Get the Guy

Narrated by: Matthew Hussey
Length: 7 hrs and 58 mins
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This is the audiobook that single women have been waiting for! Created by the hottest dating coach on the scene, Matthew Hussey, it offers clear, honest, and practical advice for women on how to find their ideal man - and, importantly, how to keep him. Using simple steps, Matthew guides us through the complex maze of dating and shows us just how to find the guy, get the guy, and keep the guy.

Through his work as a peak performance coach, Matthew has gained unparalleled access into what makes guys tick when it comes to women. He is now using this "insider information" to advise women who have been unsuccessful in their quest for a lasting relationship with the right man. His Get the Guy coaching events are hugely successful and the glowing testimonials he receives from those he has helped to find love just go to show that his advice really does work.

In Get the Guy, Matthew shares his dating secrets and provides women with the toolkit they need to approach men, and to create and maintain relationships. Along the way, he explodes some commonly held myths about what it is that guys really want, shares strategies on how women can take control of their dating destinies, and empowers them to go out there and find an exhilarating, adventurous love life.

©2013 Matthew Hussey (P)2013 Random House Audiobooks

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Epiphany

Don't fall into the trap that it is a book JUST for dating. It is first and foremost, a book for personal development, a journey to better yourself and attract people based on how awesome you're becoming. I loved it deeply and I'm recommending it to all my girl friends. Moreover, it is such a pleasure to listen to Matthew, i find myself laughing on the street every new chapter. His energy is amazing and I'm so grateful to have taken part in it.

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Great book!

I must admit that this book didn't have some totally new information for me, as I read a lot of literature of the kind, but Matt really helped me open my eyes on some of my issues and find a way to solve them. I have specific ideas and mindsets that are an impediment and that have deep roots in my personality, but with Matt's guidance I feel like I am ready to start changing them. Good luck to me and all the fellow readers!

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Recommend 100%

Very helpful, smart and funny, it’s for everyone from single or married of any age, marriage it’s just the beginning..... 😉

Thanks Matthew, you’re awesome 😘

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Love Matthews work!

Star!! Fun, exciting and interesting book!! Litsening to this makes you enthusiastic to do whatever you set out to do, and step out of your ordinary!

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This is the worst dating book I’ve ever read and I basically paid for a marketing tool for him to promote his seminars. I didn’t learn anything I don’t think his advice is good at all.

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a must have piece 😘

Loved it!
*self value & Worth moment.
Mathew is so great at his job! tanku 🤗

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Very touching

I'm going to apply the book in my life, saying as an introvert myself. xo

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Awesome book

I havent gotten the guy but I've started valuing myself more and I am fully equipped to get and keep the guy. Thank you Matt.

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I have hope now

I loved every word! It wasn't boring or strung out. It was very applicable and has shown me, practically, that's it's ok to enter the world of dating and love. I'm gonna listen it once more.

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Life lesson plus love life

This book is more then just and how to get the guy or keep him for that matter. It gives you lesson that you can apply every part of your life. Plus the bonus video are amazing. Definitely a book I will reread again!

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  • Cristina
  • 11-28-15

it was great! opened up my eyes!

absolutely loved it! I am in a relationship and it helped me understand soooo much!!!! loved every second of this book!

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  • Adailton
  • 07-17-15

Nice book to understand men behaviour

I enjoyed reading this book from a male perspective.
It doesn't canvas everything as we are all individuals, nevertheless it clarifies how some types of men react to certain scenarios.

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  • Alice4000
  • 05-04-13

Fires up you confidence

I love this audiobook. I bought the non audio version after attending a evening get the guy seminar which gave practical, useful and confidence building advice that you can start incorporating to increase your chances of meeting the right guy.

I haven't got around to reading the book yet just due to life, I'm great at putting my love situation on the back burner and distracting myself with work and other things. So I bought the audio version with my credits so I had no excuse not to finish.

Matthew Hussey really is an expert on this stuff. Alot of the relationship advice, finding a soulmate stuff I've read, while helpful to some degree focuses alot of visualisations, meditations and passive practices that are designed to attract the right one with intent. They all have useful ideas but for me this book stands out as just being really practical. Hussey gives some intriguing insights into the male mind. He also really helps to really fire up your confidence to start taking steps to move forward rather than take the path of leaving your love life to fate.

There are pauses in the reading in which you can check out online videos where tips and concepts are demonstrated.

What I love most about this book is that as well as the practicality of it all and the onus on you having the power to change things, Matthews enthusiasm fired you up whilst listening. He comes across as someone who is genuinely passionate about helping you to start taking steps to meet the right one. I'm starting to accept the fact that leaving something as important as love to fate and outside circumstance is just too risky. All singletons out there could benefit by starting to be proactive even if just really small everyday ways if they want to meet and attract the quality of relationship they dream about. I'm putting the steps into place already as I feel that I would be an absolute fool not too. My confidence is increasing after getting positive results.

