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The former sex and relationships editor for Cosmopolitan and host of the wildly popular comedy show Tinder Live with Lane Moore presents her poignant, funny, and deeply moving first audiobook.

Lane Moore is a rare performer who is as impressive onstage - whether hosting her iconic show Tinder Live or being the enigmatic front woman of It Was Romance - as she is on the page, as both a former writer for The Onion and an award-winning sex and relationships editor for Cosmopolitan. But her story has had its obstacles, including being her own parent, living in her car as a teenager, and moving to New York City to pursue her dreams. Through it all, she looked to movies, TV, and music as the family and support systems she never had.

From spending the holidays alone to having better “stranger luck” than with those closest to her to feeling like the last hopeless romantic on Earth, Lane reveals her powerful and entertaining journey in all its candor, anxiety, and ultimate acceptance - with humor always her bolstering force and greatest gift.

How to Be Alone is a must-listen for anyone whose childhood still feels unresolved, who spends more time pretending to have friends online than feeling close to anyone in real life, who tries to have genuine, deep conversations in a roomful of people who would rather you not. Above all, it’s an audiobook for anyone who desperately wants to feel less alone and a little more connected through listening to her words. 

©2018 Lane Moore. All rights reserved. (P)2018 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.

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Everyone must read.

Lane Moore is brutally honest and opens parts of her heart that no one should have to. And that’s the point, she doesn’t have to. She does so on the hope, that she can help even one soul feel seen, heard, and a little less alone. What a gorgeous treat this book has been.

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Self awareness I wasn’t expecting

This book was suggested to me by a friend and I genuinely thought I was going to be a self help book that had a bit of an edge. Female writer, cover I related to, sure! Well it was so much more.

Part memoir, part cautionary tale, part advice, all heart. I don’t relate to Lane on every aspect she bravely shares in this book, but damn do I relate to her thoughts and behaviors as an adult. I was able to gather insight I’d been seeking all year and I have a big smile on my face knowing that she would be genuinely happy to know that she helped a stranger.

If you’ve always felt a little weird and a little outside the norm of society, I’d recommend this book. It was like talking to a friend.

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loved this book!

I have listened to this book twice! This is my first holiday season alone and I am so gladni stumbled upon this book!

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Waste of a credit

I felt like I was listening to a whiny child. I did not bother to finish it.

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because of this book im not alone anymore.

because of this book, I'll never be alone again. Moore's voice holds you in the dark.

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This book is for you

if you're single and navigating what it means to grow into adulthood in 2018, this book is for you. If you feel like you're surrounded by people who met their partner in high school or college and have never had to navigate the perils of dating apps, and think 'getting out there!' is 'fun!', this book is for you. If you feel intimidated by people who somehow manage to have like, a tight knit group of good friends, and a job they love and/or pays them well, and solid mental health, and you, um, don't have that? this book is for you.

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I absolutely adore this book! it wasn't about what I expected it to be about, but it was so much better! I love the authenticity the author displays, I love the way she delivers the book. I also love how deeply I can relate to it.

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Lonely? Akward? Fall for wrong ones?=Must read!

Very relatable. Lane Moore makes this feel like Im sitting with a trustable friend thay has good advice. I will be listening to this again. And may buy a couple printed copies to give to a couple friends.

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I couldn’t put it down, and now I’m packing up my life

Thank you so much Lane, you’ve no idea how desperately I’ve been searching for someone so much like me, in a way just to validate how I feel so alone and that while my parents and siblings all abandoned me when I was 15, I’m still here and that’s pretty great, I kept moving to someone fight for their affection but all I got was more emptiness knowing that they all left me, and friends aren’t family either, you’re basically just dust in the wind and I’m okay with that now. Thank you.

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beautifully raw

Lane tells her story with humor, grace, and love!! Her story will make you cry, laugh, ponder, and enlighten your soul! I own the paperback and had to get this to hear Lane tell her own story in her own words!! I'm so glad I did!! You're beautiful Lane, thank you for sharing your story!!

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This book is actually a magic potion

And with this magic potion you will never feel alone ever again, I promise. Lane really knows what she's talking about.