Stop Being Nice

The Dark Secrets Behind Extreme Confidence

De: Shafira Pauley

Narrado por: Soft Tone Studios

Reclaim your power. Say goodbye to people-pleasing. Unlock the confidence to speak up, set boundaries, and get what you want.

Tired of being walked over, underestimated, or overlooked because you're “too nice”? Do you sense manipulation around you but can’t quite put your finger on it or protect yourself from it? Ever wish you had the confidence to stand up, speak out, and take control of your life, without feeling guilty?

There comes a moment when being nice stops being a virtue and starts becoming a trap. Maybe it began with saying yes when you meant no. Or a relationship that drained you. Or a job that rewarded silence over self-respect. You’ve played it safe, avoided conflict, and tried to be likable and kind. But deep down, you know: being “nice” is costing you your voice, your power, and your peace.

I was there. Always agreeable, always accommodating. Until I started seeing the patterns of how people used kindness as a weapon and manipulation as a game. That’s when I decided to learn the rules they were playing by. And everything changed.

Stop Being Nice exposes the hidden truths of dark psychology and how to protect yourself from them. With practical tools and sharp insights, you’ll build unshakable inner strength and ethical influence. Whether you're escaping toxic dynamics or stepping into your power, this book is your guide to becoming unapologetically confident.

You might be thinking, “Can I really use these tools without becoming someone I hate?” Yes, and that’s the point. This isn’t about becoming ruthless. It’s about becoming resilient, confident and aware. It’s about understanding the shadow so you can protect your light.

It’s time to stop being nice. And start being powerful. Take the first step toward a more confident, empowered you. Order your copy today!

©2025 Shafira Pauley (P)2025 Shafira Pauley

no more nice guy

I use to have this problem, now i gotten better but still need to stop being too nice. A good read on this secret and how to handle it. A lot of people are push over and it not a good thing in life. Sometime you need to be strong and stop being nice.

Breaking Free from People Pleasing

I loved about Stop Being Nice is how it shines a light on the hidden cost of always trying to please others. The book helped me see how being overly nice was draining my energy and robbing me of my confidence. The strategies for setting boundaries are practical and easy to apply in real life. It’s eye-opening, motivating, and empowering.

Learn to Set Boundaries

I hate being a pushover. Sometimes being too nice will make people take advantage of your kindness. Some people can have manipulative behaviors and use that to their advantage. The strategies included in this audiobook are using nlp, dark psychology, and the like to become aware of those manipulative tactics, and how to prevent them from happening to you. I'm not a big fan of using nlp and some other tactics here because they themselves can be manipulative. Be confident, sure, but don't be a meanie yourself. NLP can be a form of wake hypnosis in that it uses hypnotic language to alter the other person's behavior. In other words, you manipulate them by saying certain things a certain way. I do like the setting boundaries and being assertive chapter though. Sometimes it's best to just say no and hold your ground.

Breaking Free from the Trap of Niceness

This book opened my eyes to how often I’ve let others take advantage of me under the excuse of being “nice.” I liked most was the author’s honest way of describing the traps we fall into when we avoid conflict and keep saying yes. It’s a real confidence booster and gave me the courage to reclaim my voice in everyday situations.

Confidence Without the Guilt

This book gave me exactly what I was looking for a way to stop being a pushover without losing my kindness. I liked how the author explains manipulation in such clear, relatable ways, which made me realize how often I had overlooked it in my own life. It’s a practical guide to building confidence while still being true to yourself.