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A heart-wrenching yet hopeful memoir of a young marriage that is redefined by mental illness and affirms the power of love.

Mark and Giulia's life together began as a storybook romance. They fell in love at 18, married at 24, and were living their dream life in San Francisco. When Giulia was 27, she suffered a terrifying and unexpected psychotic break that landed her in the psych ward for nearly a month. One day she was vibrant and well adjusted; the next she was delusional and suicidal, convinced that her loved ones were not safe.

Eventually Giulia fully recovered, and the couple had a son. But soon after Jonas was born, Giulia had another breakdown, and then a third a few years after that. Pushed to the edge of the abyss, everything the couple had once taken for granted was upended.

A story of the fragility of the mind and the tenacity of the human spirit, My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward is, above all, a love story that raises profound questions: How do we care for the people we love? What and whom do we live for? Breathtaking in its candor, radiant with compassion, and written with dazzling lyricism, Lukach's is an intensely personal odyssey through the harrowing years of his wife's mental illness, anchored by an abiding devotion to family that will affirm listeners' faith in the power of love.

©2017 Mark Lukach (P)2017 HarperCollins Publishers

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touched me so much

This book really tugged on my heart . It was so honest and raw. I felt myself relate as a person who struggled with depression. I also related on a basic human level. At times I felt angry at Julia and sorry for Mark. I realize that this is the problem. We do not put enough understanding into mental health. I am sure that if there was anyway that she could have controlled her psychotic episodes then she would have. what a great book. now I need to make up the sleep for the two nights that I lost from not being able to put this book down.

6 of 6 people found this review helpful

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Loving Tribute to a Wife by a Committed Husband

This is really more of a true account by the loving husband caring for his sick wife. We see her struggles with an unforgiving illness in the eyes of someone who will stand by her no matter what they face. People should be so lucky to experience that kind of love. This was excellently written and narrated. Difficult at times, but important to hear. Beautiful.

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beautiful story!

i love the book and the narrator. is a sad and emotional book. the last chapters are to repetitive dor the situations but is real life. and real life sometimes is like that.

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Beautiful, raw & honest peak into mental illness

Where does My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

I loved this book. It was a beautiful, raw & honest peak into mental illness. I liked that it was from the caregivers perspective. Other books I've read are from the individual's perspective. I too struggle from bipolar, and I'd recommend this book to anyone interested in it. It's not a walk in the park, but people who suffer with this mental illness are worth fighting for and giving a voice to. Bipolar can't be cured, but it can be managed to allow the individual to live a relatively normal life.

Who was your favorite character and why?

Mark, the husband. He stayed true to his wedding vows and stayed with his wife through thick and thin.

Which scene was your favorite?

Oddly enough, I liked the scene when she quit going off her medication. It shows how important it is to stay on your medication even if you feel like you're okay without it. A diabetic wouldn't stop taking insulin and expect to be fine, and the same holds true with mental illness. There's no shame in being on medication to help you keep your life on track. It's not your fault your chemicals and hormones are out of balance. I think it's largely due to genetics.

Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

I definitely cried in parts. It struck close to home many times.

Any additional comments?

I would hope anyone who reads this that does not suffer or does not have a loved one who suffers from mental illness would gain some empathy toward people who do.

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Heavy but Powerful

Heavy book but important narrative. I met the author and he is every bit as amazing ad sensitive as this book makes him seem.

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Absolutely perfection!

This book is so lovely and really shows a side to mental illness we all need to see. There are so many people affected everyday with this and we need to be more aware and more caring!!!

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Beautiful. Honest. Raw.

What a beautiful and honest story. This book shows that experiencing mental illness doesn't mean that your life is over. It's hard, it's painful but it's also full of beauty and growth and resilience and gratitude. So much love, respect, and admiration to you guys Mark, Giulia, and Jonas! 💖 thanks for sharing your story.

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  • karen
  • Chicago, Il United States
  • 06-21-17

A supportive husband -- the best!

As a psychotherapist, I not only appreciated this book but appreciated demonstrating how a supportive family can make the difference in the recovery of a mentally ill loved one. I felt the performance of the audible made the memoir come alive .....an excellent job!

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Important story but wouldn’t recommend

What is intended to be a moving and life-changing story comes off as a cheesy Lifetime movie. Mark’s story is very important to tell, but I feel like it could’ve been told in a TedTalk. There were many times when we were informed of his everyday, mundane activities that added nothing to the story. Though it is human to feel anger and resentment in this unfair situation, it came off as whiny to me. These stories are relevant to my life,coming from a family with mental illness and working in the psych field. But I wouldn’t recommend this one. The narrator doesn’t help. The different voices used were unnecessary for a memoir.

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  • Bill
  • Coppell, TX, United States
  • 11-10-17

A good book.

This is a straightforward good book.

A memoir of a young family coping with severe mental illness. Not an extraordinary story or case of mental illness, rather a down-to-earth recount of the day to day struggles to make your life normal in these circumstances.

This is a good read for those who may be in similar circumstances. The way the story is written is fluid and smooth, going from the mundane day-to-day living to the urgent and stressing situations people and their families face while managing the problems caused by psychiatric disorders.

An essential message of this memoir is the reassurance that a “normal” life is possible when a loved is affected by this type of illness.

The writing style makes it easy to follow. The voice performance is very good and does not distract from keeping your attention focused on the story being narrated.