I'd been married to Jesse for almost five years. We'd been happy...more or less...but there seemed to be something missing in our relationship. Then he got a promotion at work. More money, but longer hours. And less time at home. The gap between us was growing. I was desperate to fix our marriage. We'd tried counseling, therapy, yelling, separate bedrooms. Nothing helped. But what did end up working for us was the last thing I ever thought we'd try.