More Beautiful Than Before

How Suffering Transforms Us

By: Steve Leder

Narrated by: Steve Leder

Length: 4 hrs and 13 mins

Publisher's summary

Every one of us sooner or later walks through hell. The hell of being hurt, the hell of hurting another. The hell of cancer, the hell of a reluctant, thunking shovel full of earth upon the casket of someone we deeply loved, the hell of betrayal, the hell of betraying, the hell of divorce, the hell of a kid in trouble...the hell of knowing that this year, like any year, may be our last. We all walk through hell. The point is not to come out empty-handed.... There is real and profound power in the suffering we endure if we transform that suffering into a more authentic, meaningful life.

In the spirit of such classics as When Bad Things Happen to Good People, A Grief Observed, and When Things Fall Apart, More Beautiful Than Before: How Suffering Transforms Us examines the many ways we can transform physical, psychological, or emotional pain into a more beautiful and meaningful life.

As the leader of Wilshire Boulevard Temple, one of America’s largest and most important congregations, located in the heart of Los Angeles, Rabbi Leder has witnessed a lot of pain: “It’s my phone that rings when people’s bodies or lives fall apart,” he writes. “The couch in my office is often drenched with tears.” After 27 years of listening, comforting, and holding so many who suffered, he thought he understood pain and its challenges - but when it struck hard in his own life and brought him to his knees, a new understanding unfolded before him as he felt pain’s profound effects on his body, spirit, and soul.

In this elegantly concise, beautifully written, and deeply inspiring book, Rabbi Leder guides us through pain’s stages of surviving, healing, and growing to help us all find meaning in our suffering. Drawing on his experience as a spiritual leader, the wisdom of ancient traditions, modern science, and stories from his own life and others’, he shows us that when we must endure, we can, and that there is a path for each of us that leads from pain to wisdom. “Pain cracks us open,” he writes. “It breaks us. But in the breaking, there is a new kind of wholeness.” This powerful book will inspire in us all a life worthy of our suffering; a life gentler, wiser, and more beautiful than before.

©2018 Steve Leder (P)2018 Brilliance Publishing, Inc., all rights reserved. Jane Kenyon, “Otherwise” from Collected Poems. © 2005 by The Estate of Jane Kenyon. Use with permission of The Permissions Company, Inc. on behalf of Graywold Press, www.graywoldpress.org.

amazing book

amazing book will help you to grow in difficult time and will change your life

You Won't Suffer Listening to Leder

What a great Audible book! Powerful, beautiful, meaningful, and richly rewarding. I am now looking for more Leder books and Audible recordings. Thank you.

Absorbing like a sponge

I am going to listen to this again because it moves me to my very core and makes me think and feel more than i ever have. I am so glad I chose this book to help me through my emotional healing and ways to cope with my loss. I am thankful for this wisdom and the next book I choose will be by Steve Leder as well.

One of the Best

Outstanding, inspirational writing and narration by Rabbi Steve Leder. How I wish I had quit beating myself up feeling guilt and despair after losing my father, mother and husband in a five year period. I'm finally at peace after listening to this kind, emphathetic man share his stories of suffering and his own personal hell. It's not heavy. It's a gentle reminder we survive those dark days and can grow from the experience.

Thank you for this excellent book

I purchased this book after hearing about it on the Today Show, during the pandemic. My father died 3 weeks ago. This book will be a touchpoint for me for a very long time. The past, present and future realities of life and death are not sugar coated by Rabbi Leder, rather, they are gently explained with complete clarity.

A great read. One that hits home.

Absolutely loved it. Thoughtful, enlightening and a reminder as to what is truly important in life

Profound. Life changing. Really inspiring

Read it and then had to hear it in his voice. Really helped me get through the hard part of depression I've been living with most of my life. Highly recommend for anyone who needs a fresh insight into how to deal with pain.

Excellent

Wonderful advice for being with, listening to, and supporting those in your life with physical and/or emotional pain.

LOVE LOVE LOVE

As a hospice nurse, I have seen my share of suffering and this book brings beauty to the harder things in life. I listened to it in one fell swoop. Highly recommended.

Should be required reading

Really helped me to better understand grief, pain, loss and life. A heart touching meaningful listen