Love Busters

Overcoming Habits That Destroy Romantic Love
Narrated by: Willard F. Harley Jr.
Length: 10 hrs and 50 mins
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How spouses treat each other has a tremendous bearing on the success and failure of marriage. In this completely updated and revised edition of Love Busters, Willard F. Harley, Jr., helps couples identify and overcome the most common habits that destroy the feeling of love, including selfish demands, disrespectful judgments, angry outbursts, dishonesty, annoying habits, and thoughtless behavior. Harley also explains how to resolve common marital conflicts such as career choices and financial planning. You can't eliminate conflict altogether, but once these Love Busters are eliminated, conflicts can be resolved with love and grace. With Harley's expert guidance, couples will be able to avoid those behaviors that tear a marriage apart and focus instead on building their love for each other. This companion to His Needs, Her Needs and Fall in Love, Stay in Love is perfect for pastors, counselors, and couples.

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must listen to this with your spouse <br />

The book is full of knowledge for couples. But you must listen to this together. There is so much information you must take this story by story or chapter by chapter. If you want to communicate with your spouse this book will force them to. But you must make sure both of you will be honest and eager to work it out. Makes you take a look in the mirror and fix your issues.

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Marriage Savior

I have been married to the same wonderful man for 24 years. However, I did not always feel he was so wonderful. In fact, many times throughout the years I did not even like him. I believe everyone who is married, happily or unhappily, NEEDS to read this book along with His Needs, Her Needs. It is a MUST for your marriage if you want to fall in love all over again and feel the same excitement as you did on your wedding day.

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Excellent follow up to His Needs Her Needs.

Dr. Harley does an excellent job at breaking down and explaining destructive behaviors that destroy marriage.

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Best combo marriage book I’ve ever read

Love Busters together with His Needs Her Needs have been the 2 best marriage books I have ever read. Great book for the guys if you ever thought this stuff was written mostly for the ladies..you will be pleasantly surprised!!

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Tough to get through

Boring, his needs her needs was way better... I struggled to get through this one

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actually caused more fights

I dont agree with having to bring up any past events that are immaterial to the current relationship. in doing so, it actually brought about more arguments that really had no place in the current relationship at hand.

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Excellent book with tons of wonderful ideas!

I’m going to share this audio book to as many married couples as I can that wanna listen and learn!

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Excellent

recommend to everyone looking to improve their current or future relationships. I suggest take notes.

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Best marriage advice I've heard.

This is good if you're marriage has problems. He tackles all the heavy issues from kids to money to addiction to cheating and loads more.

gives overview on addictions and cheating, but it's enough to direct you to exactly what needs to be done in order for the relationship to work. decisive and direct.

just finished it a second time and already know ill hear it at least once or twice more. you won't be left asking why after listening.

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best book for marraige!

this is the best book for marriage I have ever read! it has a great insite for relationships in general and I feel blessed to have it been recommended to me.

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  • 02-06-16

Simply brilliant. An eye (and heart) opener

If you could sum up Love Busters in three words, what would they be?

If you really want to keep your Love for your spouse/partner strong, this book will help you realise the mistakes we all make and provide good advise on how to avoid and/or correct them.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-21-19

Remove these love busters from your relationship

This is a good book to listen to after his other book - his needs, her needs. This book does a good job of identifying issues that are present in most relationships and what to do about them.

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  • Elena
  • 08-16-17

eyeopening book

This is an eyeopening book (together with "His needs, her needs")! I would say both of them are essential to every couple to learn. Thank you Dr. Harley!