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Publisher's Summary

Since the dawn of civilization, men and women have been magnetically and irresistibly drawn together into romantic relationships, not so much by what they see, feel and think, but more by invisible forces. When individuals with healthy emotional backgrounds meet, the irresistible love force creates a sustainable, reciprocal and stable relationship. Codependents and emotional manipulators are similarly enveloped in a seductive dreamlike state; however, it will later unfold into a painful seesaw of love, pain, hope and disappointment. The soul mate of the codependent's dreams will become the emotional manipulator of their nightmares. Listeners of the Human Magnet Syndrome will better understand why they, despite their dreams for true love, find themselves hopelessly and painfully in love with partners who hurt them. This audiobook will guide and inspire both the layman and the professional.

©2013 CMI Education Institute (P)2013 Ross Rosenberg

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  • ST
  • Chapel Hill, NC
  • 08-04-14

Really helped me understand codependency

Would you consider the audio edition of The Human Magnet Syndrome to be better than the print version?

I'm not sure - haven't read it in print but I do feel I would've had a harder time feeling as engaged had I read the print version

What was one of the most memorable moments of The Human Magnet Syndrome?

I remember realizing that the selfish nature of the alcoholic I was involved with was described to a T, meaning that it wasn't just me being critical of them or imagining how badly I was treated which helped me feel that the end of the relationship was truly for the best

Which character – as performed by Todd Reinhardt – was your favorite?

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Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

A couple of lines made me cry when I realized the person I had invested so heavily in was and never will be capable of returning my affections and that I was giving WAY more than was deserved

Any additional comments?

I think this is really helpful resource for anyone struggling with codependency (both platonic and romantic) and needing some logic as a guide. I think breaking it down into psychological contexts can help define and give structure to what otherwise feels like the losing side of emotional warfare.

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A MUST listen!

One of the best out there! It's a scary realization but this book was very helpful and informative. Highly recommended.

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Everyone should listen to this book!

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

I recommend everyone listen to this book. It not only explains personality traits and why one is attracted to another but also explains the generation before and then the effect a personality trait has on their own children. I understood a lot of what I was doing to my own children, thinking I was being a good mom, but enabling them to become either narcissistic or codependent. It was a life changer. I'm listening to it a third time and each time I learn more and more about my actions and how it may effect my children. Please read!

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Good content, but writing needs work

I really liked the concepts in this book, but I found some parts tedious. The author has a tendency to over explain himself and the process he's using to describe and define behaviors.

While it's described as being for professionals and clients, it's definitely much more geared for therapists.

If you're looking for an understanding of how and why someone (or you) gets hooked on people who hurt you in the same ways, you'll get that here. What you won't get is direction on what to do about it.

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Claudia Riecken

Surprisingly complete and insightful, the best cover on the survivors needed endeavor to change inside, after not only getting rid of abusers, but indeed, of the abused inside of us. Attract love. Self love and be brave. Thank you Ross!

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Dissapointed

Human magnet concept well explained, but I think it could have been done in 5 chapters. I was expecting a lot more on practical advice and tools - even if those were to be applied repetatively over many years. I felt left having more insiht into the mechanisms involved but with no tools to change these patterns.

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Entertaining truth

I used to have problems with narcissists... no more! Read this book and you'll know much of what you need. For more knowledge turn to 2 timothy 3 in the bible.

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one of the best

loved the author analysis and explanations, I highly recommend this book for people who struggle in relationships due to narcs parents abuse.

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hated this book with a passion.

author characterises Codependents as weak, submissive and helpless while promoting his disproven theory.

damaging read, he quoted a lot of outdated data.

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I couldn't get past chapter 6

I feel like this book is the narrator figuring out himself and there is a ton of repetition and not much meat to this.

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  • Ingríd Fáro
  • 07-29-14

I am so happy I have found this book in audio!

What did you like most about The Human Magnet Syndrome?

I never knew how nurturing and healing knowledge can be. I have firstly watched Ross Rosenberg videos on youtube when I discovered my suffering and toxic relationships were attached to codependency... so i am in this healing path... breaking FREE soul journey! HIGHLY and DEARLY recommend this book. It is clearly written from someone who truly cares... and when we are hurting we need this!

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  • JP
  • 08-25-15

Defining enlightenment

Excellent book. Provides clear definitions and examples to understand the messages.

Also very helpful to understand people and relationships between them.

I highly recommend this book.

Thank you.

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  • Graham Lawton
  • 01-01-18

Enlightening & essential reading for anyone living or dealing with narcissistic abuse

Great place to start recovery from narcissistic abuse Before reading this book I wasn't clear on the why and how my relationship was so grossly dysfunctional nor who was abusing who, the years of gas lighting, blame, and emotional torture had me confused. Was I really the reason my relationship had failed when I'd given so much of myself to my partner? This detailed book, whilst sometimes repetitive and quite technical to the layman, provided the answer I needed. It has enough clarity that I now have the answer I sought and the understanding that I, as a co dependant HAVE contributed to the dysfunctionallity of my relationships. I am now clear and ready to start my own recovery and transformation from high co-dependency. I also have the enthusiasm and belief that for the co-dependant there is hope. The aha moment comes towards the end of the book. Midway I wasn't sure what, if any, help this book would bring, but quite astonishingly, once the logic and understanding starts to grow ALL of the answers fell into place. This book is not a course for recovery or healing as you might expect, this book lays the foundation for this by helping the co-dependant understand in detail what he or she is and why this happens. Once the logical explanation was realised I felt a huge sense of relief and had the energy to look for the treatment I need to break the cycles and develop myself out of co-dependency and find the happiness I crave.
Audiobook works well but the quote references do get in the way of the detail on occasion. Ross offers courses for recovery on his website, I'm contemplating taking his course as a follow on step, I will update this review with a note on how well this fits.

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  • Natalie savage
  • 04-29-17

amazing!!!

fantastic read! very insightful, thought providing and easy to grasp concepts.
I highly recommend this book to counsellors psychotherapists and it's about time social workers understood this stuff.

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  • Matt
  • 01-31-17

Interesting read

Very insightful and helped me a lot. Found it a bit repetitive at times and the voice, at some instances emotionless and monotone. But this has helped me a lot.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 07-14-17

eye opening

this book has really opened my eyes to the reality of the narcissistic codependent relationship and the fact that the things I am going through are real and not imagined. thank you Ross.

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  • Leis
  • 06-24-17

Badly narrated

The narrator sounds computer generated and I found it really hard to keep my concentration on the book. There really wasn't anything that I've not read before about attraction theory but I was concerned by the authors suggestion that people needed magnetic attraction.

I stopped listening in the chapter that discussed people who found each other physically attractive, had the same values and interests but no immediate spark walk away. This isn't helpful in a book which is likely to be targeted toward co-dependants or those who have been in relationships with abusive or personality disorders partners and are trying to explore why their spark is only triggered by unavailable partners.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-26-17

not recommeded

poor narrator not recommended for those early in recovery post discard when narc with someone else the detail only upsets you maybe further down the line in your recovery

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  • Inna
  • 03-07-16

Healing Helpful Points into the right Direction

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Yes, because it explained things which we really don't stop and dig deep to understand it.

What did you like best about this story?

Explanation why certain connections happen

What about Todd Reinhardt’s performance did you like?

Not bad

If you made a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

Unhealthy Love

Any additional comments?

I wish the author would have shared more examples on how to overcome the unhealthy self.