the self-help books in my library that I will reach for again.
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Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives
- By: Laura Schlessinger Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Laura Schlessinger Ph.D.
- Length: 2 hrs and 52 mins
- Abridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 135
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 85
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 84
Following the tremendous success of her New York Times best sellers, Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives and How Could You Do That?!, Dr. Laura Schlessinger, the conscience of talk radio, now addresses the stupid things men do that diminish their lives and happiness. With real-world examples from her radio show and strikingly honest letters from her male listeners, her book reveals that many men demonstrate a level of sensitivity and insight that will surprise most women.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Loved it!
- By Ethan on 03-21-18
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Anatomy of an Affair
- How Affairs, Attractions, and Addictions Develop, and How to Guard Your Marriage Against Them
- By: Dave Carder
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 127
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 107
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 106
When it comes to adultery, never say, "It won't happen to me." Just when you think your marriage is safe from adultery is when you may be the most vulnerable. With eye-opening stories, clinical insights, and up-to-date data, Dave Carder reveals what adulterers learned the hard way - and what they want the rest of us to know to save us the pain.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Hard to relate, as a non-evangelical
- By NANCY HALL on 01-18-19
By: Dave Carder
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Friends, Partners, and Lovers
- What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work
- By: Kevin A. Thompson
- Narrated by: Kevin A. Thompson
- Length: 5 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 58
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 51
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Story5 out of 5 stars 51
Great marriages don't just happen - they're made, intentionally, day by day. Yet most of us enter the covenant of marriage thinking that the role of spouse will be easy, natural, effortless. Rarely is this true. In fact, the number one cause of divorce isn't adultery or finances or disagreements. It's apathy - a lack of intentional emotional, physical, and mental investment in the relationship.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Amazing!
- By Nathan Nguyen on 05-14-23
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Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts
- Nine Questions to Ask Before and After You Remarry
- By: Les Parrott, Leslie Parrott
- Narrated by: Les Parrott, Leslie Parrott
- Length: 5 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 136
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 114
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 112
Authors of the award-winning Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts, Les and Leslie Parrott focus their groundbreaking, frontline expertise on helping couples face the unique challenges of remarriage with faith, perseverance, and hope. This comprehensive guide explores nine critical questions you need to ask before - and after - you remarry. This audiobook will help you and your partner cut through the conflicting advice and find clarity for your unique situation.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Workbook needed
- By MomOf5Boys on 09-20-16
By: Les Parrott, and others
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How Could You Do That?!
- By: Dr. Laura Schlessinger
- Narrated by: Barbara Caruso
- Length: 8 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 37
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 31
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 31
In her lively pull-no-punches style, Dr. Laura takes on the moral dilemmas of our time: from the mindless pursuit of pleasure and immediate gratification to taking the easy way out when those actions produce ugly or uncomfortable life-altering consequences. She demonstrates in no uncertain terms that personal values are never someone else's responsibility but your own and why choosing not to honor them actually compounds unhappiness.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very direct
- By Tessakay on 01-17-20
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The Conversation
- How Black Men and Women Can Build Loving, Trusting Relationships
- By: Harper Hill
- Narrated by: Kevin Free
- Length: 7 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 302
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 228
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 224
New York Times best-selling, award-winning author, actor, and motivational speaker Hill Harper invites listeners to join the conversation about the breakdown of the African-American family. The black community of past generations found strength in families, but today’s black children have less than a one in three chance of being raised in a two-parent household. Harper’s search for answers to this phenomenon is an enlightening and empowering journey.
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5 out of 5 stars
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~*AWESOME*~
- By Nevada on 08-13-10
By: Harper Hill
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Not 'Just Friends'
- Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
- By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.D., Jean Coppock Staeheli
- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 15 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 571
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 487
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 483
Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.
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1 out of 5 stars
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WORST to Read/Listen to if you are well past D Day
- By K on 02-04-17
By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.D., and others
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The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating
- By: Andy Stanley
- Narrated by: Stu Gray
- Length: 4 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 601
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 528
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 526
Single? Looking for the "right person"? Thinking that if you met the "right person" everything would turn out "right"? Think again. In The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating, pastor and best-selling author Andy Stanley explores the challenges, assumptions, and land mines associated with dating in the 21st century. Not for the faint of heart, this practical and uncensored guide takes a fresh approach to dating and love in the modern era by turning the search for "the one" or "Mr./Mrs. Right" back onto the searcher themselves.
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5 out of 5 stars
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No-Nonsense Honesty, with a True Biblical Wisdom!
- By Suzanne on 04-24-16
By: Andy Stanley
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The Truth about Cheating
- Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It
- By: M. Gary Neuman
- Narrated by: Jonathan Davis
- Length: 6 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 139
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 105
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Story4 out of 5 stars 105
M. Gary Neuman shares the findings of his research with unfaithful husbands that turn the conventional wisdom about extramarital affairs on its head: It's not all about sex, he's not just a pig, and he really does feel terrible about what he's done. So why do men do it? Neuman reveals the emotional roots of male infidelity, explains how men experience and express their emotions, and lays out a simple series of actions you can take to ensure that your husband never strays.
