• For Men Only (Revised and Updated Edition)

  • A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women
  • By: Shaunti Feldhahn, Jeff Feldhahn
  • Narrated by: Jeff Feldhahn
  • Length: 3 hrs and 22 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (1,395 ratings)

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By: Shaunti Feldhahn, Jeff Feldhahn
Narrated by: Jeff Feldhahn
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Publisher's summary

Finally, you can understand her! If you're like most men, you've burned up lots of energy trying to figure out what a woman wants, what makes her tick, and how to make her happy. The good news: success is simpler than you thought. In their groundbreaking classic, For Men Only, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn reveal the eye opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love.

For example:

  • Why she can’t "just not think about" something that's bothering her.
  • How to get her real answers without games.
  • How your provider instinct can actually cause her heartache - and what to do about it.
  • Why "not tonight, honey" may not mean what you think.
  • Why listening to her feelings is so hard for a guy, and a fix-it plan that works.
  • Why her "I do" at the altar will always mean, "do you?" and the answer that rocks her world.

Now updated with the latest scientific research to explain the fabulous female brain plus an all-new chapter that shows how to decode her most baffling behavior, For Men Only is your roadmap to making her happy.

©2013 Multnomah Books; Har/Bklt R edition (P)2013 Oasis Audio

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"Shaunti and Jeff have unearthed a treasure chest of insights - eye opening and life changing." (Andy Stanley, Senior Pastor, North Point Community Church)

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Awesome.

Wish I read this 20 years ago. I have many things to work on in my marriage based on this book. Exciting

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Absolutely Loved it!!

A lot of what was written was just like me!! I absolutely love it!! I’m divorced, but when I finally meet the man I’ve been praying for, he will be required to read it!! Haha and I will read, “For Women Only” (which I’ve already read 😉) I’m so thankful that God led me to find these books 📚

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Excellent

Needed truth for both men and women to hear. It's changed marriages.... great recommendation for singles and marrieds.

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a recommended read

great book recommend every husband to read it. it showed me that even the things I thought I knew I had a lot to learn.

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I’m a woman and I learned too!

There are some things that a woman feels but can’t put into words, or doesn’t even understand herself. It’s frustrating, and truly a working process. Reading this book helped me to grasp why I think the way I do and to realize that, truly, I’m not overreacting, I’m not unreasonable... what I think and feel has meaning! I hope that the guys out there in the world can help their beautiful woman in their lives by reassuring them they are heard, loved and beautiful♡

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If only

If only I knew how a man thought years ago, I would have not been so easily offended.
Women I highly recommend reading the mens version first then read the women’s.

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Amazing

This book really is the prefect "How-To" guide into the female psyche. Helped me learn a couple things about myself as well. A definite must read for any man in a relationship from acquaintances all the way to marriage.

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Extremely worth every second of it!

I wish I could keep learning more and more from them! it hit key points and had dead on accurate advice

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Bits and pieces I have missed

Interesting and learning opportunity sometimes a simple misunderstanding creates issues
Open your eyes and observe

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Eye opener

I liked how it made me rethink my approach to my wife. Years of what I thought I was doing was right, I couldn’t be more wrong. My attention to detail of my wife is now widing so I can understand her feelings more and relate to her.

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