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How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids Audiobook

How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids

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Publisher's Summary

A hilariously candid account of one woman's quest to bring her post-baby marriage back from the brink, with life-changing, real-world advice.

How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids tackles the last taboo subject of parenthood: the startling, white-hot fury that new (and not-so-new) mothers often have for their mates. After Jancee Dunn had her baby, she found that she was doing virtually all the household chores, even though she and her husband worked equal hours. She asked herself: How did I become the "expert" at changing a diaper?

Many expectant parents spend weeks researching the best crib or safest car seat, but spend little if any time thinking about the titanic impact the baby will have on their marriage - and the way their marriage will affect their child.

Enter Jancee, her well-meaning but blithely unhelpful husband, their daughter, and her boisterous extended family, who show us the ways in which outmoded family patterns and traditions thwart the overworked, overloaded parents of today.

On the brink of marital Armageddon, Dunn plunges into the latest relationship research, solicits the counsel of the country's most renowned couples' and sex therapists, canvasses fellow parents, and even consults an FBI hostage negotiator on how to effectively contain an "explosive situation". Instead of having the same fights over and over, Dunn and her husband must figure out a way to resolve their larger issues and fix their family while there is still time. As they discover, adding a demanding new person to your relationship means you have to reevaluate - and rebuild - your marriage. In an exhilarating twist, they work together to save the day, happily returning to the kind of peaceful life they previously thought was the sole province of couples without children.

Part memoir, part self-help book with actionable and achievable advice, How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids is an eye-opening look at how the man who got you into this position in this first place is the ally you didn't know you had.

©2017 Jancee Dunn (P)2017 Hachette Audio

What the Critics Say

"Jancee Dunn blends marital advice from real experts with her down to earth folksy wit in Hot Not to Hate Husband After Kids. If your husband has a better relationship with his phone than he does with his baby, you need to hit him with this book - and then ask him to read it." (Jen Mann, New York Times best-selling author of People I Want to Punch in the Throat)

"Part memoir, part self-help book, Jancee Dunn's How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids offers relationship research combined with personal anecdotes. Strategies learned from therapists, friends, and even an FBI hostage negotiator help Dunn heal her marriage - and set a good example for her kid." (Real Simple)

"This book is a very valuable addition to the whole huge transition to becoming parents. This book can help preserve the greatest gift you will ever give your baby: a loving relationship between the baby's parents." (John Gottman, author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work)

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    M Wyatt Brooklyn, NY 03-24-17
    M Wyatt Brooklyn, NY 03-24-17 Member Since 2015
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    "You don't need a husband or kids to appreciate!"

    You don't need a husband or kids to appreciate the insight shared in this book! Was emailed a link to the Jezebel article about it by my boyfriend and finished it in two days. Definitely recommend for anyone who is building a life with a partner.

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    Nicola Fell 07-19-17
    Nicola Fell 07-19-17
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    "Thank you Jancee! All the wisdom and very funny"

    Thank you Jancee. All the wisdom and very funny. Good tips and covers everything from romance to money to how to argue respectfully

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    Kory Lagrone Houston, Texas 06-02-17
    Kory Lagrone Houston, Texas 06-02-17 Member Since 2014

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    "Husbands Listen"

    Great look into the minds of parents! You need to know this stuff! It will open your mind to what is going on in your partners mind and if you care should help improve your relationship!

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    Eric C Hubert 05-31-17
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    "recommended for all moms!"

    Accurate, Funny, honest and, at times, eye opening! I reviewed things I learned in the book with my husband and we have already begun to make some changes. I also made it a point to praise us for all we were already doing. The audio version allowed me to actually get through the book while chasing my toddler and doing all that a stay home and part time working mom needs to get done in a day. highly recommended!

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    Maureen Dillon Beach, CA, United States 05-22-17
    Maureen Dillon Beach, CA, United States 05-22-17 Member Since 2008
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    "So much good info even if married without kids!"

    She is so funny and so smart to both fix her marriage and get paid for it!! Love this book and every professional she consulted with to help her. I even love the comedians she quotes. Terry Real is the bomb! I love him and Esther too. Well done Jancee!!
    I'm on my 3 X listening to this book back to back. It has become the sound track to my life.

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    Jen Brown 05-10-17
    Jen Brown 05-10-17 Member Since 2017
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    "Excellent Book! Title should be changed though..."
    Where does How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    This is a great book, very fun to listen to, I laughed out loud!


    What was one of the most memorable moments of How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids?

    Her therapy session with the scary therapist and getting pointers from the FBI negotiators


    What about Jancee Dunn’s performance did you like?

    She is funny, light hearted, and tells the truth


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    yes


    Any additional comments?

    YES! It should REalLy be "how not to hate your SPOUSE after kids" - I want my husband to listen to it but it is hard to with the title. However, this book teaches amazing things about conflict resolution in general, as well as how to NOT damage your kids when fighting with your spouse. I seriously think you should consider putting it out with a new title, it is a must read for every married couple... Marriage is hard, and a lot of what is covered in this book is not talked about often enough... it is nice to know we are all in the same boat! I highly recommend this book...

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    Yoyobye 04-20-17
    Yoyobye 04-20-17 Member Since 2017
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    "Hit a nerve"

    This book is for people who want practical tangible ways to make their home life more peaceable, their discussions less stressful and feel more validated and free as a wife and mother.
    I've read the 5 Love Languages, Hold Me Tight, done counseling, read Gary Chapman, but the way she hashes out the nitty gritty of everything from daily chores to emotional identity is pure gold. She levels with so many mothers, and in my opinion does so bravely and emerges with her own dignity humbled but intact.
    The world doesn't need more vague high minded self help books or distant myriads of psychology studies. Her work in digging into research and professional help for financial planning, organizing, scheduling, sexing, cleaning, cooking, marriage counseling, personal reflection, parenting and yelling yield great pieces of advice. And multiples to choose from at that. Get this for any mother. It will be a balm to her exhausted soul!

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    Abigail Segal 04-13-17 Member Since 2016
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    "Life changing and very enjoyable"

    I highly recommend this book. Pure perfection. I absolutely loved it. It made my commute fly by.

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