Regular price: $16.09

Membership details Membership details
  • A 30-day trial plus your first audiobook, free.
  • 1 credit/month after trial – good for any book, any price.
  • Easy exchanges – swap any book you don’t love.
  • Keep your audiobooks, even if you cancel.
  • After your trial, Audible is just $14.95/month.
OR
In Cart

Publisher's Summary

Just as you have a different love language, you also hear and express the words and gestures of apology in a different language. New York Times best-selling author Gary Chapman has teamed with counselor Jennifer Thomas on this groundbreaking study of the way we apologize, discovering that it's not just a matter of will - it's a matter of how. By helping people identify the languages of apology, this book clears the way toward healing and sustaining vital relationships. The authors detail proven techniques for giving and receiving effective apologies.
©2008 Gary Chapman ; 2008 Oasis Audio

What members say

Average Customer Ratings

Overall

  • 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • 5 Stars
    152
  • 4 Stars
    55
  • 3 Stars
    22
  • 2 Stars
    4
  • 1 Stars
    6

Performance

  • 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • 5 Stars
    102
  • 4 Stars
    34
  • 3 Stars
    25
  • 2 Stars
    2
  • 1 Stars
    3

Story

  • 4.5 out of 5 stars
  • 5 Stars
    112
  • 4 Stars
    36
  • 3 Stars
    9
  • 2 Stars
    3
  • 1 Stars
    3
Sort by:
  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Kourtney
  • Chuluota, FL, United States
  • 03-31-11

I got a DO OVER

My education of an apology was, "say your sorry, and do you accept the apology"! Thank God for this book. I have learned why I WAS how I WAS and how to fix it. This book explained, taught and encouraged me. I implemented the knowledge immediately and my husband and family are reaping the benefits. My husband actually said, "Wow, you really are changing and trying". I was able to apologize for the past lack of knowledge and know how to apologize. After my excitement I decided to make it a family study. As a family we listened to the Chapters describing the languages, finding your own and apologizing yourself. We made sure that we all knew each other's apology languages and established if we NOW didn't apologize the correct way that we didn't mean the apology. This has been a real blessing to ME, my family and friends. Thank you so much and God bless you, for you have made a legacy for yourself that is surely making your Heavenly Father proud!

10 of 10 people found this review helpful

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Cris5y
  • UPLAND, CA, United States
  • 04-04-12

Excellent

I listened to this audio because my friend says I have a hard time letting go of the past. I realized that was true and I partially knew why. After reading this book, I realized exactly why I get that uneasy feeling when I receive an apology after feeling betrayed. The best thing about this book is that it helps you understand what you need to hear or see to forgive a person. I think everyone should read this book solely for the purpose of learning to give a good apology. Apologies are definitely understated and I'm glad Gary and Jennifer wrote such a detailed book about giving and receiving them.

6 of 6 people found this review helpful

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars

Life Changing!

This book truly changed my life! I wish I would've had it years ago, but I do believe that God has His timing for everything and this book is right on time for me. As a school administrator, I will be incorporating this into what I do with my students and my staff as well as adding information from it in the book that I'm currently working on. It should be a book that everyone reads and I don't say that about most of the books that I read. This will truly open the door to changing your life if you are willing to accept that you may need to apologize for some things that you've done. I have began my quest and it is truly liberating. Many blessings--

5 of 5 people found this review helpful

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars

great read I learned a lot about myself

there is so much that I'm going to take from this Reed I'm going to learn to love people through apology and this book really help me understand why there certain situations where my heart hasn't been able to let go because I have not received those apologies that my heart is looking for especially for my spouse I may never get them but now I understand why my heart is coming from

1 of 1 people found this review helpful

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars

This is not an Optional READ ....MUST READ

Sitting on the verge of a divorce I now realize that I have created the toxic relationship my wife and I have come to live for 20 years... learn these lessons here well and All will be well. Never to late to Apologise with breath in your (my) lungs. Even if the end results are not the outcome you seek. I have learn it will take all five languages practiced daily for my wife and relationship (s). God's blessings to the Auther's and to all that have the courage to listen to these words and actions accordingly....

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars

Amazing book

I never though or knew that there could be a difference in Way we forgive - thank you Dr Gary for another great book - this is my 8th book I have listened to- in my chiropractic clinic I am able to share many of your teachings and see the blessings as people's and family's life's change - being a Christian & a chiropractor I am able to touch many lives and your teachings are a blessing and have helped me raise my 4 children 10/11/13/14- and learn their love languages - my dad died when I was 16 and took his life with suicide and coming to Christ and finding a Heavenly Father was a journey- since then God has used me many times to pray and change lives - I love to give credit when credit is due - Dr Chapman you have changed and impacted my life and I am grateful- thanks Steve

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars

A must-hear

A Great encouragement for anyone with
damaged or broken relationships. We all could use some help in this area!

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars

Basic training everyone should complete

Relationships, family, & friends...tell them all it's a must read! Training everyone should get that I'd rarely taught.

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    4 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars

helpful book! thank you!<br />

I was struggling to understand why my apologies were not being accepted... this explains it!

  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars

Excellent Book

Forgiveness and Love go hand in hand. We can't know one without the other. We can't grow or be at peace with ourselves or our spouses if we carry unforgiveness in our hearts.
Excellent tools and insight on overcoming anger, bitterness and unforviveness.
I also recommend "The 5 Love Languages"

Sort by:
  • Overall
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Performance
    5 out of 5 stars
  • Story
    5 out of 5 stars
Profile Image for Deborah Cassie
  • Deborah Cassie
  • 12-21-17

A book all should listen to

A lot of truth in communication between each other. I feel the reference to God is not required as this may not be everyone’s beliefs. Throughly enjoyed. Much thanks.