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The MANipulator manual. Keep your man interested and begging for more without playing games.

Let me start off by explaining I am in no way talking about the sexual act. F**k him, in this case, is not physical - it's mental.

So many women get in trouble in their love lives, and 99.9 percent of that trouble could have been avoided if they'd said "Well, f**k him!" a bit more often. Too many women are way too nice and compliant to their men, especially when these men don't deserve that kind of treatment.

And yet, every woman I've ever met tries to not be needy or wear her heart on her sleeve. She simply wants to protect her feelings. Nevertheless, most women I've coached have had men seem very interested only to disappear suddenly. These women are left standing in the dark. Once the guy vanishes, they often find out it's easier to get the president of the United States on the phone than the man who seemingly really liked them...just not enough to stick around.

This should stop.

I, as a dating coach and author of books for women who want to get men, cannot take it anymore. You deserve better. This is not your fault. It's his! What if there was a way to change a guy's behavior? What if you could get into his head and take over the driver's wheel? What if you could make him do more of the things that you appreciate and need and less of the bad behaviors you dislike? At first, this might seem impossible. Nevertheless, I'm sure you've already met women who are good at manipulating their men.

Enter the high-value woman. You know her. You've seen her. She's the woman who always has great men drooling over her. It's the woman you see getting all the attention. You often wonder, "How does she do it? What do they see in her? What does she know that I don't?"

Are you ready to implement her strategies?

Then start listening right now to find out

©2014 Brian Nox (P)2016 Brian Nox

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This book comes across a patronizing. We learn what is a “High Value Woman”. You hear that term a “million times”. This book made me feel nauseous. And, if the author is correct in his, what he says “all men are”, and he knows this because he is man, it looks pretty sad and hopeless, at least for me. What I got, is that men are dogs and they cannot help themselves in a myriad of ways, and as women we need to learn how to play games with them from the beginning and forever (but “we should be ourselves”). All and all depressing book. Patronizing and depressing. It really should be “F**k men” book. The sad part is that, even if I hate most of what he says and the way he says it, he may be right, which is the worst thing. Anyway, this book left me hopeless and depressed, and hoping I was gay. Also, it seems he is just mostly sharing about himself, and it was one of those books that seemed to be put together in a few days. Paraphrasing the person who put the words on paper for this book “I’m sorry it this offends you, but I like to give it to you straight.” Thank you.

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Overall good advice

The author says that for many years he has been observing and interviewing women who were able to find lasting love. He shares the secrets that he gleaned from them. The main theme of the book is to be very independent. For example, if you have a yoga class planned and your boyfriend asks you out last minute for that time, tell him that you already planned to go to the yoga class. The author says you need to have your own life. If you really want to go out with him and you have nothing planned, then the author would say it's fine. He shares a lot of additional advice.

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  • Hess
  • Riyadh, KSA
  • 04-08-17

Reaffirming book

After reading this book I realized that I am a high value woman, and when things didn't work out it was with a person who was very low value and insecure.

A low value man may be a narcissist, opportunist, loser, or any man who is seeking a weak woman he can control and take advantage of. I am not that woman and I never will be..

This book has been wonderfully reaffirming. Currently happily single till a high value guy sweeps me off my feet. ;).

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Good but more of the Same....

There are many aspects of this book that I would say are insightful and true; but overall i found it to be more of the same. The book describes men as basic, somewhat superficial creatures. A few times the author compares men to three years olds; starting that their needs are similar and motivations the same. I personally find this to be sad and wonder if perhaps the type of men this advice would cater to are even worthy of time and attention. I would like to think that most readers desire a deep fulfilling relationship with an equal and not with someone who prefers to be manipulated with mind tricks. Overall I think the authors is coming from the perspective of a man who still has growing to do. The author confesses that he has commitment issues and is actually the type of man he describes in the book. That being said if you are looking to find a man-child and convince him to “ ship” you, read this book.

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Highly recommend

My circle of friends have all been recommending this book to all the girls we know of that are always learning and improving.

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Love this book!

I appreciate a man finally expressing true honesty about what really goes on in their heads while dating a women,
STRAIGHT UP! Thank-you, Brian!

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Helpful!

Information was interesting and helpful. I plan on applying the strategies suggested. Narration was good.

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Best advise ever!

Dont let the title turn you off! Worth every minute of my time! I highly recommend this read to every woman everywhere in every type of relationship or no relationship. Great, the best, advice ever.

