• Stop People Pleasing!

  • How to Set Boundaries, Start Saying No, and Take Control of Your Life
  • By: Derek Walker
  • Narrated by: Alex Freeman
  • Length: 4 hrs and 11 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (26 ratings)

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Stop People Pleasing!

By: Derek Walker
Narrated by: Alex Freeman
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Publisher's Summary

Feeling Like a Push-Over? It’s Time to Change That Using Powerful Tips From This Life-Changing Book - Stop People Pleasing! - by Derek Walker.

Ever feel like you’re the type most people easily take advantage of?

Do you want to become more assertive when it comes to establishing and honoring your boundaries?

Do you wish you’d have more people respect you for who you are?

If you said YES to any of these questions, you’re in the right place!

Telling people NO can sometimes feel like the most guilt-invoking thing to do. Sure, we’re all people-pleasers in one form or another...but what if your people-pleasing tendencies come at the expense of your own wellbeing?

Would you rather have people walk all over you?

Would you rather keep the peace and say nothing than assert your needs?

Would you rather stay meek and feel like your life is not your own?

Of course, you don’t!

That’s why Stop People Pleasing!, by renowned life coach Derek Walker, is perfect for you!

In this game-changing guide, people-pleasers like you will:

  • Become better and do better for yourself and others by cultivating a deeper awareness of the psychology of your people-pleasing tendencies
  • Set healthier boundaries around people and start living a happier, more empowered life that’s free from emotional manipulation
  • Become more assertive when it comes to things you want, and learn to say NO when someone crosses a boundary without feeling guilty
  • Be steadfast in guarding your boundaries and learn how to express yourself in a healthier, less destructive way
  • Create a game plan for when the going gets tougher...even if you feel like nothing you do is working to your advantage
  • And so much more!

Even if you’ve always felt like you couldn’t stand up for yourself, this guide will help you change that!

If you want to learn how to set boundaries, start saying no, and take control of your life, then don’t miss a chance to do better for yourself!

©2021 Derek Walker (P)2021 Derek Walker

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Knowledge is power

The focus, as always in his books is on practical exercises and techniques, rather than excessive theory or demonstrations of how clever and outstanding the author is. This is definitely a necessary, go-to manual for any kind of self-development work, whether you are a beginner or highly advanced in that area.

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Feel like a new person

It produced a rapid shift in my life in a short time. It can work for anyone willing to take consistent action. This book has helped me through a tough period in my life and I feel like a new person.

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Great tool

This a great tool to add to your arsenal of beat practice. the world around us can feed us the wrong information. Yet, this audio tool is a reminder how we need to plug into the right sources of information we feed our subconscious.

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Extremely useful for people

I really enjoyed this book. This book is outstanding. It would be better with tips or tricks or exercises to practice. It is extremely useful for people of all ages and across the entire spectrum of shyness and social awkwardness. Overall a good book.

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Too Basic

I couldn't get through the book. Not because of narrator which was pleasant but the content. You must be living in a rock or have zero social skills to find it useful.

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AMAZING!!!

Truly, this audiobook hit it on the mark. It felt like I was listening to my friend give me the best pieces of advice to help me “stop people pleasing.” It’s such an engaging audiobook! Each chapter gives valuable insight into a particular people-pleasing tendency and ways to help combat the tendency. I loved the little anecdotes from the author’s life because they were relatable and funny! Near the end of the book, the author tells us more about her life and personal journey with people pleasing, which was great because I know the author is relatable. This book is chalk full of information and great tips! I was even able to hone in on some personality traits I have that are a reflection of people pleasing. This audiobook is also not super long and the narration is very sweet! I can’t wait to practice some of the things I learned. So enjoyable, and I highly recommend!

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Amazing book!

This audiobook is a must buy for all people-pleasers and pushovers!! I know, because I’m one. It’s hard but this book taught me a lot. I’ve learned so much and will definitely implement it all. The narration is amazing as well. I’m so glad I’ve listened to this! Thank you to the awesome author, Savera.

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Great book!

Especially as a female, I always apologize, the word "sorry" is just a normal word I say all the time. This is the case with many people, I encounter many females who do exactly that. Some males also do that, but more with females. You want to listen to this book, truly stop pleasing people. Great book, great writing, and great narration. Awesome job!

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Good start

This audiobook is a good starting point for people who are lost and uncertain what to do first. I was at the same point until my mom got me this audiobook. It helped me understand what dark psychology is and sparked my interest in studying it further.

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Highly recommended

This audiobook has provided a great framework for moving past my social anxiety and I highly recommend it. This is my go-to audiobook for anything social anxiety-related and I've referred this to everyone I have met that struggles with the subject. It's well written, easy-going, not complicated and I found I did remember the parts that were relevant to how I was feeling at the time.