We only recorded this episode because we finally had a babysitter for both kids… and realized we haven’t actually sat down and talked, like really talked, since our Christmas baby was born.

Two under two will humble you.

In this episode, we catch up in real time. We talk about what going into labor was actually like, how life has shifted since adding another little human to the mix, and why we’re (probably) done having kids. We also cover how Duffy got skinny, what the future of the podcast looks like, and the wild fact that I truly never thought I’d still be doing this show five years later.

It’s chaotic. It’s honest. It’s sleep-deprived.And it’s probably the most “us” episode we’ve done in a while

This episode gets a little… Stranger than usual. We’re joined by Phoenix for one of the most unhinged and hilarious conversations we’ve had yet. We dressed up as Steve, Dustin, and Will from Stranger Things and basically let Phoenix run the show. We somehow end up breaking down what 6–7 actually is, what adults really do all day, and Phoenix gives us his brutally honest take on taxes, mortgages, and why all of it is trash. We also talk Stranger Things, Santa Claus, growing up, and the kind of logic only an 8-year-old can confidently stand on. Pure chaos, accidental wisdom, and a solid reminder to not take life too seriously.

This week it’s just me, catching y’all up on what life has been like lately and a recap of this year. I talk about opening the studio, feeling more down than usual this year, and just moving slower overall. I even talk about how I became a retired teachers.. lol andwanted to find financial security for my family. I discussed sticking with my dreams, not giving up, and double downing on everything. I also touched on the new baby Ozzy coming this December, my retainer clients, and what it’s been like running the studio when things get tough. There’s a little Merced Mall update and shout out, some AI talk, and where my head’s at going into 2026 with personal goals and the new idea I have for the podcast. Plus a big THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO HAS EVER SUPPORTED ME. I truly appreciate everyone still rocking with me through all of it.

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