Long-Term Leverage

Why Chasing Love Puts You in a Position of Weakness and Makes You Less Desirable

De: Jesse Tyler

Narrado por: John Hammer

A woman would rather be single than be with a man she’s not attracted to. Just because you are in a relationship with her doesn't mean the work is over. If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a woman, you may have noticed she loses attraction over time. This book reveals how to keep power long-term in your relationships with women. You need to understand the language of women and the realities of today’s dating environment to maintain leverage at all times.

Most men fall into the same traps in long-term relationships. They end up losing leverage and turning women off because they are not aware of the game they’re in—and they don’t even know it.

In this book, I’ll outline the rules required to maintain a woman’s attraction, respect, and genuine desire over time. I want you to have the power in the relationship, not her.

You’ll discover:

• How to maintain attraction and leverage through the years so you are always in control
• All the things men do wrong in long-term relationships
• Why women stop respecting and desiring men over time—and the hidden behaviors that cause it
• How to flip the dynamic when she’s losing attraction, but more importantly, how to avoid it from happening in the first place
• How to maintain attraction and leverage when cohabitating and/or married
• How over-validating a woman leads to contempt and disrespect over time
• The feelings you need to maintain over time for her to keep being attracted to you
• Why the harder you try to please her, the colder she becomes—and the simple shift that makes her chase you again
• How to avoid her losing attraction for you and how to become the man she respects, desires, and wants to stay with long-term
• Why women crave challenge and uncertainty from their man—even if they never admit it

If you want to understand how this works, stop what you are doing wrong, and regain her attraction, then scroll up and click the “Add to Cart” button now and I will help you figure this out.

©2025 Kevin Almiron (P)2025 Kevin Almiron

Finally Got Some Clarity

I’ve read a lot of relationship books, but this one actually made things click for me. It broke down why things started going sideways in my last relationship without blaming or sugarcoating. The advice is direct, and yeah—it challenged me, but in a good way. I started applying a few of the mindset shifts and already noticed a change in how I show up. If you’re tired of feeling confused in your relationship, this is worth the listen.

Awesome!

You gotta get this book if you want better relationships! I applied the first thing I heard in this and it worked like a CHARM! Highly recommend!

Built My Confidence

This audiobook opened my eyes to how chasing love can actually push people away. It explains things in a clear and honest way. I liked how it focuses on building self-respect and long term value instead of quick fixes. A good listen for anyone tired of feeling powerless in relationship.

An eye opening read

This book really made me stop and rethink how I’ve approached relationships in the past. Jesse Tyler doesn’t sugarcoat anything he gets right to the point about why constantly chasing love and validation can actually push it further away. I appreciated how he broke down the psychology behind attraction and self-worth in a way that was clear and relatable. It’s not about “playing games,” but about shifting your mindset so you’re coming from a place of confidence, not desperation. Honestly, it’s a wake-up call more people need to hear, and I’m already noticing how these principles are changing the way I carry myself.

Completely Shifted How I See Dating

I didn’t realize how much I was over investing in people who weren’t doing the same. This gave me a major mindset reset, less about “winning” someone over and more about valuing myself first. The way it breaks down the dynamic of chasing really clicked for me. I’ve started approaching relationships with way more confidence and way less stress. If you’ve ever felt like you’re always the one trying harder, this hits the nail on the head.