Flashback Girl

Lessons on Resilience from a Burn Survivor

By: Lise Deguire

Narrated by: Julia Sismour

At the age of four, Dr. Lise Deguire suffered third-degree burns on 65 percent of her body as the result of both maternal and corporate negligence. Against the odds, she lived through the trauma, beginning decades of treatment as a burn survivor.

Some chapters of this gripping journey focus on early events, including the story of the fire, her years of painful surgeries in the hospital, social isolation, and bullying. Other chapters focus on her adult life, such as her struggles to find romantic love, being a parent, and her work as a clinical psychologist.

Dr. Deguire recounts her childhood with two narcissistic parents and their futile struggles to find happiness. She tells the tragic story of her family, which includes artistic genius, stark neglect, and four suicides. Most importantly, she explains her long but ultimately triumphant path toward love, health, and life satisfaction.

The voice of Flashback Girl is warm and engaging. Despite the seriousness of the subject, the tone of the book is positive and humorous, without self-pity. The aim is to inspire those who suffer to keep pushing on. If the author can make it, despite the tremendous odds against her, there is hope for all.

©2020 Dr. Lise Deguire, LLC (P)2021 Dr. Lise Deguire, LLC

Surprisingly informative

While what happens to this little girl is undisputedly horrific, it is not a horror story. it is a story of a family, as well a story of one little girl's journey through life; her resilience and success in the face of many kinds of adversity.

Absolutely perfect

This is a truly inspirational story. At times you’re left wondering how anyone could endure such pain and then you’re blown away by the power of resilience.

Julia Sismour is an amazing narrator. I could listen to her read to me all day. Brava!

Incredible

Not knowing what to expect, I was overwhelmed with this woman’s honesty, openness, generosity of spirit. A survivor who recounts her life, relationships, loves and hardships. This is a book worth reading.

Read/listen to this book

I knew Lise, the author of this book briefly from HS. FB enabled us to stay in touch. I read the book as you would when a friend has put something out there in the universe and it’s the right thing to do. HOWEVER, the story of Lise’s life and resilience is unlike anything I expected. I had that listening experience where you make up long errands and chores where you can wear ear buds and listen. Her daughter, a talented actress, reads the book beautifully. I’m honestly blown away by the life lessons and impact of this story. Lise is honest and raw in all that happened to her and within her life. Please read and recommend.

Awe-inspiring resilience and grace

An incredible page-turning combination of heartbreak and healing. I’m blown away at the way she maintained perspective and dignity in the face of unspeakable adversity and tragedy. A must read.

Insightful and relatable

Fabulous book! I personally found much to relate to because of my own life circumstances. I also found many healing messages and couldn't put the book down until I read it all. Love the insights to mental health and overcoming adversity with dignity. Great book for anyone needing to he’ll your own feelings and dysfunctional family situations.

Vulnerable and real

It was healing to hear how the author viewed her mother. This was such a raw human story, especially for those with complicated parental relationships.