It's Not About the Alcohol

By: Colleen Kachmann
  • Summary

  • Would you like to permanently reduce your alcohol consumption by 80 percent so you don’t have to quit? Most high achieving professional women assume overdrinking is caused by a lack of willpower--or worse, the incurable disease of "alcoholism." So they beat themselves up and avoid asking for help because they feel ashamed and out of control. Whether you’re a daily drinker who can’t break the habit, or you're still going to sobriety meetings even though you don’t drink anymore, the real problem is that you don’t trust yourself anymore. Which means it’s not about the alcohol. It’s about your relationship with yourself. I’m a mindful drinking coach helping women learn how drinking less (or not at all) is actually a superpower, even when the idea of giving up the only thing that helps them quiet their mind feels impossible. Figuring out what you really need and want in life will restore your focus. Get happy, not sober. Because happy people don’t drink themselves into a stupor. Join me each week for holistic, evidence-based strategies to fix your dopamine deficit, regulate your nervous system, deal with post acute withdrawal syndrome, manage sugar cravings, improve your sleep and reclaim your mental health so you no longer have the urge to escape your own body.
    2022
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  • EP142: Three ways your brain is blocking your motivation to drink less
    Sep 24 2024

    How do you make sense of the fact that, even though you really do want to drink less, you keep making the same mistakes?

    You know what you should do. But your brain is blocking your motivation with three sneaky obstacles:

    • Using your past to predict your future, thinking ‘I’ve failed before, so why should this time be any different.'
    • Believing you don’t have enough time, energy, or motivation to make a change right now--even though you have the time and energy to manage a drinking problem.
    • You focus so much on the problem—feeling bad about how much you drink—that you can't see the solution.

    In this episode, I’ll show you exactly how to get around the three mental obstacles keeping you stuck.

    Come find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer

    If you’re ready to get emotionally sober (side effects include an 80 percent reduction in alcohol consumption), click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL WITH COLLEEN. You'll walk away from our conversation with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.

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    42 mins
  • EP141 BONUS! Mindful Drinking and Moderation with “Mostly Sober” author Susan Keller
    Sep 19 2024

    In this special bonus episode, Colleen interviews Susan Keller, author of the new book Mostly Sober: A Love Story and a Road Trip. Susan shares her personal journey of rethinking her relationship with alcohol, how she found her way into the mindful drinking movement, and why she wrote Mostly Sober, a groundbreaking novel for those who want to cut back on drinking without quitting entirely.

    In this conversation, Colleen and Susan discuss:

    • Susan's background in healthcare education and how it influenced her interest in alcohol moderation.

    • The appeal of mindful drinking and how Susan’s approach differs from traditional "Quit Lit" stories of sobriety.

    • The process of writing Mostly Sober, a blend of fiction, autobiography, and self-help for women who want to minimize their drinking but don't see complete sobriety as the answer.

    • Why Susan believes in celebrating the small wins and how using simple tools like marking days without drinking helped her feel empowered.

    • The emotional connection between childhood trauma, people-pleasing, and drinking habits, as explored through Susan’s protagonist, Annie Marks.

    • How Susan found support and community through podcasts, online groups, and conversations with like-minded women, and why having a support system is so important for mindful drinkers.

    • The importance of understanding that mindful drinking is about rethinking your relationship with alcohol, not just counting drinks or adhering to rigid rules.

    Where to Buy Mostly Sober

    You can find Mostly Sober: A Love Story and a Road Trip in various formats:

    • BookBaby Store

    • Susan’s website: SusanKeller.com

    • Major retailers like Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Books-A-Million (coming soon).

    Connect with Colleen: Come find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and Instagram @thehangoverwhisperer.


    If you're ready to get Mostly Sober and want support, guidance and accountability, click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL WITH COLLEEN. You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.

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    44 mins
  • EP140 How perfectionism fuels emotional eating with Amber Romaniuk
    Sep 17 2024

    Are you tired of feeling trapped in a cycle of emotional eating and self-criticism?

    Many high-achieving women believe that if they just had more willpower or stuck to stricter diets, they'd finally overcome their struggles with food and body image.

    But this relentless pursuit of perfection leaves you exhausted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from your own needs—leading to stress, burnout, and an even stronger reliance on food to cope.

    The real issue isn't lack of discipline; it's the deep-rooted belief that your worth is tied to your productivity and appearance.

    In today's episode, I'm joined by Amber Romaniuk, host of the No Sugarcoating Podcast, a digestive and hormone health expert. We’re talking about how to heal your mind so you can live in a body that thrives.

    Here’s what you’ll learn:

    • Is perfectionism secretly fueling your emotional eating?

    • The unexpected reason diets fail—and what to do instead.

    • Discover the hidden link between imposter syndrome and your cravings.

    • Stop wasting willpower: Discover the surprising path to food freedom.

    Connect with Amber on YouTube and Instagram

    Come find me on TikTok @hangoverwhisperer and IG @thehangoverwhisperer

    If you’re ready to reduce your drinking by 80 percent (as a side effect of getting emotionally sober), Click here to BOOK A DISCOVERY CALL WITH COLLEEN You'll walk away from our call with a clear understanding of how to get the skills you need to transform your life.

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    1 hr and 2 mins

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practice guide to see the way you think about decluttwring the confusion!

Colleen has been so instrumental in opening my eyes on many levels to become aware how my stinkin drinking is from how I am thinking and just a habit I created.

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IF YOU HAVEN'T LET IT GO.....THIS IS A MUST LISTEN

really enjoyed listening to this subject!! divorced 12 years and I still needed to hear this!!!
thank you for your teachings Colleen!!

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Honest Real Talk

Great information, honest conversation, and realistic guide to your journey. Do yourself a favor and listen or send to someone that might need this.

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