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He's Just Not That Into You

By: Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo
Narrated by: Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo
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Publisher's summary

He's Just Not That Into You, based on the popular episode of Sex and the City, educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.

Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you".

He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out", consider the glorious thought that maybe He's Just Not That Into You. And then set yourself loose to find the one who is.

©2004 Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo (P)2004 Simon & Schuster Audio

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"By all means read this smart, funny, and surprisingly upbeat little book." (Publishers Weekly)

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Hilarious, Smart and Enlightening!

I've enjoyed every minute of this audiobook, it had me laughing out loud at many parts, the example letters from women were so familiar, either out of my own experiences or out of the experiences of women I have known. Two of the letters really took me aback as I felt like I could have written them myself. You would almost think that a book devoted to enlighten women that the man they have been with or are with now isn't that into you would kind of bring a person down, but it's uplifting, empowering and they are constantly boosting up the listener's self confidence. I would recommend this book to any woman, I think the advice and knowledge it gives the listener is so important, so useful and put in such a witty and knowledgeable way!

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best audiobook i have ever bought

i dont normally write these but i felt this book was so helpful that i owed it a review. this book tells it like it is, it helped me understand what all those things i spend all night thinking about, all mean the same thing... hes just not that into you... after going though this book twice i got the courage and selfesteem to throw my guy out... and i know i made the rite choice. the book is upfront and witty, is blunt but kind, you feel like a stronger women just from hearing it. this book is for women of any age, i feel like i should have known this stuff in high school so i would not have and to deal with some losers i have dated. i will admit the female voice may sound a little annoying at times but u get used to it rite away and it really is worth it. if not buy the hard copy

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Insulting

I am appalled at the attention given to this simplistic approach to understanding men in dating. Everything comes back to one thing with these guys... men are simpletons without any bagagge or fear and women are always perfectly transparent and give out clear signals. Of course they aren't, and I wonder how many potentially great relationships have been scuttled by this mindless and simplictic approach. I found it insulting to both men and women, life is much more complex than this.

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Eye-opening

Sometimes it takes a common sense book to open your eyes to what is really going on (or not going on) in a relationship, and this book provided just that. I owe a lot to the message and appreciate being able to listen to it.

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Outstanding Book!

I got this for my daughter. I wish I had been able to read a book like this when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot of grief over the years. Every woman should read this book several times. This book gives excellent, realistic, and practical advice and is entertaining as well.

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Straightforward and Helpful

Very practical and straightforward. Good humor for tough issues. Good listening.

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Funny and entertaining!!

The things we girls always knew but just needed to hear from a guy! Now, every time something doesn't work out the way I had hoped, I'll just think oh well, I guess he wasn't that into me...his loss. Good listen as the narrators are funny and comical.

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all single girls need to hear this....

I'm a single female and hearing this book opened my eyes to how I want guys to treat me. This book is very informative. You will definitely learn something.

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MEN READ THIS BOOK

MEN do the the same things as these women do. If you think this book applies to women only you are sadly mistaken. Men can benefit from this book also. I can't tell you how many times I have gone out with or heard my friends talk about women who do these same things as Gregg says men do. Must read for anyone ( male or female ) who is dating. Or really in any social setting.

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Should have read this 20 years ago

I wish I would have read this 20 years ago! I would have not wasted so much time in relationships with guys who just werent that into me!! Great book. Perfecting timing for me to keep away the ex that wants to come back. But he just wasnt that into me!!

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