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1 out of 5 stars
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More blaming the victim.
- By Tara davis on 09-15-20
By: M. Gary Neuman
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The State of Affairs
- Rethinking Infidelity
- By: Esther Perel
- Narrated by: Esther Perel
- Length: 11 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 4,292
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 3,712
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Story5 out of 5 stars 3,675
An affair: It can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. Adultery has existed since marriage was invented, and so, too, the prohibition against it - in fact it has a tenacity that marriage can only envy. Iconic couples' therapist and best-selling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns with a groundbreaking and provocative look at infidelity, arguing for a more nuanced and less judgmental conversation about our transgressions.
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5 out of 5 stars
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A compassionate approach
- By Anonymous User on 10-16-17
By: Esther Perel
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Out of the Doghouse
- A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating
- By: Robert Weiss
- Narrated by: Timothy Andrés Pabon
- Length: 4 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 235
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 197
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 198
It's all about cheating - the biggest threat to intimacy. Typically, men are good at creating rifts in relationships but terrible at mending them, especially after they've repeatedly betrayed their partner through sexual infidelity. For the most part, cheating men are both intimacy-challenged and empathy-challenged, and, as such, they lack the skills needed to overcome the damage wrought by their infidelity. Robert Weiss has spent over 20 years in the treatment of sex and intimacy issues. He's helped both cheating men and their betrayed spouses....
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4 out of 5 stars
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Dude: if you are confused, listen to this.
- By Jeff M on 08-01-20
By: Robert Weiss
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The Alpha Female's Guide to Men and Marriage
- How Love Works
- By: Suzanne Venker
- Narrated by: Sherry Farmer-Hebert
- Length: 5 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 100
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 91
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 91
The Alpha Female's Guide to Men and Marriageshows women who have a dominating personality how to love a man. America is in love with the alpha female. She's the quintessential modern woman--assertive, razor sharp, and fully in control. Her success in the marketplace is undeniable, a downright boon to society. But what happens when the alpha female gets married?
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1 out of 5 stars
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Sorry, not good
- By JMB on 11-04-17
By: Suzanne Venker
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Real Relationships
- From Bad to Better and Good to Great
- By: Dr. Les Parrott, Dr. Leslie Parrott
- Narrated by: Dean Sluyter, Sasha Harris
- Length: 5 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 35
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 31
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 30
In this updated edition, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott dig below the surface to the depths of human interactions, offering expert advice and practical tools for improving the most important aspect of human life: Relationships. Designed for college students, young adults, singles, and dating couples, this cutting-edge audiobook teaches the basics of healthy relationships, including friendship, dating, sexuality, and relating to God. Newly updated and expanded to include the latest research on relationship building and vital information on social networking.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Really Good Book
- By La Madre de Isa on 11-12-17
By: Dr. Les Parrott, and others
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30 Lessons for Loving
- Advice from the Wisest Americans on Love, Relationships, and Marriage
- By: Karl Pillemer Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Sean Pratt
- Length: 8 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 74
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 67
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 67
Based on the most detailed survey of long married people ever conducted, 30 Lessons for Loving shows the way to lifelong, fulfilling relationships. The author, an internationally renowned gerontologist at Cornell University, offers sage advice from the oldest and wisest Americans on everything from finding a partner, to deciding to commit, to growing old together.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Our Elders Really are the Experts!
- By Cher Finnan on 12-29-15
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Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts
- Seven Questions to Ask Before - and After - You Marry
- By: Les Parrott, Leslie Parrott
- Narrated by: Les Parrott, Leslie Parrott
- Length: 4 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 381
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 316
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 313
More than a million couples can't be wrong! And with this updated edition of their award-winning book, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott help you launch lifelong love like never before. This is more than an audiobook - it's an experience. Get ready for deeper intimacy with the best friend you'll ever have. Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts, in more than 15 languages, is the most widely used marriage prep tool in the world.
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1 out of 5 stars
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basically just a long advertisement
- By J. Sullivan on 07-06-16
By: Les Parrott, and others
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Marriage Be Hard
- 12 Conversations to Keep You Laughing, Loving, and Learning with Your Partner
- By: Kevin Fredericks, Melissa Fredericks
- Narrated by: Kevin Fredericks, Melissa Fredericks
- Length: 6 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,477
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 1,348
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Story5 out of 5 stars 1,344
Growing up in the church, Kevin and Melissa Fredericks were taught endless rules and expectations around dating, sex, and marriage, but not a lot about what actually makes a relationship work. There were conversations that they didn’t know they needed to have, deep-rooted fears that affected how they communicated, and seasons of change that put their marriage to the test.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Vulnerability Matters
- By A on 09-19-22
By: Kevin Fredericks, and others