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Publisher's Summary

He's Just Not That Into You, based on the popular episode of Sex and the City, educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.

Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you".

He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out", consider the glorious thought that maybe He's Just Not That Into You. And then set yourself loose to find the one who is.

©2004 Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo; (P)2004 Simon & Schuster Audio

Critic Reviews

"By all means read this smart, funny, and surprisingly upbeat little book." (Publishers Weekly)

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  • Misty
  • Winston Salem, NC, USA
  • 01-28-09

Funny and entertaining!!

The things we girls always knew but just needed to hear from a guy! Now, every time something doesn't work out the way I had hoped, I'll just think oh well, I guess he wasn't that into me...his loss. Good listen as the narrators are funny and comical.

1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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MEN READ THIS BOOK

MEN do the the same things as these women do. If you think this book applies to women only you are sadly mistaken. Men can benefit from this book also. I can't tell you how many times I have gone out with or heard my friends talk about women who do these same things as Gregg says men do. Must read for anyone ( male or female ) who is dating. Or really in any social setting.

1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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Should have read this 20 years ago

I wish I would have read this 20 years ago! I would have not wasted so much time in relationships with guys who just werent that into me!! Great book. Perfecting timing for me to keep away the ex that wants to come back. But he just wasnt that into me!!

1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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So many wasted years..

If only I heard this so many years before. The time I could have saved if I had known those men, who thought I was a super person, just werent that into me. Not to mention those who "weren't interested in a relationship" only to break up with me and get married within the year to someone else. I finally found a guy who is totally in to me and this book helped me to see it for what it is and to rethink my self-doubting. But all that aside, this audiobook is hilarious and very entertaining.

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  • Amber
  • NOTTINGHAM, MD, USA
  • 08-25-08

knowledge to listen to over and over

very helpful should be used as a tool when in bad relationship or bad break up

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Funny book. Bad advice

I have listened about 1/2 way through this audio book and am amazed at the advice it gives. The main thesis is to give a guy zero chances--that he should chase after you, period. If he forgets to call, or something like that, it's game over. It also suggests only dating "the one", whoever that is.

I am a guy, and yes there is some truth to what the authors are presenting. But there has to be some middle-ground. Honestly, if I am with some woman, no matter how wonderful she is--if she starts talking about marriage before the salad arrives I'm outta there. They have a name for women like that: whackos.

This book is good on comedic value. It's like "Sex in the City" on audio. As far as a worthwhile dating and relationships text, I believe it only paints a false hope to women, who, in my opinion, should be out DATING men and seeing where things go, rather than MARRYING FIRST, then dating.

In my opinion this book presents a totally backwards viewpoint, in which the female puts up incredibly high barriers, and will only consider men worthy of dating if they are "the one". If you choose to follow this advice, good luck. You'll probably spend a lonely existence.. unless you get lucky.

Please give us guys a break and just date, have fun, and see where things go.

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very enjoyable listen.

useful reminders, interesting insights. enjoyable Audio book all in all.. will listen again and again.. recommended!

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100% worth a listen

Basically it was like listening to my own thoughts but it was good because I needed to hear it from an outside perspective.

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  • rj
  • 09-27-17

awesome reference list

this is an awesome book although it was written for women guys you should really read this book It's a Wonderful reference to look at and figure out if we're giving out women all they need and deserve

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pammy

It was an enlightening, affirming book for women who notice they keep making the same mistakes in relationships. Some of the tales were funny, but my favorite part was in the end when the topic turned to looking at how to do things differently.