F*ck Him!

By: Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox

Narrated by: Jerod McBrayer

Length: 2 hrs and 50 mins

Publisher's Summary

The MANipulator manual. Keep your man interested and begging for more without playing games.

Let me start off by explaining I am in no way talking about the sexual act. F**k him, in this case, is not physical - it's mental.

So many women get in trouble in their love lives, and 99.9 percent of that trouble could have been avoided if they'd said "Well, f**k him!" a bit more often. Too many women are way too nice and compliant to their men, especially when these men don't deserve that kind of treatment.

And yet, every woman I've ever met tries to not be needy or wear her heart on her sleeve. She simply wants to protect her feelings. Nevertheless, most women I've coached have had men seem very interested only to disappear suddenly. These women are left standing in the dark. Once the guy vanishes, they often find out it's easier to get the president of the United States on the phone than the man who seemingly really liked them...just not enough to stick around.

This should stop.

I, as a dating coach and author of books for women who want to get men, cannot take it anymore. You deserve better. This is not your fault. It's his! What if there was a way to change a guy's behavior? What if you could get into his head and take over the driver's wheel? What if you could make him do more of the things that you appreciate and need and less of the bad behaviors you dislike? At first, this might seem impossible. Nevertheless, I'm sure you've already met women who are good at manipulating their men.

Enter the high-value woman. You know her. You've seen her. She's the woman who always has great men drooling over her. It's the woman you see getting all the attention. You often wonder, "How does she do it? What do they see in her? What does she know that I don't?"

Are you ready to implement her strategies?

Then start listening right now to find out

©2014 Brian Nox (P)2016 Brian Nox

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This book comes across a patronizing. We learn what is a “High Value Woman”. You hear that term a “million times”. This book made me feel nauseous. And, if the author is correct in his, what he says “all men are”, and he knows this because he is man, it looks pretty sad and hopeless, at least for me. What I got, is that men are dogs and they cannot help themselves in a myriad of ways, and as women we need to learn how to play games with them from the beginning and forever (but “we should be ourselves”). All and all depressing book. Patronizing and depressing. It really should be “F**k men” book. The sad part is that, even if I hate most of what he says and the way he says it, he may be right, which is the worst thing. Anyway, this book left me hopeless and depressed, and hoping I was gay. Also, it seems he is just mostly sharing about himself, and it was one of those books that seemed to be put together in a few days. Paraphrasing the person who put the words on paper for this book “I’m sorry it this offends you, but I like to give it to you straight.” Thank you.

Overall good advice

The author says that for many years he has been observing and interviewing women who were able to find lasting love. He shares the secrets that he gleaned from them. The main theme of the book is to be very independent. For example, if you have a yoga class planned and your boyfriend asks you out last minute for that time, tell him that you already planned to go to the yoga class. The author says you need to have your own life. If you really want to go out with him and you have nothing planned, then the author would say it's fine. He shares a lot of additional advice.

Good but more of the Same....

There are many aspects of this book that I would say are insightful and true; but overall i found it to be more of the same. The book describes men as basic, somewhat superficial creatures. A few times the author compares men to three years olds; starting that their needs are similar and motivations the same. I personally find this to be sad and wonder if perhaps the type of men this advice would cater to are even worthy of time and attention. I would like to think that most readers desire a deep fulfilling relationship with an equal and not with someone who prefers to be manipulated with mind tricks. Overall I think the authors is coming from the perspective of a man who still has growing to do. The author confesses that he has commitment issues and is actually the type of man he describes in the book. That being said if you are looking to find a man-child and convince him to “ ship” you, read this book.

Really

Can't believe I wasted a credit on this. Don't do it to yourself. So this book. And spread the word

Knock-off of Sheri Argov's Why Men Love B*tches

I liked his examples, and the narrator is pretty good, but it seemed like he was just paraphrasing Sheri Argov's books. It also sounded condescending coming from a man and had an overall "boys will be boys" theme. Definitely had a few eye rolls, but overall a good stand in for "Why Men Love B*tches" since it wasn't available.

Reaffirming book

After reading this book I realized that I am a high value woman, and when things didn't work out it was with a person who was very low value and insecure.

