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Codependent No More Audiobook

Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

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Publisher's Summary

A source of healing and inspiration for millions, this modern classic spent over three years on the New York Times best seller list and made codependency a household word. Codependent No More contains dozens of real-life examples, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests to help you along the road to recovering your own life. For anyone struggling with a relationship involving alchoholism or other compulsive behaviors, this program points the way to healing and the renewal of hope. Melody Beattie's insights into the nature of the phenomenon of codependency will guide you step by step to the understanding that letting go will set you free.

©1987, 1992 Hazelden Foundation; (P)2005 Recorded Books, LLC

What the Critics Say

"Few people understand this idea as well as Melody Beattie, an author recovering successfully from a variety of addictive disorders and entanglements." (AudioFile)
"Bettie understands being overboard, which helps her throw best-selling lifelines to those still adrift." (Time)

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    Virginia United States 02-07-12
    Virginia United States 02-07-12
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    "A great book"

    You will love Melody Beattie ... this book opened so many doors to me as well as helped me resolve so much of my problems ... i began to view things differently ... this book changed my life ... highly recommended

    9 of 11 people found this review helpful
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    Nadine Hoy Klamath Falls, OR 07-04-17
    Nadine Hoy Klamath Falls, OR 07-04-17 Member Since 2017

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    "Me."

    Oh wow, this book was written about me...my husband is not an alcoholic. but had untreated PTSD that carried over from Vietnam. After 42 yrs I decided to leave this man that I loved dearly but me was dying..me was falling off the cliff. He finally got treatment, is doing well but me? I kept falling...now 5 yrs later me is getting help, and the therapist told me to read this book for me. Me is going to come back to the real me...thank you for writing this.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    L. D. Draper, UT, USA 05-31-07
    L. D. Draper, UT, USA 05-31-07
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    "Disorganized"

    I found it very difficult to follow the message of this book or get any real help from it. The author indicates there are a number of causes of co-dependency but seems to try to discuss them all at the same time. As a result, I found myself sorting through all of the causes and situations that did not pertain to me to try and find what did. The book would be much better and helpful if each cause, or similar causes, and resulting behaviors were grouped together in one or more chapters and discussed from start to finish.

    15 of 20 people found this review helpful
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    gena 03-10-10
    gena 03-10-10 Listener Since 2009
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    "Insightful"

    Very insightful information for those with codependent issues or those who know someone who is codependent. Everyone should learn about codependent behaviors in themselves and others so as to better understand the world around them.

    4 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    Nikki 01-17-10
    Nikki 01-17-10 Listener Since 2009
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    "Thumbs up!!"

    Melody really humanizes Codependence in this book but using her own experiences. I found it very informative. Very helpful if you have been in a relationship with an alcoholic/addict or are one yourself.

    4 of 5 people found this review helpful
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    Dejibo 01-20-13
    Dejibo 01-20-13
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    "Should be required reading for all teens"
    If you could sum up Codependent No More in three words, what would they be?

    This book reminds me to take care of ME first. We get spun into a circle of making sure everyone is cared for, nurtured,loved, fed, and their egos are boosted while silently fuming that our own needs go unmet. Why do I have to always be the one to reach out? This book helps to remind us that WE must take care of OUR needs first in order to be of any value to anyone else. I had forgotten that along the way.


    What other book might you compare Codependent No More to and why?

    I hate you! dont leave me!


    Have you listened to any of Christina Moore’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    No sure


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    No, this book needs to be taken in sections and absorbed, if you race thru it you miss so much. it is the book you want to listen to 50 times because you learn something you missed on time 30 by rushing.


    Any additional comments?

    Seriously it should be required reading in school.

    8 of 11 people found this review helpful
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    Kerry DAMPIER, Australia 08-03-08
    Kerry DAMPIER, Australia 08-03-08
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    "Co-dependent"

    I thought the book was timeless. Finally I have a name for my personality type. Now I can identify my ‘rescue’ efforts I can try and control my impulse to help everybody. I so can not be bothered. I am like a magnet for the weak and vulnerable. You build them up – and off they fly with someone else. I definitely want to have relationships that aren’t based around the other person’s tragedies. I have carried too many people too far and I am emotional barren and always feel like the door mat. Fancy me being codependent on that! I thought they were on me and I was stuck having to support them. I have just got rid of my last ‘lost puppy’. I love dogs more than humans for sure, so now I’m just happy to give and take with my pooch. At least my time will be my own, I will have money in the back saved! And she will love me and always be there for me when I need her [not turn all woes back to focus on their problems all the time]. 36 now, hopefully this book has now woken me enough to stop taking on other people stuff….because after all it’s none of my business

    12 of 17 people found this review helpful
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    JennStokes Knoxville, TN 01-27-17
    JennStokes Knoxville, TN 01-27-17 Member Since 2017
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    "Excellent book"
    Any additional comments?

