Life Bite Series. You are a product of yourself. What you wear, how you speak, what you eat, what you do, etc., it's all a decision that you have taken and it outwardly shows too. Similarly, life is a product of your decisions and how you interact with the various parameters in life. What fits into your comfort zone or what you do to try things outside of it are still down to you.
Your views on life play a considerable part in how you enjoy life (or not) and how you make friends (or not) and what you do in life; no one does this for you. It is all a decision by yourself to enact and cope and deploy and everything else all the aspects of your life. Never compare nor complain because everyone is different. Even if they appear to be on parallel pathways, there are distinct differences.
With all of this control you can, should you so wish, improve greatly your life or you can sit back and complain that it is OK for others but not you - no one is interested; it's your life. If you can't do something for your life then who can?