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Maid

By: Stephanie Land,Barbara Ehrenreich - foreword
Narrated by: Stephanie Land
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New York Times best seller

"A single mother's personal, unflinching look at America's class divide, a description of the tightrope many families walk just to get by, and a reminder of the dignity of all work." (President Barack Obama, Obama's Summer Reading List) 

At 28, Stephanie Land's dreams of attending a university and becoming a writer quickly dissolved when a summer fling turned into an unplanned pregnancy. Before long, she found herself a single mother, scraping by as a housekeeper to make ends meet. Maid is an emotionally raw, masterful account of Stephanie's years spent in service to upper-middle-class America as a "nameless ghost" who quietly shared in her clients' triumphs, tragedies, and deepest secrets. Driven to carve out a better life for her family, she cleaned by day and took online classes by night, writing relentlessly as she worked toward earning a college degree. She wrote of the true stories that weren't being told: of living on food stamps and WIC coupons, of government programs that barely provided housing, of aloof government employees who shamed her for receiving what little assistance she did. Above all else, she wrote about pursuing the myth of the American dream from the poverty line, all the while slashing through deep-rooted stigmas of the working poor. 

Maid is Stephanie's story, but it's not hers alone. It is an inspiring testament to the courage, determination, and ultimate strength of the human spirit. 

©2019 Stephanie Land (P)2019 Hachette Audio

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"A single mother's personal, unflinching look at America's class divide, a description of the tightrope many families walk just to get by, and a reminder of the dignity of all work." (President Barack Obama, "Obama's 2019 Summer Reading List") 

"More than any book in recent memory, Land nails the sheer terror that comes with being poor, the exhausting vigilance of knowing that any misstep or twist of fate will push you deeper into the hole." (The Boston Globe

"Stephanie Lands memoir [Maid] is a bracing one." (The Atlantic

Featured Article: The top 100 memoirs of all time


All genres considered, the memoir is among the most difficult and complex for a writer to pull off. After all, giving voice to your own lived experience and recounting deeply painful or uncomfortable memories in a way that still engages and entertains is a remarkable feat. These autobiographies, often narrated by the authors themselves, shine with raw, unfiltered emotion sure to resonate with any listener. But don't just take our word for it—queue up any one of these listens, and you'll hear exactly what we mean.

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Very engaging

I downloaded this the day it came out on the basis of the synopsis. I had no idea that there was a lot of buzz about this book. So in the midst of a killer migraine, I listened straight through and it more than held my attention.

As I often do with books I really like or loathe, I read the reviews afterward. I was surprised at all the judgment a bunch of white women heaped upon her--not the book, but the author. Even the ones who wrote good reviews were judgmental. "poor choices" was mentioned quite often. Her first "poor choice" was to get pregnant and not have an abortion. Ok, not the choice I would make but understandable that she wanted to have the baby. I found all her choices understandable. All the judgment and outrage in the reviews came mostly from white women who I have to assume have never experienced poverty because if they had, I doubt they'd be crucifying Land for the things she did to survive and feed her kid.

Information not in the book showed up in the reviews. I did feel some gaps in the book and wondered why Land didn't leave those parts out if she wasn't going to elaborate. As a result, she left the reader hanging in places.

My two favorite dumb comments: If she was so poor, how could she afford tattoos? Maybe she got them before? The other (frequent comment) was that the book was confusing. Was it about being a single mother living in poverty or was it about being a maid? Uh...both. That's what she did to pay the bills.

I thought Land did an excellent job illustrating how hard it is to be poor and how the system keeps you there, e.g, she tries to make more money (while going to college) by working more but she earns a couple bucks too much and loses her day care subsidy. You can't climb out of poverty slowly by increasing your earnings bit by bit, you have to make a jump (somehow) by making next to nothing to making 40 or 50 grand a year (if you have a kid you're trying to support).

There are other books that show how the system keeps people in poverty better by providing more details (Linda Tirado--Hand to Mouth: Living in Bootstrap America is one book that comes to mind) but as a memoir, this one was quite good. The last thing I'd say is this: contrary to the synopsis Maid is NOT like Evicted (one of the best, but he's a journalist and a lot of research went into that) or Nickel and Dimed (another great book, but a journalist going under cover is not the same as living in poverty 24/7). So if that's what you're looking for, Maid is not it. Maid is a memoir about one woman's life--an interesting life.

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Whiny and Unlikable

I couldn’t finish this book and returned it for a refund after a few hours. The author comes across as whiny and is impossible to like. She complains about having to clean pubic hairs off toilets, but then admits to snooping through personal items like prescriptions and receipts. She claims that judgement over her use of WIC and EBT was rampant, but also admits to being unable to read her vouchers and follow simple instructions. As a former WIC recipient I can tell you that it’s not that hard to read what the coupon is for and pick up the correct item. I stopped listening entirely when she complained that WIC no longer covered organic milk.

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Too Many Contradictions and Half Truths

I wanted to like this book. The author can sometimes describe the difficulty of the various governmental aid programs. I mostly liked the parts where she judged her clients. I always wanted to look into people's homes.

