• I'm Judging You

  • The Do-Better Manual
  • By: Luvvie Ajayi
  • Narrated by: Luvvie Ajayi
  • Length: 6 hrs and 48 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (3,416 ratings)

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I'm Judging You

By: Luvvie Ajayi
Narrated by: Luvvie Ajayi
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Publisher's summary

Updated edition includes bonus chapter

Winner of the 2017 Audie Award for Humor

"A truth-riot of a book!" (Shonda Rhimes)
New York Times best seller
Number-one Washington Post best seller
Redbook "20 Books by Women You Must Read This Fall"
GoodHousekeeping.com "17 New Best New Books to Read This Fall"
BookRiot "100 Must-Read Hilarious Books"
Goodreads Choice Awards Nominee
Now in development with Shondaland and ABC Signature Studios as a cable television series

Comedian, activist, and hugely popular culture blogger at AwesomelyLuvvie.com Luvvie Ajayi serves up necessary advice for the masses in this hilarious book of essays.

With over 500,000 readers a month at her enormously popular blog, AwesomelyLuvvie.com, Luvvie Ajayi is a go-to source for smart takes on pop culture. I'm Judging You is her debut book of humorous essays that dissects our cultural obsessions and calls out bad behavior in our increasingly digital, connected lives. It passes on lessons and side-eyes on life, social media, culture, and fame, from addressing those terrible friends we all have, to serious discussions of race and media representation, to what to do about your fool cousin sharing casket pictures from Grandma's wake on Facebook.

With a lighthearted, razor sharp wit and a unique perspective, I'm Judging You is the handbook the world needs, doling out the hard truths and a road map for bringing some "act right" into our lives, social media, and popular culture. It is the Do-Better Manual.

©2016 Lovette Ajayi (P)2016 Macmillan Audio

Critic reviews

"Ajayi shares her observations of public shortcomings in a brash, honest manner that gives listeners the feeling we're on the other end of a long call from a venting best friend. Her spirited explanations and detailed examples will leave you feeling better about your choices." ( AudioFile)

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AMAZING

I love Luvvie and this book. Staying true to her self and giving the world a good read.

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A nonjudgemental book that judges you

The author was perfect in bringing her book to life. She judges you while judging herself too. It helps you receive her thoughts without taking it too personally. As a result, you know it's just to make all of us better.

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Hilarious and spot on!!

I laughed out loud (even on a crowded New York subway. Luvee points out our silliness, but doesn't take herself too seriously .

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Dope!

I couldn't stop listening. I learned a ton and reflected even more. What a book!

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EVERYTHING!

This read is filled witb laughter, tears,judgement, and shade. Im gonna do better so I won't be judged.

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Hilarious!

Luvvie made my hour commutes fly by. She made me laugh and cringe so many times by many judgments on ME! (Side eye-ing her.) I definitely recommend this book and will be buying it for my mother on Mother's Day!

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AWESOMENESS

Because she reads it, you get all the annotations and can hear the petty/shadiness of it all. LOVE IT! I NEED A 2ND BOOK

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Couldn't stop listening!

Amazing! Luvvie touched on the best topics to push us all to do better. I love listening to her podcasts so I'm so glad I listened to her narrate her first baby. on to the next Luvvie book 💕

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Love the book - a fun read!

She's hilarious and makes VERY valid points. Perfect to read on Audible. Wishing you much success (no side eye :) )

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Excellent!

I felt like she was reading my thoughts out loud! I will definitely listen again and encourage my friends to read as well.

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