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Out There: A Survival Guide for Dating in Midlife
- Narrated by: Kerri Sackville
- Length: 5 hrs
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Publisher's Summary
When Keri Sackville began dating again after a long marriage, she made every mistake known to woman kind. She swiped right on scammers and fakers, spent weeks fruitlessly texting, agreed to long dates with the wrong men, and got involved with hot messes and commitment phobes. She also met amazing men and went on sensational first dates, and learned how to navigate the minefield that is dating in midlife. Now, in this comprehensive survival guide, Kerri shares her wisdom. Peppered with hilarious anecdotes from her five years on the scene, she covers everything from ghosting to negging, from Friends with Benefits to players, from online profiles to spotting ‘red flags’, from the perils of chemistry to the pain of breakups, She will show you what to expect when you join a dating site, which men to avoid, which men are worth a shot and, most importantly, how to protect yourself along the way.
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“A funny and helpful guide...like having a comforting gossip with friends." (Book+Publishing)
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- sofia mohammad
- 01-12-19
love it! so needed for ladies of all ages!
AMAZING! where was this guide decades ago when I needed it! truly a must read!
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- Anonymous User
- 04-22-22
great listen
This book confirmed all the things I knew deep down plus the insights into online dating sites etc has given me a little more confidence not to be scared to try them prehaps in the future. lots of humour and kept me entertained the whole way.
would recommend most definitely
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- KJ
- 04-14-22
Pure gold
Where does a 66 year old man find good advice on dating and being single again?
Well not many books written by men on this! In any case a woman’s perspective would be so much better.
So I took a punt. To hear another humans opinions and experience and to check what I was, was what women appreciate and are looking for.
I learnt so much, confirmed so much and realised I am not alone with my thoughts, my ethics and my actions. I have reaffirmed I do the right things to treat a date with respect and care. And I feel so much better with my own company.
A truly enjoyable book.
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- Kristy
- 04-08-22
this is the BEST dating guide ivevever read
Ill certainly be looking to read/listen to more by this author. i really enjoyed the honesty and compassion in this book.
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- Nawwal
- 02-25-22
Promising guide to online dating
This would suit people (like me) who have not experienced on line dating before but now are facing the prospect.
I listen to this a few months ago, and I have mostly forget all the advice that had been given except 'don't give up'.
I have yet to try online dating, so maybe I will re-listen as I remember the style was funny, easy going, and light-heartedly enjoyable.
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