‌Sabrina (Fletcher) and Kate (Carson) are back, sharing more about what your grief after TFMR *actually* needs. We're going all the way over to what you DON'T need in your grief after abortion baby loss. If these things have NOT felt like a help to you in your grief, you are not alone, and you are not crazy.

And tune back in to part 3 of 3 next time to hear how we have helped ourselves and our clients not only survive, but LIVE after TFMR, simple and doable.

And in this episode we invite you to check out this space, just for you:

THE TFMR SUPPORT SANCTUARY

If you're carrying the weight of your TFMR alone... you don't have to anymore.

The **TFMR Support Sanctuary** is now open: a monthly community for parents who want ways to release the shame, guilt, and despair of this loss and feel sure and seen in their motherhood, their parenthood, and the love they have for their baby.

💜 A safe place to feel whole again and honor your baby

💬 Live circles every couple of weeks, starting April 2nd

💜 Month-to-month, no long commitment

🌸 Grand opening price: $45/month (going up to $55 on May 1st)

Join us: www.theTFMRdoula.com/join

FREE FACEBOOK GROUP:

Want early access to new podcast episodes and a chance to ask questions live? Join our private Facebook group, the TFMR Support Circle. You'll get to witness the raw, unedited version of my solo episodes before anyone else. You can also join in live and share your comments and get your questions answered to shape the episodes.

Application only, free membership:

http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/facebookgroup

🎙 Want to share your story?

Email Sabrina to be featured on the podcast: sabrina [at] theTFMRdoula [dot] com

Music credit:

Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod

Creative Commons License

https://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1300036&Search=Search

‌JOIN US IN THE TFMR SUPPORT SANCTUARY:

If you're carrying the weight of your TFMR alone... you don't have to anymore.

The **TFMR Support Sanctuary** is now open: a monthly community for parents who want ways to release the shame, guilt, and despair of this loss and feel sure and seen in their motherhood, their parenthood, and the love they have for their baby.

💜 A safe place to feel whole again and honor your baby

💬 Live circles every couple of weeks, starting April 2nd

💜 Month-to-month, no long commitment

🌸 Grand opening price: $45/month (going up to $55 on May 1st)

Join us: [www.theTFMRdoula.com/join](http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/join "‌")

FREE FACEBOOK GROUP:

Want early access to new podcast episodes and a chance to ask questions live? Join our private Facebook group, the TFMR Support Circle. You'll get to witness the raw, unedited version of my solo episodes before anyone else. You can also join in live and share your comments and get your questions answered to shape the episodes.

Application only, free membership:

[http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/facebookgroup](http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/facebookgroup "smartCard-inline")

🎙 Want to share your story?

Email Sabrina to be featured on the podcast: sabrina [at] theTFMRdoula [dot] com

Music credit:

Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod

Creative Commons License

https://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1300036&Search=Search

In Part 2 of Becky's story, we pick up after her termination for T21 (Down Syndrome, Trisomy 21) and what life has looked like in the two and a half months since.

Becky talks about how she found the TFMR community... and how even then, she felt alone in her specific diagnosis. She shares what it was like to post her story in a mommy group and have 11 people private message her saying "me too, but don't tell anyone."

Becky talks about what nobody told her about the D&E procedure itself, that it was a two-day process. She talks about grieving loudly while her husband grieved quietly, and the moment she realized he was carrying the pain too, just differently.

Becky closes with words for anyone right now in the thick of a Trisomy 21 diagnosis, deciding whether to end their pregnancy: you're going to be able to breathe again. The first breath will feel like a gasp. But somehow, time marches on.

Thank you, Becky. Your baby boy was here, real, and so fiercely loved. <3

GROUP SUPPORT IN TFMR GRIEF:

If you're carrying the weight of your TFMR alone... you don't have to anymore.

The TFMR Support Sanctuary is now open: a monthly community for parents who want ways to release the shame, guilt, and despair of this loss and feel sure and seen in their motherhood, their parenthood, and the love they have for their baby.

💜 A safe place to feel whole again and honor your baby

💬 Live circles every couple of weeks, starting April 2nd

💜 Month-to-month, no long commitment

🌸 Grand opening price: $45/month (going up to $55 on May 1st)

Join us: www.theTFMRdoula.com/join

FREE FACEBOOK GROUP:

Want early access to new podcast episodes and a chance to ask questions live? Join our private Facebook group, the TFMR Support Circle. You'll get to witness the raw, unedited version of my solo episodes before anyone else. You can also join in live and share your comments and get your questions answered to shape the episodes.

Application only, free membership:
http://www.theTFMRdoula.com/facebookgroup

🎙 Want to share your story?
Contact Sabrina to be featured on the podcast: www.theTFMRdoula.com/podcast

Music credit:
Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
Creative Commons License https://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1300036&Search=Search