Chantelle and her husband Justus are raising a blended family of 10 kids, and their journey together began when their youngest was only a few months old. In this raw and honest conversation, Chantelle shares what it really looked like to bring two families together—navigating the chaos, the growing pains, and the moments that tested their relationship and their commitment to building something bigger than themselves.

She opens up about the reality of blending families, the emotional challenges that come with it, and the outside pressures that requires boundaries so they don't make the journey even harder. But through it all, Chantelle talks about the love, growth, and strength that comes from choosing each other and choosing family every single day.

This episode is real, vulnerable, and inspiring for anyone who has ever tried to build a life that didn’t follow the “traditional” path.

Because sometimes the most beautiful families are the ones that had to fight the hardest to come together.

From absolutely ridiculous hypotheticals (if all five of your fingers were drink nozzles… what are you choosing?) to unexpectedly deep questions about God, the universe, and what we’d ask if we only got one shot — this episode goes from chaotic to philosophical real fast.

We laugh. We spiral. We overthink. We surprise ourselves.

It’s the kind of conversation that feels like late-night girl talk where the questions get weirder and somehow more meaningful at the same time.

If you’ve ever wondered what we’d say with zero time to filter… this is it.

In this episode, Britt and Whit dig into love languages — not the cute Instagram version, but the real-life, sometimes uncomfortable one. Britt shares a big realization about her oldest daughter speaking a completely different love language than her, and how that’s forced her to rethink the way she shows up for her. Whit, on the other hand, realizes she’s not even sure what her own love language is anymore — and honestly? Can't we all relate to that.

We talk about how love languages show up in parenting, partnerships, and everyday relationships — and why trying to speak someone else’s love language can feel awkward, exhausting, or even unnatural at times.

This episode is for anyone who loves deeply but still misses the mark sometimes. The ones trying to do better, show up differently, and figure it out as they go. Because loving people well isn’t about perfection — it’s about effort, awareness, and a whole lot of grace.