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If you’ve ever thought, “I’m exhausted, overstimulated, and intimacy feels like one more thing on my to-do list,” this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, we’re finally talking about libido — honestly, openly, and without shame. So many women quietly wonder why they don’t feel like themselves anymore, especially after babies, during perimenopause, or in menopause. This episode is here to remind you: you are not broken — your body is communicating.

Cody is joined by Dr. Diane Mueller, a board-certified sexologist, national speaker, best-selling author, and podcast host who has worked with over 33,000 couples. Dr. Diane brings both science and compassion to a topic that’s often ignored in women’s health conversations.

Together, they explore how hormones, chronic stress, nervous system overload, and life transitions impact desire — and why low libido is not a personal failure, but a biological response. This is a girlfriend-to-girlfriend conversation designed to bring clarity, validation, and hope.

In this episode, they discuss:

•Why libido is often left out of the hormone conversation

•What it really means to feel “touched-out”

•How stress and exhaustion biologically suppress desire

•Why low libido doesn’t mean you don’t love your partner

•How shame and guilt disconnect women from intimacy

•Practical first steps to begin reconnecting with your body and desire

If you’ve been wondering where you went, you’re not alone. With the right support, intimacy and connection can feel accessible again.

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Sponsored by Mixhers Libido

This episode is brought to you by Mixhers Libido, a thoughtfully formulated supplement designed to support women’s desire, sensitivity, and stress resilience. Libido works by supporting healthy blood flow, calming the nervous system, and helping your body feel safe enough to experience pleasure again — because desire isn’t about willpower, it’s about biology.

If you’re feeling tired, overstimulated, or disconnected from your body, Mixhers Libido can be a supportive place to start. You can save 15% with my code CODY at checkout.

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Resources from Dr. Diane Mueller

•Book: Want to Want It

https://WantToWantIt.com

•Libido Quiz:

https://LibidoQuiz.com

•Novelty Checklist:

https://MySexDoc.com

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Your desire matters. Your sexual health matters. And it’s never too late to reconnect with yourself, your body, and your partner.

If this episode resonated, share it with a friend and help us keep breaking the silence around women’s health.

Until next time — honor your hormones and give yourself permission to want more.

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In today’s world, it’s easy to feel emotionally overwhelmed, anxious, and exhausted. Between constant news, social media, family responsibilities, and everyday stress, many women are quietly living in survival mode — without even realizing it.

In this episode, Cody shares how to protect your heart, regulate your nervous system, and stay grounded in a loud, chaotic world.

You’ll learn how stress shows up in the body, why so many women feel tired and disconnected, and how to recognize the symptoms your body is using to communicate with you. Cody also introduces her CALM framework — a gentle, holistic approach to nervous system healing, emotional resilience, and whole-body wellness.

This episode is especially for you if you’ve been feeling:

•Overwhelmed or emotionally drained

•Anxious or constantly “on edge”

•Burned out from carrying too much

•Disconnected from yourself

•Stuck in stress or survival mode

•Frustrated with stubborn health symptoms

You’ll walk away with practical tools, encouragement, and a deeper understanding of how to care for your heart — physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

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In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

✔ Why your nervous system reacts to news and social media like real danger

✔ How chronic stress affects hormones, sleep, digestion, and weight

✔ The real meaning behind common symptoms like anxiety, fatigue, and inflammation

✔ How to protect your emotional and mental energy

✔ Simple daily practices to calm your body and mind

✔ Why love, peace, and connection are powerful healing tools

✔ How nervous system regulation creates lasting health

✔ What it means to truly “protect your heart” in modern life

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What Is the CALM Framework?

Cody’s CALM framework is a holistic approach to healing and regulation that helps women understand what their symptoms are really saying.

CALM stands for:

C — Capacity

Learning to honor your emotional and mental limits

A — Adaptation

Supporting your body’s ability to handle stress

L — Load

Reducing total physical, emotional, and hormonal overload

M — Modulation

Creating daily practices that bring you back to calm

Inside her CALM program, Cody helps women personalize this framework to their unique bodies, labs, symptoms, and life circumstances — so healing becomes sustainable, not overwhelming.

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Ready for Support?

If this episode resonated with you and you’re ready to feel calmer, clearer, and more connected to your body, Cody would love to support you inside her CALM program.

CALM is Cody’s signature 1:1 coaching experience for women who want to:

✨ Regulate their nervous system

✨ Balance hormones naturally

✨ Reduce stress and inflammation

✨ Improve energy and sleep

✨ Feel safe in their bodies again

✨ Heal without burnout

To learn more, DM Cody on Instagram:

👉 @codyjeansanders

👉 Send the word “CALM” and she’ll share the details with you

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In today’s episode of It’s Hertime, host Cody Sanders sits down with Priya Malani, Founder & CEO of Stash Wealth, for the honest, reassuring money conversation so many women have been craving — without the stress, shame, or overwhelm.

Money affects our nervous systems, hormones, relationships, energy, and sense of safety more than we often realize. Yet so many smart, capable women still feel anxious, behind, or unsure when it comes to finances. This episode is about changing that — together.

After becoming one of the youngest Vice Presidents at Merrill Lynch, Priya left Wall Street to help women and high-achieving professionals build wealth in a way that feels aligned, calm, and sustainable. In this conversation, she and Cody break down how to create financial confidence without sacrificing joy, lifestyle, or peace of mind.

If you’ve ever felt stressed about money, avoided looking at your bank account, worried about the future, or wished someone would just explain finances in a normal, supportive way — this episode is for you.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

•Why money stress quietly impacts hormones, energy, and mental health

•How to stop living paycheck to paycheck without feeling deprived

•What “living a life you can afford” really looks like in real life

•Simple credit card and saving strategies that actually work

•When renting may be smarter than buying

•How couples can communicate better about money

•Common financial mistakes women make — and how to avoid them

•How to start investing with confidence (even if you feel behind)

•What goal-based investing means and why it matters

•When it’s time to work with a financial advisor

Priya also shares how women can shift from fear and comparison around money to clarity, confidence, and trust — creating long-term stability for themselves and their families.

This is a conversation about feeling safe in your body, calm in your mind, and confident in your financial future.

About Today’s Guest: Priya Malani

Priya Malani is the Founder and CEO of Stash Wealth, a modern financial firm that helps high-achieving professionals build wealth with intention. She is a former Merrill Lynch Vice President and a leading voice in making personal finance approachable, empowering, and lifestyle-aligned.

Connect with Priya:

Website: stashwealth.com

Instagram: @stashwealth

Loved This Episode?

If this conversation encouraged you, share it with a friend who could use a little more peace around money. And be sure to tell them to subscribe to It’s Hertime so you both never miss an episode on hormones, health, mindset, and living fully.

Because financial wellness is self-care — and every woman deserves to feel safe, strong, and supported with her money.

About Cody’s CALM Program

CALM is Cody’s personalized 6-week reset that helps women calm their nerv

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