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Publisher's Summary

Finally, the information you've been waiting for to help you find and keep the right partner and make love last. A renowned expert on relationships and personal growth, and best-selling author of How To Make Love All the Time and Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know, Dr. Barbara De Angelis explains everything you need to know about compatibility and shares secrets for making healthy love choices.

This dynamic program reveals:

  • Why you attract the people you do, and how to break unhealthy love habits
  • The six essential qualities to look for in a mate
  • How to avoid making the biggest mistakes in love
  • The ten types of relationships that won't work
  • How your childhood programming may be hurting your love life
  • Everything you need to know about sexual chemistry
  • The compatibility formula to make your relationship work

With powerful advice and groundbreaking techniques that have helped millions of people transform their lives, Dr. De Angelis will show you the formula for creating love that lasts. Whether you're single and looking for love, married and wondering if you could be happier, in love and wondering whether your partner is right for you, or divorced and hoping to avoid making the same mistakes again, Are You the One for Me? will help you understand yourself and relationships as you never have before.

©1992 Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D.; (P)1992 Audio Renaissance, a division of Holtzbrinck Publishers, LLC

Critic Reviews

"Solid, well-organized advice." (Kirkus)

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Concise and well done

First of all this book defines relationship based on compatibility not just love. This is an important distinction, and the author does a great job of building her case, explaining myths prevalent in our culture and then step-by-step guides/tips. She really gets into explaining how to find a person who is compatible with you beyond just looks and the superficial trappings that can get us in so much trouble when seeking long-term commitment and real love. This book is also written in a gender-neutral way for man or woman, whatever sexual preference, so that you focus on the core of her message and not caught up in gender stereotypes. Well done! I would recommend this to anyone who is serious about going to the next level in taking responsibility for their love life or working on their existing love life, as she is adept at communicating to singles and couples already involved with each other.

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  • Shane
  • melbourne Beach, FL, USA
  • 02-05-07

Provides useful information

I wasn't sure about this author, but this is the second book of hers that I've read and found them both worthwhile. She has some solid suggestions for what to consider when getting into a relationship.

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Outstanding

This describes me to a T, Why I have had failed relationships and felt like love has eluded me for so many years. Recently divorced, I have realized that I need to work on the person I am. Barbara's experiences are very helpful. Thank you!

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  • Jennifer
  • white plainsVirgin Islands, U.S.
  • 02-03-10

This book is very helpful. I enjoy it a lot

I think the author has a great point of view of what love is and her theories on relationship, love and lust, and the reasons we stay in relationships. And of course, why we put ourselves in relationships in first place. The author is easy to relate to and I often felt that she is talking about my relationship (current and past relationship).

Overall, I think the author had great concepts on love and relationship. I think she was right on the money about the way women think. This book was good for the modern world, relevant to the dating world. The author was helpful for single and married individuals- if you are looking for someone or to fix your relationship. She helped you to make your own decision on your relationship. She gave you a better understanding on relationships. I really enjoyed this book, it helped work on myself and in my relationship. I would recommend this book to anyone.

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Didn’t enjoy

I couldn’t get into this one. Very common sense material and dry to boot.

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Very well written and extremely insightful.

Absolutely loved it and didn't realize how many patterns I was repeating! Loved that it walks you through the good side and the bad side. While describing each good and bad traits to embrace or learn to let go of.

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easy read, good points.

it was an easy read and made very logical good points.sometimes it's good to hear it from an outsider. had a few good exercises you could do on determining whether your in a productive relationship or to find someone who is compatible. cheesy background music and narrator want the best, but overall good read.

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enlightening, but speaks too quickly at times

speaks too quickly at times, when you slow down the speed it just sounds silly and annoying after awhile.

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Would you consider the audio edition of Are You the One for Me? to be better than the print version?

yes

What other book might you compare Are You the One for Me? to and why?

I haven't read a book close to this

Have you listened to any of Barbara De Angelis’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

No

If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

Pathways to Relationship Heaven

Any additional comments?

Newly divorced and dating I needed this, just for someone to say its OK and normal to ask questions, helped me realize my value

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  • Stephanie
  • St-Calixte, Quebec, Canada
  • 06-09-09

Disappointing

I heard so many good words about this book but was SADLY disappointed by it entirely! I used my credits to get it... and felt bad I wasted my time and my credits on it. Not to be done again.

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  • Ronean
  • 06-15-16

Eye opener

loved this book. Could see myself in some of the examples and can now apply techniques to break old patterns