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Dealing with a Narcissist

Disarming and Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare. Understanding Narcissism & Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Healing After Hidden Psychological and Emotional Abuse
Narrated by: Trei Taylor
Length: 1 hr and 23 mins
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Publisher's Summary

Still struggling from the effects of a narcissistic or psychopathically abusive relationship?

Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online, or in the written research, or with counselors, and therapists that can help. Narcissistic victim syndrome is not officially recognized, nor is it widely even known.

Even when it is accepted, recognized and known not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it.... The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them.

Do the following symptoms sound familiar?

  • Ruined self confidence
  • Doubting yourself and your sanity
  • Mood swings
  • Sleeplessness
  • Extreme weight loss or weight gain
  • Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity
  • Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong
  • Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective)
  • Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your ex
  • Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened
  • Feelings of helplessness and despair
  • A desire to self isolate
  • Feeling desperately misunderstood
  • Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief
  • Extreme bouts of rage
  • An inability to be comfortable with yourself
  • Strange dreams
  • Sudden inexplicable anxiety followed by rapid dips into depression

The list goes on....

“Nobody understands!” I hear this frustrated cry from abused people a lot.

I felt the same way when I was recovering from emotional abuse at the hands of a narcissistic/borderline psychopath. If you try and tell people who have no experience with a narcissist (there is no experience like being with a narcissist, its not their fault they can’t understand) about it they will either deny your experience, tell you you are exaggerating, or look at you like you were crazy.

“Maybe my ex is right, maybe it really is me....”

What you need now:

  • Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside.
  • Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional sh*tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create.
  • I can’t promise you that listening to to this book is going to be a “total cure”, but I can promise that if you apply yourself dilligently, take notes, listen, and re-check the chapters, follow all instructions to the letter, with a tenacious resolve to get better you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first 3 days.
  • This is not hype, this is what my audience commonly report.
©2019 Gabriele Di Dio (P)2019 Gabriele Di Dio

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One of best on subject

Excellent book for those who deal with narcissistic personalities. Helped me take a look at myself as well as the narcissist.
Save your emotional life and maybe your physical as well by knowing why some people do what they do to some one they say they love.

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Very Helpful Information!

A character like narcissism is almost impossible to deal with. This helped. This is a helpful and insightful book for those with a narcissist in the family (or other close quarters, like work), and wanting to learn how to enjoy life with them by better understanding them.

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Awesome!

This book has helped me to identify problems that could have altered my relationship with family members. I highly recommend this book. Awesome!

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Disarming the Narcissist!

This information has given me so much hope. I appreciate her insight and her approach to this growing problem. I wish everyone would read it. This book is awesome. A Regular Person Here Is Telling You This.

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Five Stars!

Very interesting and relevant if you are seeking to understand the narcissist in your life. Buy one for you and other family members since there is always more than one. Easy to listen and understand. Will provoke your thoughts.

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Would definitely recommend!

A must have not only for those in relationship with a Narcissist but for self growth in difficult relationships. This audio version very helpful.

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Very Helpful!

I found this book helpful in giving me knowledge in understanding how the Narcissist thinks and why I am hurt when expecting him to feel the same way I believe others feel. This also, gives an understanding in dealing with other situations that are more public and not as personal. I recommend this book.

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Would definitely recommend

This is a hard topic to explain and even harder one to try to understand but the author kindly shares her knowledge without judgement which makes the topic easier to understand.

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Great Information !

This book gave me the tools I needed to deal with those in my life ! The information is great !

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recommend it!!!

The title is alluring. Well, the content is incredibly thought-provoking. I think that we all have narcissists in our lives. So, this book helps you to understand how to communicate with them. I think it will help you in your personal relationships as well as your business relationships. I love the way that the author approaches it.

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  • Robert McCall
  • 06-02-19

Five Stars

It is filled with practical advice for dealing with this difficult personality type. No matter who you are, unless you live under a rock you have to deal with a narcissist at times. This book helps make it easier by giving rationales for their behavior, and strategies to deal with them.

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  • John Healy
  • 06-02-19

Help to understand a narcissist

This book was recommended by my therapist and I have found it extremely enlightening. It contains very practical information on dealing with narcissists wherever you encounter them - family, friends or workplace. I recommend this book to anyone who is struggling with a person afflicted with this disorder.

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  • Mary Guzman
  • 06-02-19

Highly recommended!

Excellent book! It's as if the author had met every narcissist I've come across. Very well written and without useless jargon. This book is a great help for finding renewed sanity!

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  • Hiedi Smith
  • 06-02-19

know thyself and know the others

I bought this book to learn how to deal with a narcissistic person. I learned that I also have many narcissistic traits. Excellent read.

Very useful information

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  • Beverly Billups
  • 06-02-19

What an insightful book!

It was very helpful to listen the descriptions and stories and know that I am not alone in dealing with someone who has this problem. It gives really good advice to those of us who need help keeping ourselves sane around someone who is narcissistic.

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  • Kelly Gooch
  • 06-02-19

Five Stars

I liked it very much. It's one of the first books I listen about Narcissism & I learned much. It's very important to know a little how an Abuser thinks & why he/she behaves the way they do !!

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  • Iona Bailey
  • 06-02-19

Extremely Helpful

I desparately needed help on how to constructively and protectively approach it for myself and family. I am a clinician, and expected the language to be more of that nature, but instead it is written in a practical, straight forward manner. I feel very lucky to have stumbled across this book, and am grateful for the information it provided.

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  • Monica Peterson
  • 06-02-19

A good book for everyone

I found it clear and easy to understand . It's somewhat technical at times, in the psychology and early childhood development of the narcissistic personality, which I found helpful.

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  • Alejandro Velasquez
  • 06-02-19

Simple yet brilliant

I work with someone who fits the most extreme definition. A good read but don't know if any professional techniques are applicable to the hard cases that you have to work with, However it is good to have an idea of what makes them tick and how they manipulate. I actually showed him this and two other books and he didn't even get it that I was talking about him.

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  • Archie Porter
  • 06-02-19

HELPFUL!!!

This has some great information in it. Suspecting that a loved one is a Narcissist I needed some tools in my tool belt to best handle them. This has some recommendations