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How to Not Die Alone
- The Surprising Science of Finding Love
- Narrated by: Logan Ury
- Length: 8 hrs and 1 min
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Publisher's summary
A funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.
Have you ever looked around and wondered, 'Why has everyone found love except me?' You're not the only one. Great relationships don't just appear in our lives—they're the culmination of a series of decisions, including who to date, how to end it with the wrong person and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.
Drawing from years of research, behavioural scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn't lead to results. You have to actually change your behaviour. Ury shows you how.
This book focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioural science, original research, and real-life stories. You'll learn:
- What's holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern)
- What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn't)
- How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you)
- How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love)
- How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews)
- Why 'the spark' is a myth (but you'll find love anyway)
This data-driven, step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build and keep the relationship of your dreams.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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"A definitive guide for a generation navigating the murky waters of modern love." (Esther Perel)
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- Roger Jonkers
- 12-28-23
Great practical dating and relationship advice
I learnt alot about being a romanticizer and maximizer in relationships. Will definitely apply the dating tips in this book. Lots of good practical advice in this book.
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- Praksha Maharaj
- 03-14-24
Intentional Love
Wow Logan, I truly loved this book. And definitely going to listen to it again and make notes this time. Hope you will be writing many more books.
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- Luisa I.
- 01-26-23
Useful but short
Since the author covers different stages of relationships, each stage seems quite short. Good ideas and insight all around though.
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