Henry, Himself

A Novel

By: Stewart O'Nan

Narrated by: Richmond Hoxie

A member of the greatest generation looks back on the loves and losses of his past and comes to treasure the present anew in this poignant and thoughtful new novel from a modern master

Stewart O'Nan is renowned for illuminating the unexpected grace of everyday life and the resilience of ordinary people with humor, intelligence, and compassion. In Henry, Himself he offers an unsentimental, moving story of a twentieth-century everyman.

Soldier, son, lover, husband, breadwinner, churchgoer, Henry Maxwell has spent his whole life trying to live with honor. A native Pittsburgher and engineer, he's always believed in logic, sacrifice, and hard work. Now, seventy-five and retired, he feels the world has passed him by. It's 1998, the American century is ending, and nothing is simple anymore. His children are distant, their unhappiness a mystery. Only his wife Emily and dog Rufus stand by him. Once so confident, as Henry's strength and memory desert him, he weighs his dreams against his regrets and is left with questions he can't answer: Is he a good man? Has he done right by the people he loves? And with time running out, what, realistically, can he hope for?

Like Emily, Alone, O'Nan's beloved portrait of Henry's wife, Henry, Himself is a wry, warmhearted portrait of an American original--a man who believes he's reached a dead end only to discover life is full of surprises.

Even and meandering

This book isn’t for everyone. If you’re looking for an exciting plot, for twists and turns, you won’t find it here. It’s the simple story of a normal man’s normal life. Events and people we can relate to. It’s even and calm. Trigger warning, though: it contains a description of a dog being euthanized. Fair warning if you have trouble with such things as I do.

Mitford lovers this is for you!

Everything about this book is satisfying! The performance is spot on, the best I’ve ever heard. The main character is Henry, a common guy who draws you into his life with such a sweetness that you’ll want to read it all in a day. If you love the Mitford series, you will love this book!

Family ties.

Chautauqua described for those who love going there. Love that the couple were classy and took care of each other and stayed together.

Nothing Happens If You're Okay With That 3.5*

It's just going day by day with Henry and his wife and their very, very ordinary lives. It's kind of funny because at times you actually think something will happen, but no, not really, haha. The narrator is what really saves the book. He manages to make all this ordinariness somehow okay and you just plod along as a voyeur with no better choices to look. Besides, I just enjoyed listening to him read! The book itself is not bad per se, it's just nothing exciting in the least because there is no story arc, tension, or dynamic, interesting characters.

Tho I preferred emily alone...

This was a seemingly completely accurate portrait of a marriage of upper middle class people in their 70s. Rich in detail of the humdrum parts of life which inform a larger lived experience. Petty inner thoughts, routines, the ways couples work together -and around-each other over the course of 50 years. I saw in my own parents and here that as one’s life narrows in focus, things that are no big deal become very important. Cleaning gutters, choice of stamp to mail Christmas cards, family disagreements about variations on a casserole. Somehow, O’Nan seems to make the micro-moments of a life so informative of a deeper truth about the human experience- Here as well as in Emily Alone and in last night at the lobster.

A wonderful read

This is the second time I’ve listed this book. The author captures life perfectly. It is a moving and wonderful tail and this is a book that will stay with you for a long time. Read all three in the series and you’ll love it

Eh?

A very dull man in a very dull book. His life and routines may be interesting to some but to me they were just tedious

Mundane and boring

Just not my cup of tea, yet I listened to the whole thing, waiting for something to happen. Kind of like A Man Called Ove, but with no humor or plot.

Dull

If a woman had written this, it never would have found a publisher. Home Depot runs does not a story make.