How to Turn a Player into a Stayer

By: Lyn Kelley

Narrated by: Lyn Kelley

Length: 2 hrs and 5 mins

Publisher's summary

Finally! Here are the answers to all your questions about that hard-to-pin-down man you've been dating! Here are the little-known secrets (all the things players don't want you to know) to making any man commit to you. If you follow these strategies, any man will beg you for a real relationship!

Dr. Kelley, from years of experience (her own and her clients') takes you through the step-by-step process of getting your man to fall in love and ask you for a committed, exclusive relationship that leads to marriage. Includes:

• What is a player?
• How bad is he, and how likely is he to become a stayer?
• What do I do if I'm already in love with a player
• Why are players always attracted to me?
• How do I turn him into a stayer?
• When is the right time to ask for a commitment?
• Can chemistry be changed, and how do I fall out of love?
• Should I give him an ultimatum?
• Should I (we) seek professional help?

Don't waste one more minute of your precious time on a man who won't or can't commit. Find out now if he can be turned into a stayer! In just a few hours, you will know exactly what to do and when with all the players in your life.

©2012 Lyn Kelley (P)2012 Lyn Kelley

Oh honey

What did you love best about How to Turn a Player into a Stayer?

This is a great book. Lots of good information, but sweetie, get a better editor. And baby try to sound a little more sultry. Other than that I loved the whole thing. She gives good advice and Ive read a lot of books on the subject, this book gave me some new pointers.

What three words best describe Lyn Kelley’s voice?

mommish :) sweet, kind

Any additional comments?

For the price, Why not? You might hear something you can apply or applies to you.

Great Advice!

Would you consider the audio edition of How to Turn a Player into a Stayer to be better than the print version?

Yes.

What other book might you compare How to Turn a Player into a Stayer to and why?

How to Cure a Commitment Phobic -- so you can determine whether or not he's a Player or a Commitment Phobic (or both).

Which scene was your favorite?

She described the guy I'm dating to a tee!

What insight do you think you’ll apply from How to Turn a Player into a Stayer?

Now I know the "red flags" to watch out for.

Any additional comments?

I just finished reading this book and just felt I had to write a review. I really like how Dr. Lyn writes in plain and simple terms. I was so sick of being pursued by players that I just completely stopped trusting any man. She explains how to know if they are a player and whether or not they can be changed into a stayer. She explains the difference between players and commitment phobics, and how you have to deal with each of these types very differently. Plus this book is very entertaining (learning how to play their game better than them!). I will definitely use her strategies and I've already shared them with some of my friends who tried them and said they worked.

Unique book, some good advice

Some of the advice in this book is really good. For example, the author suggests being upfront with the man you're dating about what type of a relationship you want. The author suggests to ask the man if he wants the same thing as you. So you can assess if you have the same goals.

One thing I didn't like about the book is that it implies that some "tongue lashing" is good sometimes. I guess the author means that if what you say is a healthy complaint, that's a good thing sometimes because then you can introduce a positive change. You can tell your boyfriend what he can do to make you happy.

Everything else in the book is clear and sounds like good advice. The author explains how to get a player to be interested in you over the long term. I like that the author gives very specific advice.