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Publisher's Summary

In the classic best-seller His Needs, Her Needs, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouses. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to extramarital affairs.This revised and expanded edition has been updated throughout and includes new writing that highlights the special significance of intimate emotional needs in marriage.

©2013 eChristian (P)2013 eChristian

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  • Ange
  • KEYSBOROUGH, Australia
  • 11-22-13

Very practical and helpful

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Recommended for those seeking practical advice for maintaining a loving and respectful heterosexual relationship. There are strong beliefs about traditional gender roles.

What did you like best about this story?

There's practical advice backed up by examples of conflicts and reconciliation. I appreciated that the language was NOT too academic (i.e. boring) like how some psychology and self-development books can be.

What about Willard F. Harley’s performance did you like?

Good. Very engaging and easy to listen to.

What did you learn from His Needs, Her Needs that you would use in your daily life?

Always keep working on my relationship.

Any additional comments?

I believe that author is Christian but he does not saturate the book with Scripture references or religious references that would prevent non-Christians from understanding the principles and advice of the book. I also appreciated that the author uses simple language and everyday examples.

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Not currently married.

I was married for 42 years and now widowed for 2 years. I have gone through many emotions since my husbands death. The realizations that while we loved each other my emotional needs weren't being met hardly ever. I now have a better understanding of where the lack was. This book helped me clarify for myself what I need. If I ever remarry this book will help me to determine whether the man I have an interest in can really fill these needs of mine. Excellent book. If I had this book while married we would have been more able to fill each other's needs better and found more joy and happiness together.

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A must read!!

I learned a lot and will apply. The author is very straight forward and doesn't mince words or topics... a little hard to listen to sometimes because just the thought of my marriage going thru infidelity gets me upset!!!

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Super Helpful!

Really enjoyed this book! My husband is going to listen to it next. I would HIGHLY recommend this to all couples working to build or sustain a strong, long lasting marriage.

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Practical and Insightful

Harley clearly speaks from years of experience, offering countless examples of real like couples he's counseled. He offers step by step help for anyone who desires a stronger marriage. Perhaps the best marriage book I've ever read.

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A must read

Loaded with a lot of great information and access to exercizes that will only help to strengthen and add tremendous value to your relationship. Not to mention learning a lot about how and why men and women behave differently.

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Loved it! Great info if put into place.

Loved it! We had been working on the wrong things and frustrated that they weren't helping. This helped identify the real issues and helped us work on the source of the problem.

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intriguing, an eye opener!

love the steady pace of this book, found the examples honest and factual life accounts that happen in every day at a blink of an eye.

I learned things that seem obvious but as daily life takes hold can make these small efforts take a back seat and neglects the ones we love.

I read the painful threads in forums that could have had great use out of this book, and nip these potential affair in the bud in rhe very beginning.

I'll be passing and recommending this book to my wife, and love ones.

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The single most important book on marriage

Everyone who is married, or is entertaining thoughts of marriage, should read this book. As well as give it to their SO for them to read. It's simple, to the point, and very well presented.

It gives you the very simple tools that are necessary for a loving and fulfilling marriage.

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Life changing!

This book literally changed our marriage and our lives over 25 years ago. We have been teaching on it ever since. We've not always succeeding in faithfully meeting each others' needs at all times, but we make it our goal. Thank you, Mr. Harley. Only eternity will reveal our gratitude and the good works you've done in making marriages more like Christ and His Church! We thank God for you and this book!
I have a cute story to share with you with which I think you and your wife will find incredible joy! My 29 year old daughter is an ER Nurse and was talking to a married male friend of hers at work a week ago. To make a long story short, her friend Matthew was telling her about some things he'd learned before marriage and needed to rethink now that a child was born and the "honeymoon" was over. Matthew explained that 3 years ago he was speeding and pulled over by the Georgia State Patrol. The officer looked into the car and asked Matthew why he was in such a hurry. Matthew apologized (of course😉) and explained that he and his fiance' were headed to get their marriage license. The officer's eyebrows raised with a smile on his face and told them to wait a few minutes and he'd be right back. He came back rather quickly with a book in his hands...you guessed it..."His Needs/Her Needs" by Willard F. Harley! He told Matthew that this book would save his marriage and basically make them live happily ever after! 😍 My daughter was all ears and then interjected, "I can't believe this, but that book saved my parents' marriage, and they've been teaching a Sunday School class about it for the last 22 years!" An amazing but true story! Please be sure Dr. Harley knows about it! Btw...no speeding ticket! Lol!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Lisa from Loganville🌺🌺🌺

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  • Jimon
  • 07-08-18

Practical

Legit vibes. Clear explanations and useful worksheets. Not just for affairs but useful during a relationship.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 11-07-16

good love guide book

helping to understand both side of your love ones good basic love guide book

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  • olumide.Sobayo
  • 03-14-18

Superb!

I finally found the time to get through this family life classic! ...frank, practical and enlightening.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 04-21-17

Great stuff

This books breaks down all the pitfalls couples are most likely to expect in their marriage and how to survive the issue knowing exactly what really going wrong. Great book to read with your other half and it will be an interesting journey for the both of you.

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  • Leanne
  • 05-05-16

Willard is a Winner!!

Like having your wise old father help you out with your most important relationship... A must listen!!!

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