A low value man may be a narcissist, opportunist, loser, or any man who is seeking a weak woman he can control and take advantage of. I am not that woman and I never will be..

This book has been wonderfully reaffirming. Currently happily single till a high value guy sweeps me off my feet. ;).

YESSS!!

This book confirms everything I have been telling my girl friends for YEARS!! And last but not least "f*ck him" if he can't live up to your standards!

Great Advice! READ IT!

Halfway through the book I started implementing the strategies and they started to work right away... like magic! Last week my boyfriend wasn’t sure he wanted the relationship anymore. I purchased the audio version yesterday and listened to it... last night he came over and when he got to my house he flooded my face with affectionate kisses... tonight he wants to take me out for dinner... something we haven’t done without my asking, in over a year! I tried my own strategies since last week until now and they didn’t seem to be working very well, but this book made it so easy to get the results I wanted.

The Tips in this Book Work!

Conquering the mind (ego) of a man is easier than we think. Easy, practical advice and tips that work.

Seriously? Take psych 101 instead

So, mixed up Psych 101 with real women don’t play games followed by a whole list of games you should play, followed by an admonition to not use them so often that the guy figures out what you are up to. Fortunately, it’s short.

Yet another book claims to support women yet..

This book suggest strategies to become a ‘high value’ woman which in return translates to a woman who constantly control her behaviour to keep a ‘High value’ man rather then bring her authentic self and expect man to love her for who she really is. It appears that we all need to consciously respond to man’s fears and shortcomings as they themselves are unable to do so, but we must love them anyway as they don’t really mean it. There is very little insight into women psyche and the author over simplifies both sexes (several times comparing the men’s thought and behaviour to a 3 years old toddler) and the highly complex nature of love and attraction. It makes claims such as if a man loves you (which is clearly conditioned on the fact that we behave in a ‘feminine manner’ at all times) he will want to take care of you and do things for you, such as ‘manly tasks’ of fixing the door handle. I think the author needs to acquaint himself with the 21st century definition of sexes and gender identities. I can’t really recommend this book, although I must say that I prefer the author’s YouTube videos, which are short, sweet, funny and to the point and could help younger women with self esteem issues trying to get into the dating scene.

Loved it!! Must have to boost your self confidence

Awesome narration and very consice and to the point. Love the real life examples. A must have for every woman in or out of a relationship

Revolutionary!!!

I loved this! Now to put the teachings into practice! I recognised myself so much in this book as the person who always tries to please, always being told how wonderful I am, yet have a disastrous love life. Now I know it's because I tried too hard and let my emotions take over. I've already let one bad guy go, telling him he's not right for me, but we're still friends. I know I need to cut contact.....just gotta do it.

Excellent advice!

Very good advice that will benefit anyone looking to be a high value woman. Thank you Brian! Love your work..

What F*cking good advice

I found this audiobook very Inspirational, insightful & very helpful.... Thank you Brian for sharing your advice loved listening 😁

Not original

Nox comes across young and inexperienced. He claims to have coached lots of women but some of the anecdotes are straight from other famous books! Perhaps he had referenced them but he makes it sound as if it was someone he coached. His girlfriend sounds like a doormat and he’s been stringing her along for the last four years from the sounds of it. Some of the advice he gives is reasonable but it is common sense. And will people stop about oxytocin?! If that theory were true, one would fall for every man one slept with, which is clearly not the case. He has portrayed women as these marriage-seeking beings and describes cringe-worthy seduction techniques fit for a man who has never been near a woman in his life! “......press your chest against him..” or something similar. It was almost comical. There are better books out there.

Part of your toolkit

Right, so just to be clear, this is NOT a super complex, intense, full of psychological stuff book. This a down to earth, practical and actually very insightful book. I have definitely saved this one on my “super women tool kit”. Great read! X

Must read!!!

Every woman should read this great book!!!totally helpful information and very easy to read.

awesome

couldn't stop listening. very interesting and lots of food fot thought. wise moves women should learn very early in life.

Every woman needs this

Truly amazing, thank you for taking the time to write this book, very inspiring & what every woman needs!