    At the age of 35, I had finally realized that I had an issue with codependency, but I honestly didn't know why. No one in my family was an alcoholic or addicted to drugs or anything. Then I became aware of this book. At first, I'll admit, I was worried that this book wouldn't work for me because it seemed to be very focused on codependency related to alcoholism. However, as the book progressed, it began touching on the other causes of codependency. Thanks to this book, I now realize that my codependent tendencies are a result of being abandoned by my father and then being raised in a militaristic family where my opinions, thoughts, and feelings didn't matter. This was a true breakthrough for me. It has allowed me to finally begin to heal the wounds that have been there for years. So even if your codependent issues aren't due to someone's chemical dependency, this book can be a huge help.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    C. Rose gilbert,az 11-06-15
    C. Rose gilbert,az 11-06-15 Member Since 2010
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    "I was resistant"

    Someone asked me to read this book and I thought I'm not codependent but as I read I realized I was. This book had so many good ideas and so many good points I would recommend this to anybody codependent are lots of really good rules to live by.
    I'm actually going to listen to it for the second time to pick up anything I may of missed.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Amazon-aholic Redmond, WA 08-13-14
    Amazon-aholic Redmond, WA 08-13-14
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    "Helpful for those suffering perhaps..."
    Would you say that listening to this book was time well-spent? Why or why not?

    Yes.


    Would you recommend Codependent No More to your friends? Why or why not?

    No.


    What three words best describe Christina Moore’s performance?

    Fine.


    If this book were a movie would you go see it?

    No


    Any additional comments?

    This book may be very helpful for those who suffer from co-dependency. However, it offers little to family members who have to learn to deal with those who are co-dependent. I also found it somewhat frustrating to have to continually listen to references to "god". Beyond that it did provide a basic understanding of a co-dependent mind.

    3 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Waterford, Ireland
    9/2/13
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    "Every mother, wife, woman should own a copy"
    What did you like most about Codependent No More?

    This book was recommended to me by a counselor while I was suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. It is one woman's manual to overcoming struggles and although the book has a heavy emphasis on dealing with alcoholics, and people with dependency issues, something that was not necessarily true for me, it taught me a massive amount about my own thought process and really how I bet myself up way too much mentally.It genuinely changed me for the better and made me feel understood and more aware of my strengths.I purchased the audio version as I really did not feel like reading some "self help" crap, if I'm honest. However I think I made the right choice, the narrator is perfect and I have listened to some chapters over and over.I recommend this if you ever feel your kindness is taken advantage of, you feel under appreciated, you say yes to things because you feel guilty saying no or you have any sort of hurtful, or dysfunctional relationships in your life,You will finally understand everything,


    What did you like best about this story?

    It is written in a non-preachy way, it is not condescending and unlike other self help books, this can sometimes make you mad, but at yourself. It took me on a journey I will never forget.


    Which character – as performed by Christina Moore – was your favourite?

    Christina Moore is excellent. It feels like a chat rather than someone reading to you, I cannot recommend her highly enough


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    No, but it is a book you will ALWAYS go back to


    Any additional comments?

    If your in doubt, but other books are telling you the same old positive thinking diatribe..I cant emphasize enough, this book is a massive seller for a reason, and its one you will pass on

    5 of 6 people found this review helpful
  • chris
    12/4/14
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    "Very good for recovery"
    What did you like most about Codependent No More?

    For me, personally, this (audio)book is one of the best I have listened to (read) recently. It not only points out to eventual causes of the disfunction but also to possible ways of recovering from it.


    Have you listened to any of Christina Moore’s other performances? How does this one compare?

    Very good reading style.


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    Many moments: couple of them are "feel what you feel", about anger, grief, 12 Step work and other


    Any additional comments?

    Genuinly, "high" on my priority list.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • lawrie minty
    1/5/17
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    "eye opener"

    this is an eye opening piece, in that, it points out how one gets used to a constant pressing of harmful attitudes. why do I always attract these sorts? because I open the door and they walk in and I dont even think to stop them. this book is helping me put the latch on.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Laura8
    12/29/16
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    "Sound volume varies"

    Towards the end of the book the volume goes down in parts and then back up again.

    It is excellent though, very informative and enlightening.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • jenny sanders
    8/30/16
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    "if you are codependent, thisnis for you"

    The kindest and most compassionate map to freedom for those of us embroiled in another person's chaos.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Sam Thompson
    2/7/16
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    "Amazing"

    Whether you think you need this book or not, YOU NEED IT!! Very insightful and understandable. I can't recommend it enough.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Amazon Customer
    12/14/15
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    "Brilliant. Wish I had found this sooner"

    Covers everything. I didn't even know I was codependent. I just kept attracting the same relationships

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Alison
    caerphilly,mid glam, United Kingdom
    7/1/12
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    "MISS LEADING"

    I thought that this book was to over published, she does not have a PHD IN PSYCHOLOGY AND FOUND SOME SENTENCES REPEATABLE . ITS OKAY FOR THE LIGHT READER . BUT ITS NOT FOR EVERYONE. SURE IT WILL HELP PEOPLE IN SIMULATIVE CIRCUMSTANCES. ONLY GOT A LITTLE OUT OF IT MYSELF. SORRY....

    0 of 6 people found this review helpful

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