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I Love You, But I Hate You, But I Need You

How to Love Unconditionally for Someone Living with Borderline Personality
Narrated by: Gene Blake
Length: 1 hr and 48 mins
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Publisher's Summary

Are you or your loved one suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder? Do your mood instabilities affect your daily functioning, behavior, and relationships? Are you looking for a solution to controlling, managing, and reversing the effects of BPD?

This book is about to change all that for you!

The key to getting BPD under control is to recognize and accept the reality of the problem. BPD is not something that you or your loved one should be ashamed of but embraced as part of what makes someone who they are. 

In this book, you will learn:

  • What Borderline Personality Disorder really is
  • What to do when someone you care about has BPD  
  • How people actually get BPD 
  • How to feel empowered and confident while having BDP
  • How to accept yourself positively
  • How to cope with NDP with 5 steps to balanced responses 
  • How to meet the needs of your partner effectively
  • Tips and advice on how to provide genuine encouragement to your partner
  • Common mistakes that people make
  • How to establish proper communication channels and set boundaries for your child

Benefits of mastering these techniques include:

  • Increased bonding and understanding of BPD between you and your loved one
  • Negating underlying negative behavior 
  • Greater belief in self 
  • Better awareness of crisis situations
  • Better understanding of psychology and behavior
  • Enhanced emotional health
  • Greater self-awareness  
  • Rebuilidng of proper relationships 
  • And much more
©2018 Jonathan Wee (P)2018 Jonathan Wee

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good tools

I have borderline personality disorder I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS BOOK.... especially if you felt as lost , as I did after being diagnosed.
Also, after reading the book, i felt calmness as I read the book. .

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BDP

A great book ! I think it will help everyone. This book will not only help correct the mistakes you are making right now when communicating with someone who has BDP but also improve and enhance the special bond for the years to come! Awesome !

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I would recommend this one if you are a newbie.

Borderline Personality I Love You, But I Hate You, But I Need You How To Love Unconditionally For Someone Living With Borderline Personality Disorder - Narcissistic Personality Types is a good book

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A very detailed guide.

This book is loaded with lots of great information for borderlines and their families! It explains the disorder in an unbiased light, while introducing concrete concepts that explain the perceptions and behaviors of these individuals. This book really hits home to me as I have a loved one with this disorder. It was a life saver in helping me understand the confusion.

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5/5 excellent

Awesome book. I am really happy buy this book. This book is very informative and learning. I like this book....

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An Excellent Book for Beginner

Nice book. I am happy that I've taken in a session marginal identity. This book is exceptionally nitty gritty. Highly recommended this book for all.

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outstanding!!

Excellent Book. Learning a lot from this book. This book taught me to recognize the underlying needs behind his behavior, and how to respond mindfully rather than just react.

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Pretty good

This book was so much informative and helpful to Borderline personality people.To hear this book you will judging someone living with borderline personality disorder. So i highly recommended this book.

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Very well written!!!

Well laid out book! This is a very interesting book to read for anyone interest to learn more about Borderline Personality Disorder and Its easy to understand. I found this book useful and helpful. Highly recommended!

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Marvelous

Of course, people who have a Borderline Personality Disorder are special. This must be taken into account when communicating. This book helped me understand how to build a relationship with a loved one. I understand now what mistakes I made earlier. Good book

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  • hyguihglikj
  • 11-07-18

Don’t do it

If you are here because you want concise but fair information on BPD then look elsewhere. The “treatment” ideas include fake it for self confidence and copy someone who seems confident- a direct contradiction to a BPD coping mechanism of ‘mirroring’. I had to give up by 30min in. The search continues. Also it was impossible not to hear ‘fat Tony’ from the Simpsons in the narrators voice. Not worth it. Better BPD podcasts with more insight are available on Spotify.

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  • Santa Baneviciute
  • 10-26-18

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I disliked the patronising tone of narrator. The content is too shallow, for my level of knowledge at least. Didn't even finish it....

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  • catherine
  • 09-01-18

Complete guide indeed

This book truly hits home to me as I have a friend or family member with this disorder.Personality Disorder are exceptional. This must be considered when conveying. To peruse this book you will passing judgment on somebody living with marginal identity issue.

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  • saji
  • 09-01-18

Mostly believable

Of course, people who have a Borderline Personality Disorder are special. This must be taken into account when communicating. This book helped me understand how to build a relationship with a loved one. I understand now what mistakes I made earlier. Good book

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  • parvesh
  • 09-01-18

Very informative and interesting.

Well laid out book! This is a very interesting book to read for anyone interest to learn more about Borderline Personality Disorder and Its easy to understand. I found this book useful and helpful. Highly recommended!

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  • mydeen
  • 09-01-18

Perfect for newbies!!

This book was so much informative and helpful to Borderline personality people.To hear this book you will judging someone living with borderline personality disorder. So i highly recommended this book.

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  • Riswana
  • 09-01-18

One of the best!!

Excellent Book. Learning a lot from this book. This book taught me to recognize the underlying needs behind his behavior, and how to respond mindfully rather than just react.

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  • albert
  • 08-31-18

Just Amazing!!

This book is loaded with lots of great information for borderlines and their families! It explains the disorder in an unbiased light, This book really hits home to me as I have a loved one with this disorder. To listen this book you will judging someone living with the borderline personality disorder. So i highly recommended

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  • jack
  • 08-31-18

Happy that i found this book!!

This guidebook explained well what borderline personality is. If you are at all curious about borderline personality disorder or you just want to feel closer to your loved one you should learn more through this book. Indeed, by listening this boo, I've learned a lot on the subject.

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  • nazir
  • 08-31-18

Useful tools!

it's really hard to deal with a Narcissist because of their personality disorder, but still it can fixed we help them as my sister has same personality disorder, but there are good tips and information sequzed in this guide its helpful to deal with Narcissism.