• Get the Guy

  • Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve
  • By: Matthew Hussey
  • Narrated by: Matthew Hussey
  • Length: 7 hrs and 59 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (3,456 ratings)

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Audie Award Finalist, Personal Development, 2014

Most dating books tell you what not to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you can do.

In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey - relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love - reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love.

Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance.

From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew’s insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she’s been waiting for.

©2013 Monument Investment Partners Ltd. (P)2013 HarperCollins Publishers

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Finally a book to help me understand how HE thinks

Where does Get the Guy rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

I have listened to several dating books and this is by far the most helpful! I have even re-listened to it! He gives examples that I related to, and helped me understand what the guy is thinking! Why he does what he does, and what I should do to get the guy I want to talk to me!

What did you like best about this story?

He covered everything - how to get the guy interested, how to keep him interested, and how to not let him lose his interest in you!

What does Matthew Hussey bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

Love the accent :-)

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

One of the things I have already used is playful bantering...and it worked like a charm! I couldn't believe how easy it was!

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If you are looking for a book to help you understand how men "date" and what they look for, then this book is for you! I could throw all my other dating books out now - this one is all I need!

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Must listen!

I loved this book from start to finish! listening to Matthew hussey's British accent didn't hurt either. I wanted to give it 5 stars but couldn't because of constantly being redirected to his website for other tidbits of audio. I listen while driving. Having to stop and get on his website while driving was not the best idea. I wish he would've just included the voice clips he had for you in the audio version. It would've made my life simpler. However, that's the ONLY bad thing I have to say about this title. If you are single, dating, married, read this book!

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Great book!

While listening to this book, I applied the principles to my online dating life and it truly worked! Matthew helps women how to communicate with men. Super powerful techniques! I feel that women (me included) say things but it’s translated differently in a man’s mind. Matthew is giving us insight that I’ve never seen in a dating/relationship book. I will continue to follow and seek Matthews advice! The journey doesn’t end with this book.

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Excellent!

This is an excellent book, and I highly recommend it for any age range. These are guidelines that all women should follow.

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Awesome Advice for All

Great advice for women of all ages. I never listened to any of his books before, so listening to this book was definitely a delighful surprise.

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Motivates you to continue or start dating

I liked the book. Highly recommend for anyone thinking about dating, failing at dating or if you just want to attract more ppl. It's one that you'll have to read multiple times. I didn't watch the videos but that may help.

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great coac

Matt is a great coach. He helped me value myself as high value woman. I recommend!

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Get the Guy

Wonderful insight I in to what men think. I could see where I struggled and the humor was fun. I will Reggie his material to remind myself and help me understand how to value myself and keep the train moving so to speak.

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Testing the waters

As I read through the book I followed Matthews advise on the guy I’m seeing that seem to be putting me on ice. The says I’m the girl of his dreams but he doesn’t spend time with me. So I’m applying what l’ve learned in the past week and it’s getting me more attention. So I’m going to keep it going and see where it leads. Thank you Matthew

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Love Matthew Hussey!

I was determined that 2020 is to be the year to shake things up in my non-existent love life. That is how I discovered Matthew, I did a google search for the best way to meet men and saw some of his youtube videos. I found him to be quite motivating. I will never be able to afford his seminars or personal sessions but I could afford this book.

He gives such good advice that I listened to it a second time. He definitely motivates you to get the heck out there and make stuff happen. I can attest to the fact that if you wait around for others to come to you, you'll be waiting a long time...alone. The more you put yourself out there, the most chances you will have to meet someone you like.

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