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He's Scared, She's Scared Audiobook

He's Scared, She's Scared: Understanding the Hidden Fears That Sabotage Your Relationships

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Why do some people seem incapable of forming lasting relationships? This audiobook argues that people who frequently find themselves in short, unsatisfying unions often have unexplored commitment issues they need to address. In firm but reassuring tones, performer Kevin Young presents the authors' findings, drawn from hundreds of interviews, which show relationship problems may be less about your partners and more about you. The authors also share helpful strategies to identify, understand, and resolve your issues so that you can be free to pursue the deep and sustained love you deserve.

Publisher's Summary

Available for the first time in audiobook, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitment phobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships.

Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offers guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.

©1993 Steven Carter and Julia Sokol Coopersmith (P)2012 Audible, Inc.

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    "Everything said in this is so precise !"

    its almost like my own my minds voice! love it. I just hope there is a way to have the love back.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    AUAlum1998 05-10-16
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    "it's eye opening for sure"

    A good book to understand why men leave out of the blue and help to cope with the fact that there is nothing you can do about it.

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    "I definitely have commitment issues"

    The last half of this book was awesome the first half was pretty good too but I feel like there are too many stories. You could definitely get what you need out of this book by reading the last half of it.

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    Gaylena Collins 05-30-17 Member Since 2017
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    "Great help for commitment issues "

    This book has been very helpful to me with my commitment issues, and it helped me get to the source of the problem. Helpful information

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    Wendy 04-14-17
    Wendy 04-14-17
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    "Still Love this guy. - Lu"

    Oh my, book just described {L.L} my BOYFRIEND of almost 7yrs.
    We've broken up 3 different times within a 2yr. per,

    1st:Aug.2013-Jan.2014 (Proposed💍)
    (Moved out 1 mo. after I was laid off)

    2nd:Aug2015-Dec.2015(Returned💍)
    Moved out 1 mo. after getting hired 45 miles away from home.

    3rd:Aug.2016-Present {Pending}
    Don't live together, spend every other weekend together, I think this I'll probably be our last attempt to salvage what's left of our relationship. Thanks Never got the engagement ring back !!!! Guess he realized it was a mistake.

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    Helped my to understand so much and have realistic expectations of my partner and myself.

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    Roxann AA 01-05-17 Member Since 2017

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    "Very useful"

    Loved the book. Highly recommend it. Removes lots of myths and enigma from simple relationships problems.

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