Ep. 2: Motherless Women

By: Esther Perel

Narrated by: Esther Perel

[Contains mature themes] A couple with two small children are at physical and emotional odds in their relationship. One has given herself over entirely to the children, while the other struggles to find her place within the family dynamic. Esther helps them reframe each of their roles in terms of what they uniquely contribute.

Step into the office of renowned relationship therapist and TED Talk sensation Esther Perel, and listen in as she counsels couples in crisis due to infidelity, sexlessness, loss, and disconnection. The result? Astonishing insights on how they can make love work – and takeaways for you on ways to repair and restore your own relationships.

About Esther:

Esther Perel is recognized as one of today’s most insightful and provocative voices on personal and professional relationships. A celebrated psychotherapist who has helmed a private practice in New York City since 1983, she has over three decades of experience navigating the intricacies of love and desire.

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Great stuff!

Esther helps the couple, get out of their own way, so they can get to the point of actually seeing and talking to each other.

Hooked

I'm in awe of Perel's ability to clarify the origins of how one has learned to love. She does it with compassion and her skillful grace in guiding couples to a pathway that leads them back to each other.

An Unintentional Life Changing 30 minutes

I have seen Esther's TED talks and have found her so honest with the perfect balance of logic and emotion when explaining or discussing any topic but this took my breath away. Unexpected to say the least as i downloaded and started listening because the title is fitting for the type of soul searching I have been doing recently. I did not expect to burst into tears upon realizing that this was my story and that my husband and I arent alone, neither of us is right or wrong and that we too have this same "balance" and everything is going to be ok. With 2 little ones and an almost identical experiences in our childhoods and the issues we struggle with as a couple since becoming parents this is really something every couple who are parents should hear. It is easy to listen to so raw and honest and put together so well. I will be listening to EVERYTHING Esther Perel.

Such a lyrical illustration

While episode 1 was a bit of a challenge to listen to, this one was pure enlightenment and pleasure, if sometimes painful pleasure. I am a heterosexual mom with adult kids, and we had a decade of au pairs when kids were young, yet I had little idea of my own needs or desires before kids and absolutely none, zip, zilch after!

I read MIC in 2012 and again recently. It made a lot more sense this time, and this podcast is an excellent illustration of many points from that book.

THANK YOU to the women who shared in this episode.

Same sex couple - finally!

It's such a relief and pleasure to hear couples therapy actually focus on a same-sex couple. Most relationship approaches say the theory applies to all sexual orientations but go on to focus and give examples only of heterosexual couples. I myself am straight but grew up with lesbian moms so have an acute awareness of relationship across the spectrums. Thank you so much for giving space for this lived reality!