Eight Dates

Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

De: John Gottman PhD, Julie Schwartz Gottman PhD, Doug Abrams, Rachel Carlton Abrams

Narrado por: James Patrick Cronin, Julie McKay

Navigating the challenges of long-term commitment takes effort - and it just got simpler, with this empowering, step-by-step guide to communicating about the things that matter most to you and your partner. Drawing on 40 years of research from their world-famous Love Lab, Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman invite couples on eight fun, easy, and profoundly rewarding dates, each one focused on a make-or-break issue: trust, conflict, sex, money, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams.

Interactive activities and prompts provide motivation to stay open, stay curious, and, most of all, stay talking to each other. And the range - from the four skills you need for intimate conversation (including Put into Words What You Are Feeling) to tips on being honest about your needs, while also validating your partner’s own emotions - will resonate, whether you’re newly together or a longtime couple looking to fortify your bond. You will discover (or rediscover) your partner like never before - and be able to realize your hopes and dreams for the love you desire and deserve.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2018 John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Doug Abrams, and Rachel Carlton Abrams (P)2019 Audible, Inc.

Straightforward and informative

What I liked most about this book was the idea the authors put forth that a great love story is a never-ending conversation. This notion runs counter to the prevailing notions in our media — ones that say love is an easy, happily-ever-after tale. In reality, keeping our relationships fresh takes hard work and openness, again and again.

This book helps readers analyze all aspects of their relationships, then ask the right questions in regard to each subject. As the authors state, as long as we are willing to do the work, willing to commit and be forever curious about our partners, we will keep our love alive.

But that love cannot last if we don’t keep the conversation open. This book helps bring that message to light. It’s a quick, straightforward, and to-the-point read. I’d recommend checking it out.

-Brian Sachetta
Author of “Get Out of Your Head”

Amazing!!

I have been struggling on my marriage for so many years - feeling unfulfilled and unseen and in reading this book I finally feel like I understand why and have some hope for finding a new path. Thank you!

Very well written!

It really opened my eyes to being a better partner.👍👍👍👍👍 It will make me better.

Great book. But narrator sounds like a robot.

I got a lot out of this book, but I recommend just buying the book and reading it bc the narrator sounds like the automated voice you get when you call Chase bank.

Excellent

Wish I’d read this before my marriage. It will guide my life and relationships going forward.

Compelling Book. Bought the Kindle as well

Well worth going through multiple times. Great content! Every couple should read this and read again

Highly recommended

I highly recommend this book to everyone - from people with the intent of starting dating, couples, Married Couples, and professionals in the field.
Great job and work!

Great Book for Couples

Definitely recommend this book for all couples in all stages. Helps provide you with a different perspective to increase close-ness and understanding.

A must read for every couple

Absolutely loved everything I leaned on this audiobook - I only wish I learned all of Gottman’s stuff 20 years ago

Fantastic

Practical information for any couple on the journey towards a triumphant marriage! Can't wait to implement what I have learned! Well done!