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wished i could have listened to this 4months ago.

love that the author included tips on what to do and what to say in certain situations. definitely helpful for a lot of women

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This book has a lot of good nuggets.

If you could sum up F**k Him! in three words, what would they be?

Self respect, will power, confidence

What did you like best about this story?

I really like the way he describes situations.

What about Jerod McBrayer’s performance did you like?

I like that he doesnt hold back, Very straight forward,

What insight do you think you’ll apply from F**k Him!?

Not calling him my overly cocky ex bf. Keeping my dignity and power.

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  • Eloise Pryor
  • 03-29-18

Yet another book claims to support women yet..

This book suggest strategies to become a ‘high value’ woman which in return translates to a woman who constantly control her behaviour to keep a ‘High value’ man rather then bring her authentic self and expect man to love her for who she really is. It appears that we all need to consciously respond to man’s fears and shortcomings as they themselves are unable to do so, but we must love them anyway as they don’t really mean it. There is very little insight into women psyche and the author over simplifies both sexes (several times comparing the men’s thought and behaviour to a 3 years old toddler) and the highly complex nature of love and attraction. It makes claims such as if a man loves you (which is clearly conditioned on the fact that we behave in a ‘feminine manner’ at all times) he will want to take care of you and do things for you, such as ‘manly tasks’ of fixing the door handle. I think the author needs to acquaint himself with the 21st century definition of sexes and gender identities. I can’t really recommend this book, although I must say that I prefer the author’s YouTube videos, which are short, sweet, funny and to the point and could help younger women with self esteem issues trying to get into the dating scene.

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  • Aakanksha
  • 02-25-17

Loved it!! Must have to boost your self confidence

Awesome narration and very consice and to the point. Love the real life examples. A must have for every woman in or out of a relationship

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  • Karen
  • 11-14-18

Excellent

I love this book, it makes sense, and it definitely works, thank you so much 😊

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 11-01-18

Fantastic book

Fantastic book, I recommend this book to all ladies. Easy to understand and very informative. Loved it so much ❤️

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  • Clarke
  • 10-27-18

Good book

informative it was an enjoyable book far from boring I learnt a lot from not trusting your emotions. Great energy!!!!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 08-20-18

Awesome

Loved this book. I can really see where I have been going wrong. Now I can say Fuck him..no more nice girl👍

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  • Anonymous User
  • 07-29-18

Nice book

I enjoyed this book, really interesting stuff. I Can't wait to check if it works

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-16-18

Worth checking out-About focusing on self worth!

This book was worth a listen as an audio book- I'm not sure I'd have got through it if I was flicking through the pages reading it... I've heard many similar tips before that feature in this book but the advice re not allowing yourself to get too carried away in the early stages of getting to know someone (without playing games).. at the end of the day most if not all guys still prefer to do the pursuing & that's not likely to change for decades (in fact it may never change!!). I often think, come on it's now 2018 surely we're now on more of an even 'playing field' - the harsh truth is we're not & 90% of guy's seem to be commitmentphobes till they finally meet someone they feel that they can't live without!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 01-24-18

Great read

I found the book very interesting and it made a lot of sense. I would recommend to every woman. It is also well narrated.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 07-19-17

Intresting to listen to and really helpful

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

I would . It would be really useful to try the tactics the author mentioned.

What was one of the most memorable moments of F**k Him!?

Treat him like a dog. Haha xD

What about Jerod McBrayer’s performance did you like?

Yeah. He really knew hot to spark my interest.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

If i had the time definitely.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 08-29-18

I wish I came across this book years ago

The book contains a lot of very useful advice, illustrated with examples, and is presented in a logical, convincing, and reasonable manner. Some of the advice may seem counter-intuitive at first but they begin to make sense when Brian elaborate and explain why this will work. The most important message that comes across is self-love and respect every woman should have for herself, and Brian did a great job in explaining how that can be done. I'm glad I have read the book now; I wish I came across this earlier in my life.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 10-09-18

Makes so much sense!

Very good! A game changer. How to change YOUR life to attract and keep a great man. Not how to attract and keep a MAN. no games, nothing that would make you feel weird or fake. just a different insite and simple easy to apply tips on taking the ball back into your court. i loved it! Just have to point out theres going to be more then one thing you learn that you will remember your mother trying to tell you. Age old wisdom, explained in a fool proof way.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 07-24-18

advice you need

loved it! he is honest and totally right about everything. wish i read this earlier