If you want to find some practical advice and confidence building tips on meeting the right man then this book is an important listen.

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  • Carley Horne
  • 04-17-17

Read this after my marriage was over

This book was ok, but looking back I only got it as I was desperate to have a better understanding of why my marriage ended and things I could do to get him back. In reality I didn't need this book I just needed time to heal.

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  • Zooey
  • 08-03-14

Entertaining and life changing

What made the experience of listening to Get the Guy the most enjoyable?

humorous and factual;
I like the simple examples and exercises which recommended in the book which alter my everyday life. Its not only about get the guy but also get a life.

What other book might you compare Get the Guy to, and why?

why men love bitches

If you made a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

relationship

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  • Lu
  • 09-11-17

Nothing new

Matthew Hussey seems fascinated by his own work and voice. The shouty narration and rather preachy lecturing does nothing to give power to his bland and desperate ideas but rather gives the listener the impression of being cornered by a drunken know it all at a wedding reception.

Talk to every guy you meet. Every guy. Flirt and desperately ask for their phone number. If tgey aren't available, try to find out if they have any friends that would give you their phone number. Be confident but drop your standards until you'll date anything then date anything.

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  • Lucy P
  • 09-08-17

Great ideas and breaks away from The Rules in a refreshing way

Loved the ideas and tips of best things to say to boyfriends and husbands when in a relationship. Have tried them out in my husband of 3 years and noticing a positive change.
However, when I started listening, I felt like I was listening to a late night U.S. infomercial with 10 mins of wordy promises and nothing back. Glad I kept going!
Next up, Matthew's voice. He has a good neutral English accent, great vocabulary, with one hugely distracting flaw - he doesn't pronounce the hard sound of the letter 't' most parts of a word. I'm afraid I noticed it every minute I listened. Other than this, I'm glad I heard the author read the book.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 06-28-20

Brilliant!

I loved Matthew's voice and how his passion for changing people's life is contagious! Two sides shown in such an understanding way without ever feeling dismissed by him.

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  • Foxy
  • 05-09-20

Amazing

Very good advice that I will implement into my life. A must read book !

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-23-20

Amazing

I loved how real this audiobook was , it’s structured well and extremely helpful breaking years long stereotypes of men’s thoughts .

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 07-06-17

Wow!

This book is life changing Matthew helps you to understand how guys think whilst highlighting how our own behaviour can leave us jumping at shadows that dont exist. A real insight into how to find the guy and build and maintain an amazing fulfilling relationship. Early days for me but the chapters are the building blocks to help me create the person I want to be with no compromise of my ultimate goal.....to get the guy and the relationship that I desire and deserve. Brilliant!

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  • Meg
  • 06-22-16

Sceptic

So, I should start by saying I was a little ashamed buying this, thinking that it would teach me how to fit around a man. It did the opposite, I learnt how to respect, value, and find integrity in myself that would not only potentially find me a romantic relationship, but also serve all aspects of my life. If you are a sceptic like me, just take the plunge and get the book, it's worth it for everyone no matter where your romantic life is at right now.

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  • Raechel
  • 01-14-17

Soooo informative

Loved it! Has it all, sound advice, simple hints & tips you can put into practice. Great bonus content with the video snippets, personal & client stories. Oh & his beautiful accent & energy when reading makes it impossible to put down ❤

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  • Alana
  • 12-03-16

Best book ever

I'm really sad to have finished this book. When I accidentally stumbled across Matthew Hussy's pod cast one morning in the car on my way to work, I didn't expect to listen to it for more than 30 seconds. It was actually so insightful, I listened to ever single pod cast over the next few weeks. Then I got the book. I have really enjoyed it and have recommended it to so many of my friends, single and in relationships. The advice is really sensible and easy to implement into daily life.

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  • Samantha
  • 11-13-16

Definitely worth the spend!

Amazing advice throughout the entire book & his voice is incredibly easy to listen to. Thanks Matt x.

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  • MCJ
  • 10-20-18

well done Hussey

Worthwhile if a woman requires advice. Get The Guy is a really informative and engaging book.

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  • Client d'Amazon
  • 08-02-17

A real breakthrough !

I'm so grateful for this book. It's going to change my sentimental life forever. Matthew Hussey is a modern hero.

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  • Francessca
  • 05-07-16

Half the book

All the audios in this book is not accessible which makes the book almost half irrelevant. Its just another marketing tool.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 02-21-18

Hard sell overkill

Matthew loses his approachable manner which first made me notice him on YouTube videos and FB. The fake enthusiasm and excitement tone in his voice make him sound insincere and inauthentic.

He is pushing sales and sign up links so frequently that it is difficult to piece together his information.

This book feels like a hard sell pitch almost immediately and doesn’t expand upon the teaser content which can be found online in the above sources.

Very disappointed.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-07-20

Amazing advice for every woman

Couldn't stop taking notes. Love this book! I think it's something every woman should read.