What really turned me off were the inconsistencies. The author makes some poor choices, but she never seems to admit it. She often seems to find a decent landing place, but then leaves to pursue her dream of Montana. She talks about a horrible person her ex is, but will leave her daughter with him for a week, "to finish up the semester." Meanwhile she will claim her daughter is left on the ex's boat with only random men around her. If she left her ex due to an abusive relationship, why would she have her daughter spend extra time with someone like that?

I hate to judge, but she spends the whole book judging others. If you read her articles, there are many contradictions to what is in the book. Even the happy ending appears false as she continues to write about her plight.

This is the type of person that when you read all her stories, you realize she is not giving you an honest piece of writing, but using the written word to justify her questionable decisions and blame the consequences on others. It seems she has so many people that have helped her, yet she only focuses on the negative aspects of those relationships.

Lastly, her California up-speak voice sounds entitled. Especially when you realize you are not getting the full story. Bad story and a bad listen.

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Very Disappointed

This book was painful! The author complains incessantly and does not seem to have any perspective or emotional maturity. Total victim. I rarely write a negative review but I found so little to enjoy in this book that I could not finish it!

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It's Supposed to Be Inspiring

This book got rave reviews and very bad reviews. It seems like most of the good reviews come from the paper book and most of the bad come from the audio book. I can understand both viewpoints.

I think this is supposed to be a book about how anything is possible if you work hard and focus on your goals. It's about the struggle to dig oneself out of the bottom of hopelessness to the heights of realizing your dream. There is the nitty gritty downright nasty times that SL had to endure and we got an birds eye peak into the world of those who clean houses for a living.

The audio version would have been better - in my opinion - if someone else had narrated it. Ms. Lands voice is so negative and downtrodden and pathetic and weary and on and on. It just sounded so pathetic and poor me that I wanted to shake her, slap her face, anything to make her snap out of it. It reminded me of Sally Fields bio. Awful. Just awful.

One thing that caught my eye on other reviews was the negativity about the 'diamond ring' that she bought with some of her 4000 dollar tax refund money. Those reviews were so harsh and critical saying that she should have used that money on things she really needed. That led me to believe that she spent the entire sum on a ring but she actually spent $200 on a titanium ring with a 'diamond' stone. She deserved to spend some money on herself. It's ok! Y'all back off and let the girl have a little something for herself.

But it was interesting enough to keep listening. Barely interesting enough to keep listening. Would I recommend this book? Probably not. But I doubt I will forget about it either because it was bad enough to stay in my memory taking up valuable space that I could use for something else. If it was a hardback or paperback book I would not keep it on the shelf since there are other books more deserving of the space.

Is this a confusing review? Of course. It's a confusing book.

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Disappointed

Stephanie land’s writing is descriptive, well spoken and talented. However, I was so disappointed in her attitude, her decisions and lack of more personal responsibility. She whined way too much and I expected more information on how social services and its processes effect so many people.

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Amazing

This is a moving, insightful, and well-told story. Stephanie is rather like J.K.Rowling, it occurs to me, in that she pulled herself up out of really difficult circumstances because she knew she had something important inside her and actually had the grit to make it (her writing) happen. More power to her! I highly recommend this book.

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Pity Party for 1 Please!

I was so disappointed in this book. I had such high hopes for a story of perseverance, hard work and struggle to come out on the other side, but was left feeling empty. Stephanie chose to have a child at 28, while working as a waitress, with a man she knew for 4 months. She continually labels her daughter's father as abusive but other than site their different arguments and back-and-forth name calling, I felt as if she really didn't know him at all, clearly, and they couldn't ever get along. He was still her daughter's father and from what I could tell, he really did want a place in his daughter's life.

Other things I just couldn't get past: She spewed hate for her clients that smoked but she smoked herself. She spent part of her $4,000 tax refund on a diamond ring instead of looking into a new place to live for she and her daughter while her daughter continued to get sick from the black mold growing in their apartment. She committed insurance fraud after getting into a car accident and whined about the fact that she couldn't buy organic milk for her daughter anymore on the WIC program. She complained about dropping her daughter off at daycare when her daughter was sick and not being able to stay home with her but did nothing to look into getting a different job that afforded her the time she did want to spend with her daughter.

Overall, Stephanie's view of life and those around her is not realistic. I thought she would have taken all of the hardship in her life and learned from it, turning it into good. Nope- she didn't. She had another child with a different man. Then, split from him. Then, got married to someone different who tried to kill her. Newsflash Stephanie - get some counseling, girl. You have children that you should actually worry about, not just your narcissistic self.

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Life isn’t easy

Stephanie land is a fine writer. Her story was interesting. I understand the indignity of being poor and going without. What I don’t understand is the humiliation of doing service work. Work is work. No one is above doing what it takes to support our children. I’m surprised at the anger at the system that aided her, the humiliation she felt by cleaning and the attitude that she wasn’t responsible for the decisions that placed her in that position. Many do much better with much less without complaint.

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Boo-Hoo

I don’t know if I can finish this book! What a pity party - bad life choices make life harder, honey! Take some personal responsibility. You’re young, healthy, smart, attractive, speak English, have transportation, live in a relatively inexpensive area of the country AND people are willing to help you! There are many, many people who have much more difficult circumstances. I’m happy there is help for those who are struggling. I do not begrudge the author for needing support. What I do have trouble accepting is her entitled and “poor me” attitude. Those who face much more adversity could write volumes but they’re too busy busting their asses to write a self indulgent book like this one.

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