You planned the outfit. You picked the spot. You even texted your location to a friend. Because dating today isn’t just about finding a connection — it’s about staying safe.

In this gripping episode, Andrea sits down with a Central Coast law enforcement investigator to get real about the hidden risks of modern dating. From chilling stats on sexual assault to the steps you must take to protect yourself, this conversation is your unofficial survival guide for dating in today’s world.

They cover why most assaults are committed by someone the victim already knows, how alcohol clouds consent, what bystanders can do to prevent harm, and why reporting — even without prosecution — still matters.

This isn’t just a podcast. It’s a wake-up call.

Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault and may be difficult for some listeners.

If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, you're not alone.
You can call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.rainn.org for 24/7 confidential support and resources.

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You’re vibing… and then suddenly, they chew too loudly, say “cool beans,” or text you one too many emojis — and BAM. The ick strikes. But what if it’s not just a silly turnoff? In this episode, we break down what the ick actually is (spoiler: it’s deeper than cringe), when it’s a legit warning sign, and when it might be self-sabotage in disguise. Get ready for some wild real-world ick stories, a little expert insight, and a whole lot of hmm, maybe it’s me moments.

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In this part 2 episode of "Date Smarter. Sexier.", matchmaker and dating expert, Andrea LaRosa (www.datesmartersexier.com) discusses the symptoms of a basic sex life with her co-host and producer, Canaan (www.canaandewey.com).