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Codependency Breaking the Patterns: A Recovery Guide for a Codependent Personality. Cure Your Soul and Heal from Being in an Abusive Relationship with Narcissists & Sociopaths. Be Codependent No More

Narrated by: Sarah Pavelec
Length: 3 hrs and 5 mins
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Publisher's Summary

If you have a codependent personality and are sick and tired of being in one sided relationships, that are emotionally destructive and you keep falling back into the same old habitats then keep reading. 

Are you sick and tired of not being to break the patterns of being codependent?

Have you tried endless other solutions? But nothing seems to stick for more than a few weeks or months. 

Do you finally want to say goodbye to not having mutually satisfying relationships and discover something which works for you?  

If so, then you’ve come to the right place.

You see, having a healthy relationship doesn’t have to be difficult.

Even if you have researched every method on changing your behaviors, or don’t fully understand what exactly you should be doing, it takes action in order to be able to effectively unlearn these traits. it’s easier than you think. No two people are the same so it needs to be understood that a certain treatment that works for one person may not work for you.

Multiple studies have determined that the one of the root causes is usually from traumas & unhealthy behaviors that surrounded us as we were growing up.  

As stated in the Journal of Aggression, Maltreatment & Trauma: “These investigations have led to the realization that survivors of childhood emotional maltreatment suffer from myriad psychological and social difficulties. These difficulties influence the quality and nature of intimate relationships formed by emotional abuse survivors.”

Studies like this confirm that discovering what exactly led you to this path of codependency is vital in order to start the recovery process. 

Here’s just a tiny fraction of what you’ll discover:

  • How to delve into your past and find the keys that will unlock your current behaviors
  • How to heal from past experiences. The self care tips you see Online are great but discover why healing from a deeper level is the only way to break the cycle!
  • Identify the patterns of behavior and how to break these. 
  • How to put yourself first and understanding your emotions
  • Success stories from real women
  • Should I start saying 'No' more often? Will I ever stop worrying about things that are out of my control?
  • Much, much more!

Take a second to imagine how you’ll feel once you break these patterns, if you have children (now, or maybe in the future), how you changing your ways can be a huge benefit in their lives also!

So even if you’re tired of the endless cycle you have found yourself in or have hit an all-time low and have realized this needs to STOP now. 

You can change your approach and your feelings towards changing in order to stop being codependent. All it takes is the first initial baby steps, dedication and the belief that you are going to make a change!

Start that change today.

©2018 Zara Torrens (P)2018 Zara Torrens

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Finally a good guide

What a great guide for me, i struggled in a bad relationship for years and if you have been through the same you will relate and know how hard it can be and how isolated and paralysed you feel, i urge you to read this

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Some fantastic info in here

Really fantastic, I think this book will make a difference in my life! so honestly, thank you!

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Really easy to understand

well explained and easy to understand, with such a hard hitting topic this book really redefines therapy and strategy

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Great read

I really needed something to give me a structure and path to the road to recovery

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Glad I choose this book

Really happy that I picked this book. Credit well spent! :) I have learnt new things and have already started to use this in my life!

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I have escaped so can you

I was stuck and thought there was no way out, other people in a similar situation need to help themselves and get the help they need.

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  • Nylah
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  • 01-20-19

Learnt a lot !

Thanks for this book, it has really made a diffreence in my life already! Can't wait to just focus on the recovery process to ensure I break the patterns for life!

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If you've been in an abusive relationship

I have been through a really hard time and have been lost for a long time, this book has been such a relief and such a great tool to understand and have the right mindset to be back to my normal self

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Great recovery guide

Really useful book. Planning to listen to it again the start of next week. I am really hoping that this year I can heal and move on.

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Ready to break the patterns !

I a determined to make sure I stop this cycle. Have read and listened to various books and videos but got a lot of great stuff from this one, so would recommend to anyone who has been in an abusive relationships, with a partner or family etc

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  • Jen King
  • 01-27-19

Recover well..

This really helped me i listened to it a few times as i took many different things from it each time

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  • Natasha D
  • 01-27-19

Defo not codependent anymore!

I have done many things to get over my past abusive relationship, this is one i really stand by

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  • Osman Zahoor
  • 01-27-19

Relateable

Highly relateable, wanted to explore this as its something i know i needed help with

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  • Live 23
  • 01-27-19

Brill

Finally a book that tackles all the issues i needed help with, really would shout about this one!

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  • Gem16
  • 01-27-19

Love it!

Love it..love it... i need to get a few of my girlfriends to listen to this as i know they will benefit

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  • Christine Riley
  • 01-27-19

Beak it and get better

Breaking the pattern is so important and love the way this book highlights that to the listener

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  • Hugo R
  • 01-27-19

such a good book!

Bought this a few days ago and listened to it at the gym, what a great guide ladies i really recommend this honestly

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  • San Hol
  • 01-27-19

decent job

very well executed, recommended this to my bestie who also suffered a bad relationship ;0

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  • Thomas Sheldon
  • 01-27-19

such a sensitive topic well explained

Topics like this need great books to be written to give valid accounts and information

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  • Richard L18
  • 01-27-19

Curing is key!...

I really needed something like this to help with my feeling and to hear of others accounts