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The Distance Between Us Audiobook

The Distance Between Us: A Memoir

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Publisher's Summary

When Reyna Grande’s father leaves his wife and three children behind in a village in Mexico to make the dangerous trek across the border to the United States, he promises he will soon return from "El Otro Lado" (The Other Side) with enough money to build them a dream house where they can all live together. His promises become harder to believe as months turn into years. When he summons his wife to join him, Reyna and her siblings are deposited in the already overburdened household of their stern, unsmiling grandmother. The three siblings are forced to look out for themselves; in childish games they find a way to forget the pain of abandonment and learn to solve very adult problems.

When their mother at last returns, the reunion sets the stage for a dramatic new chapter in Reyna’s young life: her own journey to "El Otro Lado" to live with the man who has haunted her imagination for years, her long-absent father.

In this extraordinary memoir, award-winning writer Reyna Grande vividly brings to life her tumultuous early years, capturing all the confusion and contradictions of childhood, especially one spent torn between two parents and two countries. Elated when she feels the glow of her father’s love and approval, Reyna knows that at any moment he might turn angry or violent. Only in books and music and her rich imaginary life does she find solace, a momentary refuge from a world in which every place feels like "El Otro Lado".

©2013 Reyna Grande (P)2013 AudioGO

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    Amazon Los Angeles, CA 12-22-15
    Amazon Los Angeles, CA 12-22-15 Member Since 2014
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    "Great story - Culturally INCOMPETENT Reading"
    What would have made The Distance Between Us better?

    I think this is a dynamic and well-written book, but I made the mistake of buying on Audible instead of reading the book myself. Big mistake. The reader has a hideous sing-songy disturbingly fake Mexican accent and mispronounces so many words in Spanish throughout the reading from beginning to end, that I would actually like my money back.


    What could Reyna Grande have done to make this a more enjoyable book for you?

    It's not the author but AUDIBLE, whose standards for English/Spanish readers is pathetic and embarrassing. Get competent reader forgodsakes!


    Who would you have cast as narrator instead of Tanya Eby?

    ANYONE who can read well and pronounce Spanish (Mexican Spanish, please!) competently without using some stereotyped Mexican accent. I think it was unethical and unprofessional of the reader to accept this assignment, and speaks loads about Audible's lack of attention to it's growing English/Spanish bilingual readership. Get a clue, Audible!


    Any additional comments?

    Disappointed in Audible

    14 of 14 people found this review helpful
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    Marissa Rodriguez 01-20-16 Member Since 2015
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    "A beautiful story, but narration by Siri"
    Would you try another book from Reyna Grande and/or Tanya Eby?

    Reyna Grande is an incredible talent, but the narration is completely incompatible with the story style. The narrator is flat and with no Spanish-language pronunciation. It honestly sounds as if you are hearing this story through your car's GPS system.


    How could the performance have been better?

    Another narrator should have been selected.


    You didn’t love this book... but did it have any redeeming qualities?

    The book is not the problem. The narration makes it very difficult to listen and become absorbed in this wonderful immigration story.


    9 of 9 people found this review helpful
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    Beatriz Topete 02-17-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Loved the Story...the narration...not so much"
    What did you love best about The Distance Between Us?

    I loved the story. It captivated me from beginning to end. I couldn't wait to get in my car and see what the Grandes were up to.


    What did you like best about this story?

    I very much enjoyed how Reyna Grande allowed me to be there at every important moment, seeing what she saw, feeling what she felt, even during the darkest moments.


    Would you be willing to try another one of Tanya Eby’s performances?

    It really depends. I think she did a fine job, except when she tried to say the Spanish words. I literally cringed every time she tried to say something in Spanish. She even messed up Sandra Cisneros name. It would have been much more enjoyable if the person narrating it would have been able to pronounce the Spanish words correctly. I almost quit listening to it...had the storyline not been good...I would have.


    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    claudia 07-15-15
    claudia 07-15-15 Member Since 2016
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    "Exceptional!"

    I LOVED this book, it made cry, laugh and think all in one story. I think it is an amazing story Reyna Grande told.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Romeo 03-23-15
    Romeo 03-23-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Great memoir 5 stars!"

    Great memoir from the beginning till the end. I don't really like reading but I enjoyed reading this book, because I can relate in many ways. It has also opened my eye wider to see and understand what my people have been going through for so many years; in hopes for a better life. Thanks to my English 103 professor Ms. Hernandez at East Los Angeles college for choosing this book for us to read and also thanks to Reyna for writing it. Keep up the good work. "Si Se Puede"!!!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Anonymous 11-06-17
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    "Amazing "

    This book has been one of the most emotional and hardest books to read. The realness of the situation was very moving. I encourage everyone to read it to help you understand it very different perspective about what immigrant students experience.

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    Rudy 10-07-17
    Rudy 10-07-17 Member Since 2017
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    "Incredible Book"

    this books was incredibly. I connected with the author like I've never done before. This is a must read 💯

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    Jasmine Roman 10-05-17
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    "i love this book."

    from a mexican background, this story really hits home. its astonishing to hear someone elses story so silimilar to my history.. great writing.

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    dellanira 09-29-17
    dellanira 09-29-17 Member Since 2017
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    "great book"

    love this book; kept me listening. only thing I've would have changed different narrator. other than that great story.

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    Lisa POUGHKEEPSIE, NY, United States 09-18-17
    Lisa POUGHKEEPSIE, NY, United States 09-18-17 Member Since 2012
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    "Excellent! A must read!"

    What a memoir ! Rayna Grande, kudos to you for achieving such success in your life. I am deeply saddened by your experiences but you truly epitomize the power of hope, perseverance and hard work. I encourage others to listen to this. You will learn much about the realities of growing up in Mexico, and then America as an immigrant. This is something American citizens should more know about, especially in today's charged political climate.

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