• The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts

  • By: Gary Chapman
  • Narrated by: Gary Chapman
  • Length: 4 hrs and 46 mins
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (41,924 ratings)

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The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts

By: Gary Chapman
Narrated by: Gary Chapman
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Why we think it's Essential: In a conversational and sincere tone, Gary Chapman practices what he preaches: clear, concise communication. I've heard from AudibleListeners that Chapman's words have inspired them to be better partners in relationships. What's not to love? — Diana Dapito

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Dr. Gary Chapman identifies five basic languages of love and then guides couples towards a better understanding of their unique languages of love. Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return. Skillful communication is within your grasp!

©2005 Gary Chapman (P)2005 Oasis Audio LLC

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  • 2005 Audie Award Winner, Personal Development/Motivational

" "Whether your marriage needs a tune-up or a major overhaul, these are powerful prescriptions delivered by a genial, wise man." (AudioFile)

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I am better for having read this book

Exceptional book! It was very easy to understand and follow! It also gave clear and descriptive guidance.

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FILL YOUR LOVE TANK

A must read for every couple if you desire to build a marriage that lasts a lifetime. Understanding how you and your spouse give and receive love will transform your relationship. Love grows deeper when we choose to fill one another’s Love Tank!
Thank you Dr Chapman!

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Now I know and I have to do better

A very simple yet effective steps offered in this book on how to be a better spouse. Thank you to the author for using his gift to bless millions of us.

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Terrible book

This is one of the worst books I have ever experienced. If you have never thought about your own motivations and emotions then you may get something out of this book. For me, it was not just that I did not get anything out of this book. It literally bothered my for days after listening to it. The overly-simplistic breakdown of human love into these so-called languages leaves so much out. I am going to stop from typing a diatribe, and just recommend everyone avoid this garbage.

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Game changer!

The information in the book is amazing. If you truly try using all 5 languages, it will change your relationship. Both people will be on a love high each day, that will carry over to other aspects of life.

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Inspiring and insightful

I will try what this book teaches and hope for a better marriage. I think it makes sense and there is nothing to loose.

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Investment In Love

If your marriage is in trouble this is a great way to help. If your marriage is good, this is a great way to help you love your spouse. This book will help you understand yourself and what you need to feel loves. Author uses very relatable real life examples to explain the concepts. This book can help you show love to your children, teenagers, siblings, friends, and most importantly- your spouse. This is an investment in love for a lifetime.

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It truly makes sense

It's like when you're learning a new language like Spanish or French and someone says something you recognize. There's not only a moment of recognition but also excitement in knowing what it means. I recommend this book for anyone looking to improve their relationships or becoming a leader.

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Not what I was hopping for

I recently joined audible thanks to my lack of reading, I wish I had that habit but I just don’t. Audio books are way better for me since I get to really sink into the story. I never watched this movie because I always wanted to read the book, so I had VERY high expectations around this. The narrators are not my favorite, Rachel was ok, Ana and Meghan not so much. The story was ok but honestly by the middle of the book you kinda knew who did the “incident”. I give it a 3 out of 5, not the best.

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Please read this book!

This audio book was great to listen to, author/ narrator has a southern accent and the book flows like a good podcast. The chapters I identified as my love language and my husbands made me cry. I felt like someone heard me finally and I finally knew how my husband needed to be heard. Please give this book a listen to at whatever stage your relationship is in. I highly recommend all the 5 love language books!

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