'It's Not About the Sex' My Ass

By: Joanne Hanks, Steve Cuno

Narrated by: Kimberly Ellington

With wit, humor, and style, Joanne Hanks takes you on a wild ride through the insanity of the Mormon-based polygamist cult that was her life for seven years.

Get ready to laugh. Get ready to be outraged. And get ready to see polygamy as no one has ever revealed it before. Joanne tells their crazy story with humor and honesty. You'll share her angst over sharing her husband. You'll meet her "sister wives", a prophet calling himself a "celestial stud service" who seeks divine guidance on threesomes, and apostles who dress in weird robes to curse the White House. You'll fume at gut-wrenching tales of racism, sexual abuse, fraud, and manipulation. And you'll find out why no one remembers when Jesus destroyed the world on March 26, 2000.

"It's Not About The Sex" My Ass is more than an entertaining listen. It's a cautionary tale about the power of delusional thinking and a hopeful tale of one woman and her family who came to their senses and found the courage to leave.

©2012 Joanne Hanks and Steve Cuno (P)2015 Pitchstone Publishing

An Entertaining Polygamy Memoir

I’ve read several leaving polygamy stories. This one is not full of horrible shocking details, but it’s a fun short read (or listen) in this case, with a satisfactory conclusion.

Interesting first-hand account

There was no big reveal or anything surprisingly shocking here. But, it was an engaging first-hand account of the inner experiences.

Great humor- easy read!

This was a great story of one woman's strength! Easy to listen to, the author has a nice sense of humor too!

Humorous honesty

Hilarious take on an unconventional story. Fairly short but I feel it was an appropriate length for the story. It's refreshing to see a hard-core Mormon turn atheist for once.

A Beautiful Conversion of Tragedy To Comedy

Would you consider the audio edition of 'It's Not About the Sex' My Ass to be better than the print version?

Didn't read the print. I loved the narrator so I think audible was perfect medium. I kept thinking I was listening to the author.

What was one of the most memorable moments of 'It's Not About the Sex' My Ass?

The underlying story is important. Many of us are potentially vulnerable to "buying into" a false religion; a utopian dream. She followed her heart into polygamy and she followed her heart out. The author presented a serious situation with self-deprecating humor. She is very funny. I hope she writes more books.

Which character – as performed by Kimberly Ellington – was your favorite?

Joanne!