Doing Dating Better with the "Profile Helper"
Are you feeling burnt out by the "dopamine slot machine" of modern dating apps? In this episode of the Cupid’s Coach podcast, veteran matchmaker Julie Furman sits down with the "OG" of online dating, Eric Resnick of Profile Helper. With over 40 years of combined experience, they share a candid look at how to navigate the digital dating world without losing your mind—or your heart—to the wrong people.

Julie and Eric dive into the shift from traditional sites to social discovery apps, the truth about "unnatural matches," and why your profile should never feel like a sales pitch. Whether you're recently divorced, widowed, or just frustrated with swiping, this episode provides the "training wheels" you need to transition from "me" to "we".


Key Takeaways:
* Dating App Evolution: Understanding the "sweet spot" between traditional apps and casual swiping.
* The "First Week" Rule: Why you should aim to meet in person or via video within 3 to 7 days to avoid "dying on the vine".
* Age & Height Reality: Moving past rigid checkboxes to focus on shared values and lifestyle alignment.
* Privacy & Safety: How to protect yourself from romance scams and when to use tools like Google Voice.
* Authentic Photos: Why candid "friend-captured" shots often beat stiff professional portraits.
Connect with Eric Resnick: Get a free profile assessment at ProfileHelper.com.

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How do you find true compatibility in dating — especially later in life?
In this episode, Julie Ferman chats with Ann, founder of After Hello, about navigating age gaps, attraction expectations, lifestyle differences, and emotional intelligence in matchmaking.
Key takeaways:
* Why fantasy dating can set you up for frustration
* How to assess compatibility beyond surface-level checklists
* Managing power dynamics and expectations around money
* Using phone calls and virtual dates to streamline connections
* Insights from Anne’s own love story and client experiences
Dating later in life is about connection, alignment, and flexibility — not just chemistry.

Is the label, "Narcissist" misused and overused? Yes. Let's clear things up. Julie shares colleague Marina Edelman's short list on what narcissism REALLY is, how to spot it, and why you should run the other way.