He's Just Not That Into You

The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

By: Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo

Narrated by: Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo

Length: 3 hrs and 35 mins

Publisher's summary

He's Just Not That Into You, based on the popular episode of Sex and the City, educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.

Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you".

He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out", consider the glorious thought that maybe He's Just Not That Into You. And then set yourself loose to find the one who is.

©2004 Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo (P)2004 Simon & Schuster Audio

Critic reviews

"By all means read this smart, funny, and surprisingly upbeat little book." (Publishers Weekly)

This book helps me a lot !!

I'll never wait his call anymore.
I won't waste my precious time for a jerk.
I really recommend women to read this book.
It'll make you strong for sure!!

Short Sweet and to the Point

Thanks for the wise words regarding indicators “he’s just not that into you” I loved the touches of humor throughout as well

ACTUALLY VERY HELPFUL!! HELPED ME IN SO MUCH WAYS

Would you consider the audio edition of He's Just Not That Into You to be better than the print version?

Yes actually, I love hearing Greg and Liz's voice.

Who was your favorite character and why?

Greg. He's amazing, charming, caring and hilarious.

Which character – as performed by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo – was your favorite?

Nicki. She is too funny but she is some of those stubborn people who can't admit their wrong...like me.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

YES! YES! Absolutely YES!

Any additional comments?

I really did love this book and all it offered. Rather than listen to music I actually wanted to listen to this book, which says a lot for me. I burned through it and I want to listen to it again, again

The most powerful eye-opener ever!!

What a liberating book! All women in the whole wide world should read/listen to it! This brilliant, insightful book has just saved me years of suffering, and has shed so much light to my own understanding of myself and my relationships! With good humour and wits, its ideas allowed me to easily and instantly perceive so many mistakes I've been doing my whole life! As... setting my self-worth at such low standards that made me accept 'scraps of love' as substitutes for a real, fulfilling relationship...! Girls, don't waste your precious time on earth! Get the information, liberate yourself and be truly happy!

love love love this book!

I'm not even in a bad relationship and I love this book. This is a great reminder of what we deserve as women and as human beings. You're never too old or too deep into a relationship to remember you need to be treated with respect and Greg's books are the absolute best at reminding you of this! Liz is wonderful and completely dead on and about how hard it is to find a good guy when you are a smart, sassy, interesting, amazing woman. And the truth is you will have to settle on a lot of things because there aren't a lot of men that are equivalent to women like this. But you don't have to settle on the minimums they discuss in this book. He may be a bit bald or have a dad bod or have an ex wife or cry at sappy movies or watch too many sports, but you don't have to be with a cheater or someone who strings you along or someone who's critical of you and judges you. Stop looking for the perfect Prince Charming and start to realize truly the things you shouldn't put up with.

Ok this was EXACTLY what every modern women needs to hear

After a recent ghosting (again), I said, enough is enough, I feel like I’m repeating the same lesson without actually learning from these men I was involved with. So I got this book.

Ladies, if a guy is into you, HE WILL FIND A WAY TO CONTACT YOU. It’s time we stop making excuses for them because the right one won’t make you doubt, question, or insecure about the relationship or his intentions/love for you.

The book was witty, insightful, sometimes a dose of hard to hear medicine, but always washed down with sugar and care because Greg really wants us to be happy and find the one.

It’s a must-read.

LMAO

What made the experience of listening to He's Just Not That Into You the most enjoyable?

Soooooo funny. I love this book because the authors are super down to earth and relateable.

What did you like best about this story?

The constant reminder about "he's just no that into you".

Have you listened to any of Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo ’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

Never heard of them before

What insight do you think you’ll apply from He's Just Not That Into You?

Same as always,.....respect myself more so I can make better choices.

Any additional comments?

Listen and laugh til you feel better.

I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS BOOK!!!

What did you love best about He's Just Not That Into You?

The humor in this book is so awesomely entertaining and I literally listened to it all the way through in one day!! They really drill these concepts in your head so that you are very clear when a guy is just not that into you! Brilliant!

What did you like best about this story?

It was very engaging and I loved the sarcasm from Greg. Its amazing how we as women can make so many excuses for a mans behavior. I love the straight talk!

What about Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo ’s performance did you like?

They did an excellent job of relaying the information to be clear and entertaining. I learned a lot and somethings I knew but I was honestly in denial!

What did you learn from He's Just Not That Into You that you would use in your daily life?

When a man does not make it crystal clear that he is 100% into you. HE isn't!!

Any additional comments?

LOVED IT!

I really needed this.

As someone who was particularly embarrassed to buy this book and say I actually own it, I can say with complete certainty that I NEEDED TO READ/HEAR THIS. After recently having yet another wishy-washy guy come into and then out of my life (extreme interest and then complete ghosting), I had had enough. Screw embarrassment. I already felt embarrassed ... and ashamed that this had happened to me. I needed to realize that this wasn't about me not being good enough, fun enough, pretty enough, interesting enough, or smart enough. This is about the fact that I (and every woman) DESERVE better, and that we shouldn't settle. As Liz says, I too am a pessimist, but I want to believe that I deserve better and will get better as a result of my FAITH (Greg). I'm so thankful for this book, and am also reading "It's Just A F***ing Date." I highly suggest both books. Thank you to the writers for making these books!

Amusing

A quick listen, very amusing and enlighting