90% of us think we're good listeners — but we retain about 20% of what we hear. In this Squiggly Shortcut, Sarah shares five practical ways to close that listening gap, starting with the one thing most of us never even notice.

🎯 What You'll Learn

– Why listening isn't just about words — and what to pay attention to instead

– How the pressure to respond is the biggest enemy of good listening

– Why repeating back the words someone uses can unlock a whole new conversation

– What a no-interruption meeting feels like — and why it's worth trying with your team

– The simple summarising habit that will make you a noticeably better listener overnight

📚 Resources Mentioned

Episode 319 — Listening with Kate Murphy

You can also find Kate Murphy's book I Never Said I Was a Good Listener via your usual bookshop.

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What if the way you read could transform how much you actually learn, remember and use? In this episode, Helen and Sarah borrow brilliance from Ryan Holiday's video How to Read Like a Pro — and add a few rules of their own.

From building an anti-library (the books you'd never normally pick up) to treating your books like they're meant to be used, not preserved, this is a practical and personal exploration of how to get more from your reading. Helen also unveils her new Post-it® Note system, and there's a genuine debate about whether folding a page corner is an act of ownership or an act of disrespect.

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🎯 What You'll Learn

– What an anti-library is and why reading outside your comfort zone changes how you think

– How to read with a pen and Post-it® Notes in a way that actually sticks

– Why rereading a book you love can be more valuable than picking up a new one

– The five rules for reading nonfiction more intentionally — plus Helen and Sarah's personal additions

– Books Helen and Sarah would both reread and recommend right now

📚 Resources Mentioned

How to Read Like a Pro — Ryan Holiday (please swap in direct link if you have it)

Unreasonable Hospitality — Will Guidara

Right Kind Wrong — Amy Edmondson

Uncharted — Margaret Heffernan

The Wonder Box — Roman Krznaric

Mash-Up — Ian Sanders

How to Have a Good Day — Caroline Webb

The First 90 Days — Michael D. Watkins

Essentialism — Greg McKeown

Toby Sinclair on LinkedIn

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Does work feel a bit knotty right now? In this Squiggly Shortcut, Helen shares three practical ways to find your footing when everything around you feels uncertain — whether that's a restructure, a shifting role, or just the general noise of a complicated economic moment.

🎯 What You'll Learn

– Why focusing on what you do know is the best antidote to feeling overwhelmed by what you don't

– How to use uncertainty as a trigger for learning — and how to build a simple learning list that puts you back in control

– Why "mental time travel" — fast forwarding 12 months into the future — can help you get unstuck and decide what to do differently right now

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In this episode, Helen and Sarah explore how to 'Kaizen your squiggly career', borrowing brilliance from the Japanese philosophy of continuous improvement.

They discuss why big career changes can feel overwhelming and how focusing on small, manageable improvements can help you build momentum without triggering fear or overthinking. Along the way, they introduce four key Kaizen ideas and translate them into simple, actionable tools for your working week.

From spotting where you might be waiting rather than creating, to eliminating wasted effort, to building in better reflection habits, Helen and Sarah share how to move from intention to action in a way that actually sticks.

If you’ve ever felt busy but not progressing, unsure where to focus your energy, or stuck in cycles of overthinking, this episode will help you take small steps that lead to meaningful change.

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Episode 547

(00:00) Introducing Kaizen for careers

(02:00) What Kaizen actually means (and why it works)

(06:30) Gemba: why observation beats speculation

(11:15) Muda: eliminating waste in your work

(17:45) Are you busy… or actually productive?

(22:10) The risks of “waiting” in your career

(25:10) Hansai: the power of reflection

(29:00) Plan, Do, Check, Act (PDCA) explained

(34:00) Why reflection is often overlooked

(38:00) Standardising what works

(41:00) Small changes that create big impact

📚 Resources Mentioned

Kaizen: The Japanese Method for Transforming Habits by Sarah Harvey - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Kaizen-Japanese-Method-Transforming-Habits/dp/1529005353#:~:text=Kaizen%20by%20Sarah%20Harvey%20brings,working%20style%2C%20preferences%20and%20personality.

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In this Squiggly Shortcut, Sarah shares how to bring small, low-pressure moments of play into team days, without falling into the trap of forced fun. She shares why play matters for learning, connection, and wellbeing, and offers simple, practical ideas that teams can try in just a few minutes.

Episode 546

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📚 Resources Mentioned

Play by Stuart Brown - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Play-Shapes-Brain-Imagination-Invigorates/dp/1583333789

The 100 Year Life by Lynda Gratton - https://www.100yearlife.com/

Humor, Seriously by Jannifer Aaker and Naomi Bagdonas - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Humour-Serious-Business-Superpower-Work/dp/0241405939

Episode #441 How to fit more play into your day - https://youtu.be/hSsiRr0WXWE

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In this episode, Helen and Sarah borrow brilliance from a talk by Lord Michael Hastings at the London Interdisciplinary School about leading responsibly in an uncertain world. The conversation sparks the question: what happens when cynicism creeps into our careers?

They explore how everyday thoughts like “there’s no point applying", ” “the system is rigged,” or “nothing will change anyway” can quietly stall progress in a squiggly career. Instead of staying stuck in that mindset, Helen and Sarah share practical ways to shift from cynicism to a more proactive and generous approach.

If you’ve ever felt frustrated with work, doubtful about opportunities, or tempted to disengage, this episode will help you replace cynicism with curiosity, action, and generosity.

Episode 545

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(00:00) How Cynicism Shows Up in Your Career

(01:54) The London Interdisciplinary School

(06:35) Common “cynical” thoughts at work

(11:34) The danger of the cynicism echo chamber

(13:47) Small actions add up

(17:53) Learning from people who think differently

(25:05) Why generosity matters at work

(29:00) The power of the five-minute favour

(31:41) Finding ways to stay grounded

📚 Resources Mentioned

LIS - https://www.lis.ac.uk/

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In this Squiggly Shortcut, Helen shares three simple ways to boost your motivation when you’re stuck in a “knotty moment” at work. Whether it’s unexpected feedback, a tricky project, a difficult relationship, or even feeling stuck in the wrong role, these situations can quickly drain your energy and momentum. This episode gives you practical, in-the-moment ideas to help you reset, regain a sense of control, and keep going even when things feel hard.

Episode 544

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In this episode, Helen and Sarah borrow brilliance from the psychology of attachment styles and explore what this concept can teach us about working relationships. Sparked by a Harvard Business Review article on managing insecure leaders, they unpack the four main attachment styles and what they might look like in the workplace: secure, anxious, avoidant-dismissive, and fearful-avoidant.

If you’ve ever wondered why certain working relationships feel easy while others feel surprisingly tricky, this episode will give you a useful lens for understanding behaviour and adapting in ways that help you work better together.

Episode 543

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(00:00) Attachment styles at work

(01:14) The four attachment styles explained

(09:13) Helen and Sarah reflect on their own styles

(22:20) How secure styles show up at work

(25:06) Managing anxious behaviours

(29:01) Avoidant-dismissive patterns and how to adapt

(34:18) Avoidant-fearful behaviours and building trust

📚 Resources Mentioned

How to Manage an Insecure Leader (Harvard Business Review) https://hbr.org/2026/03/how-to-manage-an-insecure-leader

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