UpDating

How to Date Out of Your League

By: Leil Lowndes

Narrated by: Joyce Bean

Length: 5 hrs and 35 mins

Publisher's summary

You need a unique set of skills to get to the heart of your extraordinary mate

Following on the heels of Leil Lowndes's bestselling book How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You, UpDating shows you how to attract a mate who once seemed out of your league. Written in her trademark straight-shooting style, Leil gives you techniques not found anywhere else, such as how to get:

• A Gorgeous Partner: Don't swoon too soon. Fabulous-looking folks actually like someone better when they seem unimpressed at first.
• A Wealthy, High-Class Partner: Decorate your home with class, not crass. You'll learn why a TV or the wrong type of carpeting in your living room can knock you out of the running. In fact, take the "How Classy Is Your Home?" quiz to see where your dwelling stands on the totem pole.
• A Principled Partner: Don't get caught in one teensy little white lie. One fib and your credibility goes out the door, and the potential mate with integrity soon follows.
• An Interesting, One-of-a-Kind Partner: Just don't do anything "normal." Leil shows you how to be a desirable "nut" who will win the hearts of those creative types.

Best of all, you'll learn to make the qualities you want in others become a part of your own life. You'll learn to like yourself better, and so will everyone else. And that's probably the biggest benefit of all.

©2004 Leil Lowndes (P)2015 Brilliance Audio, all rights reserved.

Practical tips presented in a humorous way

Highly recommended. A lot of good stories, that make it easier to relate to in your personal life.

good insights

the book has many good insights both about men and women as they search for relationships. the stories about individuals that the author has known really brings home in a poignant way key points about how to present yourself and how to understand the actions of others.

Awesome!! A MUST Have!

This was an awesome listen. I learned a lot about myself and the energy that i put out in the universe in order to attract my desired mate.

Leil Lowndes is God

Probably not my all time favorite of hers, but very interesting nonetheless. I really liked the focus on Becoming the one to find the one.

It was interesting

Overall interesting to read. Will continue listening onto other books and apply all knowledge learned.

can't stop listening

Tells it how it is! without al the politically correct talk.
Great info, fun to listen to, great book about dating.

Insightful Hunting Skills

I found the parenthetical citations most helpful. Most relationship books are either fact or story based, this novel however, provides both.

Great philosophy. Good advice for men. Stellar advice for women

I enjoyed the multiple studies and life experiences that Leil gives. The introduction chapters are the most important, and presents the philosophy that drives the data used in the second half of the book.

As a male, I’m mainly concerned with finding a very attractive woman with character who shares one or two interests with me. I don’t care about how much money she has or where she came from. Leil has one chapter about finding someone who is really attractive. And one chapter about character. The other 5 or so chapters are dedicated to dating someone who is rich and/or upper class. Her tips in those sections are very helpful but I’m not interested in them. Very fun to learn about them though

Must Listen

This book is well written and very informative. I enjoyed hearing the anecdotes and tips. It was also narrated well. If you would like to date up, I highly suggest listening to this audiobook.

Interesting but lacking

I liked the new approach to dating. Good food for thought but I need more.