Are tantrums and meltdowns really the same thing? Most parents treat them as interchangeable - but the difference matters more than we realize.

In this episode, parenting expert Tia Slightham returns to the show to help us rethink what’s actually happening beneath our children’s behavior. She breaks down the key distinctions between tantrums and meltdowns, explains the deeper “why” driving these moments, and shares how our responses can either escalate or ease the situation.

Tia also introduces her powerful Behavior Needs Roadmap - a practical, easy-to-use tool that helps parents identify unmet needs before behaviors spiral. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, confused, or unsure how to respond in the heat of the moment, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and actionable steps you can use right away.

• Diane's Resoure: Book: Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker
• Podcast: Dr. Matthew Walker: The Science & Practice of Perfecting Your Sleep | Huberman Lab Podcast #31
• Previous Episode: How to Get Your Kids to Listen - The FIRST TIME You Ask | Tia Slightman (EP413)
• Connect with Tia:
• Website
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• FREE Golden Time Guide
• The Parenting With Purpose Method, 12 week coaching program

Tia has a Masters in Early Childhood Education, certified in Positive Discipline and has worked with kids and families for over 20 years. She is the founder of Tia Slightham- Parenting Solutions and The Parenting With Purpose Method, where she works with parents to teach them positive ways to decrease the daily struggles to build a strong parent/child connection.

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For those that are new around here, I release bonus episodes that serve a niche part of my audience, so if this content is something that doesn’t fit what you’re looking for, check out the other episodes that dropped this week or join me back here next Tuesday for a conversation that you don’t want to miss!

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In a culture where busy schedules and unspoken expectations can quietly erode connection, how do we stay intentional in our relationships? In this episode, Diane sits down with author and TV producer Lindsay Jill Roth to discuss her book Romances & Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours!) in 250 Questions - a refreshingly honest guide to building lasting love with both heart and clarity. After a pivotal moment in her own relationship, Lindsay created 250 research-backed questions covering money, parenting, faith, ambition, and more - not to interrogate, but to illuminate. Together, Diane and Lindsay explore how intentional conversations strengthen communication, reveal hidden assumptions, and help couples move from autopilot to alignment.

• Checkout the podcast storefront for recommendations from Diane.
• Connect with Lindsay:
• Website
• Instagram
• Book: Romances & Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours!) in 250 Questions ―Spice Up Your Love Life and Build a Stronger Connection with the Ultimate Relationship Guide

Lindsay Jill Roth is an award-winning television and live-events producer who has created and developed a wide variety of programming globally, including original content for NBC, BET, ESPN, Food Network, Billboard, Ferrari, The Masters, The Grammys, The TONYs, and the US Open. She is the former producer of Emmy-nominated Larry King Now and the creator and executive producer of Haylie Duff’s Real Girl’s Kitchen. She is also the author of the novel What Pretty Girls Are Made Of. Lindsay lives in New York and London with her husband and two young sons.

The Minimalist Moms Podcast would not be possible without the support of weekly sponsors. Choosing brands that I believe in is important to me. I only want to recommend brands that I believe may help you in your daily life. As always, never feel pressured into buying anything. Remember: if you don't need it, it's not a good deal!

Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning into this podcast, then do not hesitate to write a review. You can also share this with your fellow mothers so that they can be inspired to think more and do with less.

Order (or review) my book, Minimalist Moms: Living & Parenting With Simplicity.

You can contact me through my website, find me on Instagram, Pinterest or like The Minimalist Moms Page on Facebook.